Hooking up with my college straight friends
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It’s because I am living with facts! Not fantasy
However, I also respect your feelings and ideas. I just shared my thoughts!
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Nobody's totally straight or gay. I don't like how the word bisexual is used, cause it's Heard like you have no preferences. Almost everybody's got, but that's not a reason to eat everyday what you think is your favorite food. Preferences Can change, though.
Not enough people are open minded with sexuality, but I really think things are more simple and fluid than people usually think they are.
Not enough people are open minded with sexuality, but I really think things are more simple and fluid than people usually think they are.
It is the fact, not fantasy. It happened in my life so may times but whatever........It’s because I am living with facts! Not fantasy
Cuz you never have that experience. I been there, done that.It’s because I am living with facts! Not fantasy
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Hahahaha ! Alcohol is a Key element Indeed, just to make them ok with something they already want or Ask to themselves but didn't allow to happen before.
But the Big Key element is yourself. Be the best Friend they could have, the best person they could need... Don't hide your gay side, but don't insist on them even if you're attracted in them. Things may happen. Or not. Don't be obsessed and just live.
I've had many straight guys doing so. And many surprises.
But the Big Key element is yourself. Be the best Friend they could have, the best person they could need... Don't hide your gay side, but don't insist on them even if you're attracted in them. Things may happen. Or not. Don't be obsessed and just live.
I've had many straight guys doing so. And many surprises.
Gosh, straight guys experiment all the time. To some, any hole will do.
"Straight" is an identity one embraces or declines rather than a fact. I would say that there are at least as many men who identify as "straight" despite having sex with men as identify as "gay," "bisexual," "pansexual," "nonheteronormative," etc. Further, it's not necessarily inaccurate that a man who has sex with men considers himself straight because there are only a handful of terms that are supposed to cover many, many more permutations of sexual orientation, romantic orientation, privacy orientation (in a heteronormative society), the gender and biological parts of the subject, the gender and biological parts of the object of desire, and of course vehemence of preference vis-a-vis environmental context. As said by a comedian who's name escapes me at the moment but who identifies as straight and living an ordinary family life, "Two weeks without sex and I'll fuck anything."
Surprise, there's a time limit on editing a post. Guess I shouldn't have worried about switching over laundry. X-D
"Straight" is an identity one embraces or denies, rather than it being a declaration of fact. I would say that there are at least as many men who identify as "straight" despite having sex with men as who identify as "gay," "bisexual," "pansexual," "nonheteronormative," etc. Further, it's not necessarily inaccurate that a man who has sex with men considers himself straight because there are only a handful of terms that are supposed to cover many, many more permutations of sexual orientation, romantic orientation, privacy orientation (in a heteronormative society), the gender and biological parts of the subject, the gender and biological parts of the object of desire, inclination toward promiscuity, number of partners, and of course adherence to preference vis-a-vis environmental context. As said by a comedian who's name escapes me at the moment but who identifies as straight and living an ordinary family life, "Two weeks without sex and I'll fuck anything."
I've even known some "straight" guys who have sex with men because he (and possibly his female partner) consider it safe for their relationship and not really cheating, since that's emotional and always potentially threatening. As men have increasingly discovered their prostates and anal rings, some have experimented because they were curious how similar it was to playing with toys or having his woman peg him—and they ARE different, but not necessarily worth repeating for whatever reason they feel. I know a dude who has sex with men only because his woman likes watching and participating in MMF; and he says that without her present and demonstrably getting off, he has zero interest or ability to get into it. I'm told of another local whom I haven't met who's straight but loves to bottom for real dick, having interest only in intersexuals and transexuals who haven't had bottom surgery. I wouldn't be surprised if, should he ever get into a long term relationship, it be with a MtF woman whose dick remained functional (commonly they do not, under hormone therapy and psychological reasons). I haven't even mentioned the gay-for-pay who bottom because they can't get it up for a dude, or who do it just because it can pay so freakin' well. I don't see anybody arguing about whether lesbian sex workers who have only or nearly only male clients are really lesbian.
The point is, no amount of social pressure is going to force a person to identify to themself or others in adherence to a schema that we can't even agree upon, much less that has not even remotely as many variables accounted for in its paradigm as would be required—like the BDSM code, or bear code, or dick code. Even were society completely devoid of religious zealots committed to imposing and enforcing heteronormativity, we can't communicate factual statements about our orientations easily without a neutral yet thorough lexicon. Due to the complexity of identity politics, researchers and health care providers employ simple, factual terminology, filtering out all the other variables not relevant to their purpose, such as "men who have sex with men" or M2M.
"Straight" is an identity one embraces or denies, rather than it being a declaration of fact. I would say that there are at least as many men who identify as "straight" despite having sex with men as who identify as "gay," "bisexual," "pansexual," "nonheteronormative," etc. Further, it's not necessarily inaccurate that a man who has sex with men considers himself straight because there are only a handful of terms that are supposed to cover many, many more permutations of sexual orientation, romantic orientation, privacy orientation (in a heteronormative society), the gender and biological parts of the subject, the gender and biological parts of the object of desire, inclination toward promiscuity, number of partners, and of course adherence to preference vis-a-vis environmental context. As said by a comedian who's name escapes me at the moment but who identifies as straight and living an ordinary family life, "Two weeks without sex and I'll fuck anything."
I've even known some "straight" guys who have sex with men because he (and possibly his female partner) consider it safe for their relationship and not really cheating, since that's emotional and always potentially threatening. As men have increasingly discovered their prostates and anal rings, some have experimented because they were curious how similar it was to playing with toys or having his woman peg him—and they ARE different, but not necessarily worth repeating for whatever reason they feel. I know a dude who has sex with men only because his woman likes watching and participating in MMF; and he says that without her present and demonstrably getting off, he has zero interest or ability to get into it. I'm told of another local whom I haven't met who's straight but loves to bottom for real dick, having interest only in intersexuals and transexuals who haven't had bottom surgery. I wouldn't be surprised if, should he ever get into a long term relationship, it be with a MtF woman whose dick remained functional (commonly they do not, under hormone therapy and psychological reasons). I haven't even mentioned the gay-for-pay who bottom because they can't get it up for a dude, or who do it just because it can pay so freakin' well. I don't see anybody arguing about whether lesbian sex workers who have only or nearly only male clients are really lesbian.
The point is, no amount of social pressure is going to force a person to identify to themself or others in adherence to a schema that we can't even agree upon, much less that has not even remotely as many variables accounted for in its paradigm as would be required—like the BDSM code, or bear code, or dick code. Even were society completely devoid of religious zealots committed to imposing and enforcing heteronormativity, we can't communicate factual statements about our orientations easily without a neutral yet thorough lexicon. Due to the complexity of identity politics, researchers and health care providers employ simple, factual terminology, filtering out all the other variables not relevant to their purpose, such as "men who have sex with men" or M2M.
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Booze,spill dark stain on pants or mas sage.Get them out of their clothes and they are mine.
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Great when stains soak through pants to light color underwear.Off they come!
Actually it’s called a sexual experience just because a straight guy has had an experience with a guy doesn’t make him bi. There’s gay guys that have done stuff with women doesn’t make them
Bi just a sexual experience someone to get them off in that moment. To be bi means you find both genders sexually attractive
Thank you. I am enlightened. I will take all this precious knowledge go wipe my ass with it.
I am not trying to convince any of you. I just don’t agree and I think I am entitled to it!
I mean you can think it just makes you ignorant. There’s opinions and facts and this is just a fact just because you feel how you feel doesn’t make it true or real.Thank you. I am enlightened. I will take all this precious knowledge go wipe my ass with it.
Its an opinion that you think a type of music genre is good or not but it’s a fact that the sky is blue. It’s a fact that in this world with billions and billions of men that some guys have tried kissing another man and didn’t like it there’s men that received a BJ and didn’t like it so they’re not bi sexual because of one gay sexual encounter
2022 people really enjoy saying they’re “entitled” or “it’s their truth” like it changes the truth/facts it doesn’t
This is getting some traction. Thanks to everyone for the nice messages. And for the guys who keep asking for snapchat, I don’t have one.
But what I do have are more stories like this. Mind you this was just freshman year. I have more if anyone wants to hear them
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