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well, if you don't know whether the person is gay, it's probably a good idea to hang out in a neutral setting.... if you're open with your sexual orientation then definitely let that person know, but don't imply any intentions right off the bat.... if/when that person is comfortable enough with you that they can be open about their sexual orientation then they will, but don't press the issue as you can ultimately end up pushing that person away.... if they happen to be gay, then leave it at that and just continue being casual.... if you start hanging out more and you end up feeling a real connection to that person, then the two of you will probably just 'get together' naturally.... if not, then you'll either end up with a straight friend to hang out with, or a gay friend who you can hang out with and scope out other 'interesting' guys....
I'm gonna try to help you here. I think the best way to go about is honesty. If at sometime that someone ask you "are you married" don't say yea I have a wife or a GF to come back later and say I'm gay. You would present yourself as liar. Let that someone knows from the beginning how you are without forcing them to do anything. it's "Yeah I'm gay" move along not "Yeah, I'm gay, are you too good cause I want you"
Like a straight a couple you need to be there, support that someone if they need help, visiting them, invite them out be social you need to create a link! You're lucky though, Gays guy are most of the time alone so we crave attention and when someone show interest we're more likely to pick up the signs.
1) Be clear about yourself and your Life-style
2) Be Social with that someone
3) Be attentive to the sign
PS: If the guy knows all the lyrics of Britney spears do the math lol but if he is a Brute watching the football beating up on every thing do the maths too and protect yourself.
Like a straight a couple you need to be there, support that someone if they need help, visiting them, invite them out be social you need to create a link! You're lucky though, Gays guy are most of the time alone so we crave attention and when someone show interest we're more likely to pick up the signs.
1) Be clear about yourself and your Life-style
2) Be Social with that someone
3) Be attentive to the sign
PS: If the guy knows all the lyrics of Britney spears do the math lol but if he is a Brute watching the football beating up on every thing do the maths too and protect yourself.
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