I was with male friends and peers when we were rather young. As an adult I went to a gay/LGB bar. I did not have sex with the first guy I met or with anyone who I met there for about a year as I wasn't attracted to most of the men-if a man is effeminate or has no facial hair I have no attraction to him at all, HIV/AIDS and syphilis were around so I was picky and cautious. I met a man one night when we were drinking and we kissed, jerked each other off and he sucked me off in his car. I saw him once more. Unfortunately he lived far away, had health issues such as the aggressive diabetes people are born with, even with insulin/diet/exercise etc. he couldn't get it under control or reverse it, and is no longer alive.
How did you explore your first interaction with another guy?
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My boss at the restaurant I worked at in high school..hey bud wife's away want to head over after work have some drinks in the pool. We were buzzed in the pool. Bud looks like you have a good sized cock. He stripped off his trunks so I felt like I should also. We were hanging out on the pool steps. He starts talking about wild sex with his wife of course I am young so I get a hard on. He eventually explained his wife liked anal. You ever try anal he asks me. No I say and he says you want to try it. Of course I say not expecting him to squirter sun tan lotion on my cock and sit on my hard cock. I was freaked out for a bit however; he was so tight I think I lasted five minutes before nutting in him. I still remember to this day him hopping off to get us more beers and I could see some of my huge nut dripping out of his tight hole
First time was comparing dicks with a buddy while in college. Just staring at each other while stroking our cocks. Years later I had a friend who would stay over as he would claim he was too tired to drive home after watching a movie. One night we shared a bed and we ended up cuddling and I got hard, I apologized I and then I felt his hard cock against me. I’ll never forget the look of shock and also sheepish look. First time I had sex with a guy was a Grindr hookup. He was in my area and came over and he sucked me off and I felt the world spinning. I had no idea a BJ could be that good. I ended up fucking him. He rode me as I really didn’t know what all to do. He has a massive cock that bounced on my stomach and I knew then that this was very fun! The rest is history.
Damn did his wife ever find out, suspect, or learn he is a paedo/chickenhawk or into sexual abusing teen boys? Had you had any sexual experience with girls, male friends who were peers or your age and not adults?
I am not sure if this counts or not but as a teen for several years I dominated an older married (to a woman) submissive man. We never had "sex" as in vanilla sex but he would give me free marijuana and alcohol if I tackled him, gut punched him, and he could get super demanding, and crazy so I did as he wished.
Yes this man's wife knew about me and had to have suspected or maybe known but denied about her husband as I saw her all the time and was over at their place basically daily partying, taking acid, smoking marijuana, drinking, and sometimes taking pharmaceutical grade amphetamine or Dexedrine, going to dead shows with him and having fun. Yes my parents knew. They were not stupid. They were concerned I would become a polydrug addict, and knew that as a teen if they said not to take drugs that I was going to anyway with the chickenhawk and my friends as it was so much a part of the teen culture then with drug experimentation.
I did not get hurt emotionally, or was not puzzled when I became an adult and aged out and he would still flirt with me but then basically just stopped. I don't have any contact with him, and have not for decades, but he was never arrested for any abuse or put on a sex offender registry.
I told a once well known bisexual writer I was friends with about him as he had basically the same experience as a teen with an older married paedo/chickenhawk and the alcohol, marijuana/hashish, pharmaceutical grade amphetamine Dexedrine, and without the LSD experience or acid trips as a teen that I had-he had those later as an adult but they were much lower doses, What can I say? I loved high doses of acid and shrooms much like my friend Dennis did-and he was also with Roman Catholic clergy at his Jr HS and highschool. Rest in peace K. You are loved, D and I will reunite with you again someday.
I had sexual experiences with ladies. I didn't feel abused as I reflect he was probably a gay male who decided to get married as that is what you did in my small Midwest town back in the early 90s.
It wasn't predatory granted he was 18 years older and both Cathlolic.
We did it two other times prior to me leaving for college.
No regrets at all it was something he wanted to experience and I learned the second time I was supposedly his first.
Who knows..it was passionate to me and I am sorry you experienced an abusive situation. Hope you recovered from it.
It wasn't predatory granted he was 18 years older and both Cathlolic.
We did it two other times prior to me leaving for college.
No regrets at all it was something he wanted to experience and I learned the second time I was supposedly his first.
Who knows..it was passionate to me and I am sorry you experienced an abusive situation. Hope you recovered from it.
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