I'm a side aka oral-only pansexual due to my disability and although my personal situation is that which hasn't provided an ability for a sex partner for over a decade. However, if the situation cha get I would try to seek out a lover even if temporary. I'm not so much saying this for myself though as many disabled people get passed up and are not seen as viable partners. I know a lot of people don't think this but what I see from dating apps is that we are at a big disadvantage.
Never met many gay guys who needed a wheelchair. I do remember one guy i met who used one. He was cute and fun when he was out and about when I was out. Never got close to be anything more than group members. So truth be told I don't really have any experience to talk from. I don't think it would matter much to me either way. If it was fun to spend time together and we were attracted to each other then why not.
I believe there are guys with fetish towards disabled people. How do you feel if your indisposition is seen from that light? (being sexualised for being a wheelchair user), or maybe have you ever met such guy?
Actually - I kinda like it. When there’s people who won’t date you just because of the wheelchair, I feel like it gives me a leg up (pun not intended). But I’m generally sex-positive and open to most fetishes as long as it’s consensual, moral, and legal.
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