I consider this the more submissive view. And what if your partner is indifferent about swallowing? Would you still (like to) do it? Do you communicate about it beforehand?
I definately won't cum in her mouth if I am not sure about her feelings about swallowing. And even if I knew it beforehand she is OK with it, it's not a settled matter I'd like her to do it. I might be old fashioned, and everybody has his/her own feelings, but for me it is a very intimate act, so I want it to be special the first time. Later on, it can become a more "regular" done action, but in essence, still a special a ultimate privilege that I cherish.If he doesn’t want it, he wouldn’t do it, right? He’s the one who is ejaculating…
I guess it’s happened accidentally, earlier in my BJ-giving career mostly, and in those cases I usually swallow because it just seems easier to do than, like getting up and running somewhere to spit…
Do we have a conversation? No I don’t call a meeeting about it with a guy, but there’s usually something like “Where do you want to cum, baby?” if he hasn’t made it clear… but also, if the ejaculation is not pre-planned it’s usually okay too!
Hi Zena, my girlfriend does the same thing and craves every drop. She swallows my vitamins (she calls it) at least 3 times a week.
If I don't know she's ok with it, I definitely let her know when I'm getting close. I let her make the decision on where it's going.
@zenapussy I am the same! Plus its is soooo much easier to clean up. My hubby cums enough that if its all over, then the only option is a shower. So I am glad I like it as much as I do.
If only there was some easy way to find this out!
It's a very pleasurable , intense experience when it happens . I understand a woman's point of view but you men out there you are very lucky and hope you thank your lover for doing an amazing sexual act.
Oh, we’ll maybe I should’ve used past tense verbs. In my current situation it doesn’t very often at all.
