I Love Asians! Who else does?

[Fishsqueezee69]

Just curious.

As an asian, I feel like many gay guys finding us fetish. Except of course it's fellow asian haha. I don't know.

I dont know either. I certainly struggle with this a lot myseld as someone who is a minority that also gets objectified (latino). I am attracted to Asian men, yet I question if its a fetish, am i doing to others what I dont like people doing to me?

I think the answer is that it really depends on ppls intentions. When I like an Asian man, I like him because I like how he looks, I like him because I have had too many positive experiences with ppl of his same racial group, and I admire his culture. I dont objectify it, i don't feel superior and I am willing to explore the full range of sexual experiences, meaning that I dont have a specific fetish that I want to enact with an Asian person.

I think for me, like others in this thread, it does come down to having an overwhelmingly positive experience with asian man and an overwhelmingly negative experience outside of that group. What do you want me to do? Is not my fault.

 

[4097701]

Every race gets objectified, every person looked at in a sexual way gets objectified. I believe that experiences play into this, like I never thought about X or Y person or person of X or Y race, until this one time, something happened or somebody was super sexy... that opens you up a little to that idea, for me, I didn't really think of Asian men as sexy in the gay world because every one I've met is super flamboyant.... however lately something happened and changed that perception. When I was a kid my friends father who was Korean was very sexy to me, and I never thought about his race. Years later, I have seen a lot of very cute Asian men, but it was never in any gay context or whatever, until recently, and I realized I have never had sex with an Asian, and I think that is a little weird considering how many Asian friends I've had... but I never had an attractive, fairly masculine Asian man to try it out with.... with all this racism and fetishism around, I sort of realize whey a lot of Asian guys don't deal with the gay scene as much. I thought it was that most were closeted, but it's more likely that a lot of them are avoiding discomfort and rejection.

 

[1446622]

I dont know either. I certainly struggle with this a lot myseld as someone who is a minority that also gets objectified (latino). I am attracted to Asian men, yet I question if its a fetish, am i doing to others what I dont like people doing to me?

I think the answer is that it really depends on ppls intentions. When I like an Asian man, I like him because I like how he looks, I like him because I have had too many positive experiences with ppl of his same racial group, and I admire his culture. I dont objectify it, i don't feel superior and I am willing to explore the full range of sexual experiences, meaning that I dont have a specific fetish that I want to enact with an Asian person.

I think for me, like others in this thread, it does come down to having an overwhelmingly positive experience with asian man and an overwhelmingly negative experience outside of that group. What do you want me to do? Is not my fault.

I agree with all that you said and as you wrote "I think for me, like others in this thread, it does come down to having an overwhelmingly positive experience with asian man and an overwhelmingly negative experience outside of that group.", that about summarizes my experiences over all. I am moving soon to the Philippines, because I love the experience there, and want to get as far away as I can from what I had here in the West.

 

[hotdickcum]

I agree with all that you said and as you wrote "I think for me, like others in this thread, it does come down to having an overwhelmingly positive experience with asian man and an overwhelmingly negative experience outside of that group.", that about summarizes my experiences over all. I am moving soon to the Philippines, because I love the experience there, and want to get as far away as I can from what I had here in the West.

Not a good time right now to move to PH, esp after the whole coronavirus.

 

[hotdickcum]

I have not visited this thread I made for a long time. And wow, this has gone from all kinds of direction. haha.

 

[hotdickcum]

Trump using HIS terminology of “Chinese virus” is NOT helping in this matter. Once a virus is named (covid-19) only the name should be used

Both Covid-19 and SARS-Cov-2 are acceptable.

SARS-Cov-2 is the name of the virus. Covid-19 is the name of the disease.

So it's like saying, I have mad cow disease (covid-19), which was caused by prions (SARS-COV-2).

Chinese virus, of course, is non-existent.

 

[1446622]

Not a good time right now to move to PH, esp after the whole coronavirus.

I plan to travel there again forna visit in June of 2021, so I have enough time for now. But a few years after that, I will movw there to stay.

 

[herbho]

Does anyone have any idea what is going on here? If you want a major laugh, turn on the English subtitles.

 

[1446622]

Awww..... so adorable! They want to play! Tell them both to STRIPP!!!

 

[1283952]

Definitely! I would fuck with one if I’d have the chance

 

[276992]

Nope

 

[1446622]

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Enchong Dee is soooo YUMMY!!!

Piolo Pascuale

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Enchong Dee is soooo YUMMY!!!

Definitely! I would fuck with one if I’d have the chance

Here is Piolo Pascual

Awww..... so adorable! They want to play! Tell them both to STRIPP!!!

Piolo Pascual is also beautiful

 

[deleted1074483]

I have not visited this thread I made for a long time. And wow, this has gone from all kinds of direction. haha.

good to see you back around @hotdickcum we missed your gorgeousness;-)

 

[Chowderbomb]

As an Asian male myself, it's nice to see people's thoughts on this. I don't have anatural affinity towards Asians perhaps due to overfamiliarity (I have a thing for Latin guys though), though there is a lot of diversity.

For men, it's generally easier to find smooth slender non obese Asians, youthful in looks, not overly muscled, well kept, gentle. We might on average have shorter dicks but make up in other areas.
Vigor, sex drive and romance can be a surprising feature as well.

Asian women are generally petite and super innocent and cute that it feels good to have your way with them (but mutually, of course). They are often more "natural" than other chicks and quite down to earth. One of my high school mates had a thing for Asian ladies, and I think this was a part of that. They also seem to age more slowly at least prior to menopause, very smooth bright skin and dark rich hair!

 

[Fishsqueezee69]

As an Asian male myself, it's nice to see people's thoughts on this. I don't have anatural affinity towards Asians perhaps due to overfamiliarity (I have a thing for Latin guys though), though there is a lot of diversity.

For men, it's generally easier to find smooth slender non obese Asians, youthful in looks, not overly muscled, well kept, gentle. We might on average have shorter dicks but make up in other areas.
Vigor, sex drive and romance can be a surprising feature as well.

Asian women are generally petite and super innocent and cute that it feels good to have your way with them (but mutually, of course). They are often more "natural" than other chicks and quite down to earth. One of my high school mates had a thing for Asian ladies, and I think this was a part of that. They also seem to age more slowly at least prior to menopause, very smooth bright skin and dark rich hair!

there is a whole other thread about Asians with big dicks. I don't believe th e streotype. I have personally known more short sucked white boys (2) than I know short dick Asians (none).

 

[Fishsqueezee69]

there is a whole other thread about Asians with big dicks. I don't believe th e streotype. I have personally known more short sucked white boys (2) than I know short dick Asians (none).

damn autocorrect, I meant short dick white boys lol

 

[malakos]

there is a whole other thread about Asians with big dicks. I don't believe th e streotype. I have personally known more short sucked white boys (2) than I know short dick Asians (none).

Does that have nothing to do with over 3/4 of Pennsylvania being White (I'd guess it's even more so outside of the major cities)?

 

[Fishsqueezee69]

Does that have nothing to do with over 3/4 of Pennsylvania being White (I'd guess it's even more so outside of the major cities)?

Probably. I used to live near a big city though.

Also, lots of Irish and Germans in the area I used to live.

Tried to date some latinos here in PA but they were kind of weird. Lol. Not my type. Back when I still lived in PR I dated other Puertorricans and that went better

 

[headbang8]

If I have a type, it’s definitely not Asian. But I fell in love with and married a Japanese man, so go figure.

OTOH, my better half definitely has a type, and it’s western guys like me. His friends told me in no uncertain terms soon after we met. Did I feel “fetishized”? On a personal level, no. We treat each other as unique human beings, not as just sex objects. (But being a sex object in the eyes of your beloved don’t hurt, either.)

 

[Fishsqueezee69]

If I have a type, it’s definitely not Asian. But I fell in love with and married a Japanese man, so go figure.

OTOH, my better half definitely has a type, and it’s western guys like me. His friends told me in no uncertain terms soon after we met. Did I feel “fetishized”? On a personal level, no. We treat each other as unique human beings, not as just sex objects. (But being a sex object in the eyes of your beloved don’t hurt, either.)

Lol I am on the same boat. My husband had a type and I fit perfectly on his. He liked Puertorricans and he like white guys and I am a very light skin light eyes puerorrican so it was a perfect fit.

I def dont feel treated like a sex object but he likes and is proud of being with a puerorrican papi hahahaha.

I never liked Asians as a type until I started going out with him but I did liked skinny, tanned guys with dark hair and he fit that perfectly too.

I wouldn't go back ever. I am very happy with him!