Not here, as I prefer to stay anonymous here, but on the usual dating apps. But normally there are not the kind of men that I find attractive (echoing the title of the thread "I am only interested in straight men") ...
I'm Only Interested in Straight Men, Help
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It's easy to find straight guys on apps in my experience.
Go on a dating website and describe your gender as other or female. Match with guys and talk but never catfish with fake pics. If they seem trustworthy and decent meet (somewhere public).
If you meet straight guys in a bar or whatever its fine to let them know you think they're hot but know when to take no for an answer. It's better to leave the door open for a straight guy than to try and drag him through it.
Thanks for the advice!
In my experience, "straights" that are on gay websites usually look for trans, fems, fem-boys, crossdressers etc. I am a big man with a beard. There is no way I can be mistaken for non-binary or feminine.
In real life, I already use your second strategy. It's usually the way I approach straights in the gym. I am friends with many of them by now, and they all know I am gay. They are pretty cool with it, but none of them chose to walk through that door yet
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Give it time it might happen. But you have to wait on a crystal clear sign from them that they are open to experimentation. In my case, the straight guy i hooked up with at work opened up the door by thanking me for all the assistance I provided to him in a pinch and he said if there was anything he could do to return the favor just let him know. He put emphasis on "anything".Thanks for the advice!
In my experience, "straights" that are on gay websites usually look for trans, fems, fem-boys, crossdressers etc. I am a big man with a beard. There is no way I can be mistaken for non-binary or feminine.
In real life, I already use your second strategy. It's usually the way I approach straights in the gym. I am friends with many of them by now, and they all know I am gay. They are pretty cool with it, but none of them chose to walk through that door yet
We were friends and I playfully flirted with him up to that point. He didnt mind because he loved being the center of attention but it did take me a bit by surprise when he put it out there like that. Even if it did take me 2 years after that to get him to follow through because he was scared.Similar threads
