Is my straight friend actually straight?

[El2024]

Hey everyone. New to posting threads so hopefully I'm doing this right and the story isn't very confusing. The following story is 100% real and I just need some advice and/or opinions on the matter.

Straight (no pun intended) to the story.

So back in 2021 my best friend (let's call him Peter) had his bachelor party in Cancun. He invited me and some of his closest friends which were all straight. Once I got there, Peter told me that there was one of his friends (let's call him Sam) he thought would totally be my type, and boy was he right.
Sam and I hit it off fairly quickly and spent most of the trip together just hanging out and partying, nothing ever happened between us nor was I going to pursue it, but we became close. After a few months the entire bachelor party crew got together again at Peter's place and by then he apparently told Sam I had a lil crush on him! I was mortified but tried to play it cool. To my surprise, Sam completely changed in the way he acted around me. He started making sexual jokes and told everyone how he and I were boyfriends for the night. The night came to an end, nothing happened.

I usually post pictures of myself on insta (I need attention, sorry) and Sam would reply to some of my stories with fire emojis and flirty messages such as "handsome" "cutie" "when am I gonna see you?", and that shit always confused me cuz whenever I answered back, he would never reply.

Almost a year went by and I didn't see Sam again until Peter's wedding. He brought his new girlfriend. She was the sweetest. They broke up a week later. Then we met again at another mutual friend's birthday party where he brought his brother, who is also straight, also hot, (let's call him David). Sam introduced me to David by saying : "If I don't hook up tonight I know who I'm taking home with me" I brushed it off and laughed. Fast forward a couple of hours and we were already drunk. Sam and David were now both teasing me about how they both wanted to get it on with me, blah blah. It was uncomfortable but kind of arousing at the same time. As the night progressed and people started to leave, I stayed back and hung out with the brothers. Now drunk as hell they both started to ask me for "pecks", and of course I obliged. These peck requests kept coming for a bit, and I always responded to them. At one moment Sam came to me and said: "come with us to the bathroom, we're gonna do a Line". I'm not into that but I had no problem going with them. Once inside the bathroom, Sam went straight to the sink to do his line and David stayed back with me, requesting another peck. I, once again, obliged and then he proceeded to grab my bulge. "Oh, he's packing!" he laughed. Sam turned and jokingly said "hey, back off, he's mine". He came over and also grabbed it. We all drunkenly laughed and the night ended and once again, nothing happened, but I couldn't get what happened out of my mind for MONTHS.

Another year of fire emojis and flirty messages on my stories went by. It's 2023 now.
Sam and I met again at another friend's wedding. This time, he brought a new girlfriend (she was annoying). Time went by, shot and drinks went by. Sam and I sat on a table by ourselves chatting about how he was so in love with his new girl and whatever. Then, he told me I looked handsome in a suit (I sure did), and that kind of pissed me off. He then told me he had to pee, and I said I needed to pee as well but we could see a line forming in the bathroom inside the venue. "There's another bathroom all the way on the other side of the yard. Let's go together and make out". I, of course, laughed it off "I'm serious!" he said. (His girlfriend was dancing with her friends on the floor, mind you). I wasn't buying it, but I agreed to go the bathroom with him.

He told me to lock the door, because he really wanted to kiss me. I obviously did and just stood there with my arms crossed to see if he was really going to kiss me or if he was bluffing, yet again. To my surprise... he grabbed my neck and pulled me towards him kissing me for probably 0.5 seconds. He pulled back, and my instant reaction was to kiss him again, this time we fully made out for probably 15 to 20 seconds. He stopped it and said: "I don't think this is my thing". I completely respected that and told him I better go back to the party. He stayed back and I haven't seen him since.

I heard he's single again. He still reacts to my stories once in a while, sends me flirty messages occasionally and even tells me he misses me and wants to hang out with me, but never follows through. I decided to just forget about it, but it's quite difficult for me cuz I wonder if things could go a bit further with him.

Sorry for the long ass story. Any thoughts?

 

[AngelicaAdelaide]

Yes, find a real gay man and move on. Let Sam find his way through by himself.

 

[El2024]

Yes, find a real gay man and move on. Let Sam find his way through by himself.

Thanks!

 

[dreamer20]

@ Peter's 2021 bachelor party in Cancun I met Sam. Sam and I hit it off..hanging out + partying.. A few months later Peter told Sam I had a crush on him! I was mortified. Sam started making sexual jokes and told everyone he and I were boyfriends for the night. Yet nothing happened. On insta Sam replied to some of my stories with fire emojis, messages such as handsome, cutie & when am I gonna see you? and whenever I answered back, he wouldn't reply.

1+ year later, I met Sam and his brother/David at a mutual friend's birthday party. Sam introduced me to David jokily saying: "I know who I'm taking home with me tonight" Sam and David both teased me about wanting to get it on with me.. It was uncomfortable & arousing at the same time. Now drunk as hell Sam said "come with us to the bathroom, we're gonna do a Line". I went with them. Inside the bathroom David grabbed my bulge. "Oh, he's packing!" he laughed. Sam turned and jokingly said "back off, he's mine". He also grabbed it. We laughed, the night ended, nothing happened(?).

^^Something did happen as the pair of them groped you. Sadly you blew your chance to grope them.

Another year of messages on my insta stories went by. It's 2023. I met Sam + annoying girlfriend at a friend's wedding. We chatted about his new love/girl etc. We both needed to pee but saw a line forming @ the bathroom. Quote Sam "There's another bathroom on the other side of the yard. Let's go together and make out". I laughed "I'm serious!" he said. (His girlfriend was dancing on the floor, mind you). We went to the bathroom. He said lock the door; I want to kiss you. I did and wondered if he was bluffing. To my surprise...he grabbed my neck and kissed me. He pulled back and my reaction was to kiss him again, 15 to 20 seconds. He said: "I don't think this is my thing". I respected that and told him I better go back to the party. haven't seen him since.

I heard he's single again. He still reacts to my stories once in a while, sends me flirty messages occasionally and even tells me he misses me and wants to hang out with me, but never follows through.
Sorry for the long ass story. Any thoughts?

El2024 its painfully obvious that you were the butt of the jokes for Peter, Sam and David. It's sad that Sam didn't want to hang out with you anymore and has still been playing with you. Find someone who seriously will go out with you, likes you and won't take your affection for them as a joke.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Hey everyone. New to posting threads so hopefully I'm doing this right and the story isn't very confusing. The following story is 100% real and I just need some advice and/or opinions on the matter.

Straight (no pun intended) to the story.

So back in 2021 my best friend (let's call him Peter) had his bachelor party in Cancun. He invited me and some of his closest friends which were all straight. Once I got there, Peter told me that there was one of his friends (let's call him Sam) he thought would totally be my type, and boy was he right.
Sam and I hit it off fairly quickly and spent most of the trip together just hanging out and partying, nothing ever happened between us nor was I going to pursue it, but we became close. After a few months the entire bachelor party crew got together again at Peter's place and by then he apparently told Sam I had a lil crush on him! I was mortified but tried to play it cool. To my surprise, Sam completely changed in the way he acted around me. He started making sexual jokes and told everyone how he and I were boyfriends for the night. The night came to an end, nothing happened.

I usually post pictures of myself on insta (I need attention, sorry) and Sam would reply to some of my stories with fire emojis and flirty messages such as "handsome" "cutie" "when am I gonna see you?", and that shit always confused me cuz whenever I answered back, he would never reply.

Almost a year went by and I didn't see Sam again until Peter's wedding. He brought his new girlfriend. She was the sweetest. They broke up a week later. Then we met again at another mutual friend's birthday party where he brought his brother, who is also straight, also hot, (let's call him David). Sam introduced me to David by saying : "If I don't hook up tonight I know who I'm taking home with me" I brushed it off and laughed. Fast forward a couple of hours and we were already drunk. Sam and David were now both teasing me about how they both wanted to get it on with me, blah blah. It was uncomfortable but kind of arousing at the same time. As the night progressed and people started to leave, I stayed back and hung out with the brothers. Now drunk as hell they both started to ask me for "pecks", and of course I obliged. These peck requests kept coming for a bit, and I always responded to them. At one moment Sam came to me and said: "come with us to the bathroom, we're gonna do a Line". I'm not into that but I had no problem going with them. Once inside the bathroom, Sam went straight to the sink to do his line and David stayed back with me, requesting another peck. I, once again, obliged and then he proceeded to grab my bulge. "Oh, he's packing!" he laughed. Sam turned and jokingly said "hey, back off, he's mine". He came over and also grabbed it. We all drunkenly laughed and the night ended and once again, nothing happened, but I couldn't get what happened out of my mind for MONTHS.

Another year of fire emojis and flirty messages on my stories went by. It's 2023 now.
Sam and I met again at another friend's wedding. This time, he brought a new girlfriend (she was annoying). Time went by, shot and drinks went by. Sam and I sat on a table by ourselves chatting about how he was so in love with his new girl and whatever. Then, he told me I looked handsome in a suit (I sure did), and that kind of pissed me off. He then told me he had to pee, and I said I needed to pee as well but we could see a line forming in the bathroom inside the venue. "There's another bathroom all the way on the other side of the yard. Let's go together and make out". I, of course, laughed it off "I'm serious!" he said. (His girlfriend was dancing with her friends on the floor, mind you). I wasn't buying it, but I agreed to go the bathroom with him.

He told me to lock the door, because he really wanted to kiss me. I obviously did and just stood there with my arms crossed to see if he was really going to kiss me or if he was bluffing, yet again. To my surprise... he grabbed my neck and pulled me towards him kissing me for probably 0.5 seconds. He pulled back, and my instant reaction was to kiss him again, this time we fully made out for probably 15 to 20 seconds. He stopped it and said: "I don't think this is my thing". I completely respected that and told him I better go back to the party. He stayed back and I haven't seen him since.

I heard he's single again. He still reacts to my stories once in a while, sends me flirty messages occasionally and even tells me he misses me and wants to hang out with me, but never follows through. I decided to just forget about it, but it's quite difficult for me cuz I wonder if things could go a bit further with him.

Sorry for the long ass story. Any thoughts?

Yes, for starters, what makes you think Sam is straight? There is nothing straight about his behavior and it should be clear to you he is gay or bisexual. As for his advances and reluctance to follow through, who knows? Perhaps he is otherwise committed? Perhaps he has an odd kink about teasing other guys? Perhaps he doesn't see being with you in relationship? It doesn't matter. What matters is that you judge his actions and not make a pretense of him being straight, or hold out hope for more, when his actions indicate otherwise. Move on and find a suitable partner.

 

[El2024]

^^Something did happen as the pair of them groped you. Sadly you blew your chance to grope them.



El2024 its painfully obvious that you were the butt of the jokes for Peter, Sam and David. It's sad that Sam didn't want to hang out with you anymore and has still been playing with you. Find someone who seriously will go out with you, likes you and won't take your affection for them as a joke.

You're absolutely right. Something did happen, lol. Trust me, I wanted to but at the same time got scared of what their reaction would be if an openly gay man groped them back, I literally froze and tried to be cool.

And yeah, I'm not really interested in having a serious relationship with him. I'm just curious to see what his real intentions were. We definitely had a good friendship, even if it was short lived. But thank you for the good advice

 

[El2024]

Yes, for starters, what makes you think Sam is straight? There is nothing straight about his behavior and it should be clear to you he is gay or bisexual. As for his advances and reluctance to follow through, who knows? Perhaps he is otherwise committed? Perhaps he has an odd kink about teasing other guys? Perhaps he doesn't see being with you in relationship? It doesn't matter. What matters is that you judge his actions and not make a pretense of him being straight, or hold out hope for more, when his actions indicate otherwise. Move on and find a suitable partner.

Well, he's always had a girlfriend and presents himself as straight (I have a terrible gaydar!). And yes, his behavior is what made me want to seek advice on here, he's probably bisexual and doesn't even know it or doesn't want to be exposed since I'm close to some of his friends now.
I definitely know he doesn't want a relationship with him, never was the intention. Was just curious to see what others might think of this.

Thanks for the advice.

 

[quince farmer]

Sounds like there was curiosity and it didn't end in your favor. In any case even if he was closeted he doesn't seem worth it. It's always so much work for so little pay off.

 

[El2024]

Sounds like there was curiosity and it didn't end in your favor. In any case even if he was closeted he doesn't seem worth it. It's always so much work for so little pay off

Amen to that

 

[Aphradight]

It sounds like he has some kind of feelings, and clearly likes you. However he’s not ready and you could push him harder. Or take the above advice and move on while potentially still flirting.

 

[El2024]

It sounds like he has some kind of feelings, and clearly likes you. However he’s not ready and you could push him harder. Or take the above advice and move on while potentially still flirting.

I highly doubt that feelings are involved, if so, he would’ve followed through on meeting up and hanging out. But it’s okay! I’m really not interested in pursuing a relationship with someone who might not be ready, confused, or plainly just trying to have some fun. Still would love to have the relationship evolve in a friendly way! Thanks for the advice!!

 

[Giorgio broughton]

Sam has serious internalized homophobia. Trust me man, I’ve seen it and experienced it all too many times. I was one of them myself. Your friend is into you but his homophobia is suppressing these desires. You obviously care for him this much, otherwise you wouldn’t be posting here, but I’d say go on and date/fuck other guys and then who knows, maybe Sam will come out in due time and your stars will align. (I really hope they do, there’s chemistry between ya too from the sounds of it)

 

[ILoveGames48]

Alcohol only enhances how a person feels — I’ve been drunk and be horny wanting a guy or a girl.. .. being bisexual that’s kind of normal I guess .. but it’s the alcohol telling the body what it wants..


I was with this guy years ago.. he’d come over. Wanting to have sex with me.. but I never did anything for a while as he’d always come over with a girlfriend .. so like you it’s mixed signals from him..

One night he comes over late and he’s wanting to have sex.. this time he begins things by kissing me and sliding his cock down m my shorts. Stroking my cock and was like.. that’s a nice fuckin cock .. and slides my shorts down and gets on his knees and begins taking my cock in his mouth..


I knew instantly this wasn’t his first cock to suck on.. as with if minutes he was deepthroating my cock as if been sucking them for years..

We never made it to the bedroom as we just laid on floor in front of the couch he got naked as I laid on my back and squats down on my face telling me to lick his ass .. he moans and breathes harder as I did ..

I sat up moved against the couch leaned my head back and told him squat again .. this time I was more in a position to lick and finger his ass.. he had his hands on his knees .. and I can feel the precum running down my chest .

He moves away turns around and stand me over me.. I figured to get me to suck his cock but he went to squat down on my cock.. I reached under the couch grabbed the lube. ( I kept lube stashed all over the house — even outside on the porch ) as he went down on my cock he was nice n tight as I went in. He was cursing a lot as it was hurting him a lot but he never stopped as he went all the way down..

He rides me for a few .. then holds my neck tells me to get up as he went back .. .. now he’s on his back legs up.. he didn’t say a word .. I just began fucking him easy at first then harder .. he stroked and came on his stomach and chest .. as he’s telling me to cum inside him ..

So I did ..


When all said and done. We crashed in bed .. the next morning he wakes up.. sees we are naked and then says what the hell .. then asked why his ass was sore ..

Turned out he got stoned n horny .. girlfriend wouldn’t put out so he knew who he can screw.. I was like.. I didn’t know.. plus he was the one sat on my dick .. I just assumed he was gay and didn’t want others to know.


After that night he’d come over and I’d wonder if he was stoned again or not as it made me eerie about being with him

 

[El2024]

Sam has serious internalized homophobia. Trust me man, I’ve seen it and experienced it all too many times. I was one of them myself. Your friend is into you but his homophobia is suppressing these desires. You obviously care for him this much, otherwise you wouldn’t be posting here, but I’d say go on and date/fuck other guys and then who knows, maybe Sam will come out in due time and your stars will align. (I really hope they do, there’s chemistry between ya too from the sounds of it)

I hadn't even considered the internalized homophobia and that makes so much sense. I also experienced that in my early twenties so, yeah, that is something to consider!
Yeah, there is a lot of chemistry between us but as so many of you have said on here, I'm better off just forgetting about anything ever happening again with him lol. Thanks for the good advice!!

 

[El2024]

Alcohol only enhances how a person feels — I’ve been drunk and be horny wanting a guy or a girl.. .. being bisexual that’s kind of normal I guess .. but it’s the alcohol telling the body what it wants..


I was with this guy years ago.. he’d come over. Wanting to have sex with me.. but I never did anything for a while as he’d always come over with a girlfriend .. so like you it’s mixed signals from him..

One night he comes over late and he’s wanting to have sex.. this time he begins things by kissing me and sliding his cock down m my shorts. Stroking my cock and was like.. that’s a nice fuckin cock .. and slides my shorts down and gets on his knees and begins taking my cock in his mouth..


I knew instantly this wasn’t his first cock to suck on.. as with if minutes he was deepthroating my cock as if been sucking them for years..

We never made it to the bedroom as we just laid on floor in front of the couch he got naked as I laid on my back and squats down on my face telling me to lick his ass .. he moans and breathes harder as I did ..

I sat up moved against the couch leaned my head back and told him squat again .. this time I was more in a position to lick and finger his ass.. he had his hands on his knees .. and I can feel the precum running down my chest .

He moves away turns around and stand me over me.. I figured to get me to suck his cock but he went to squat down on my cock.. I reached under the couch grabbed the lube. ( I kept lube stashed all over the house — even outside on the porch ) as he went down on my cock he was nice n tight as I went in. He was cursing a lot as it was hurting him a lot but he never stopped as he went all the way down..

He rides me for a few .. then holds my neck tells me to get up as he went back .. .. now he’s on his back legs up.. he didn’t say a word .. I just began fucking him easy at first then harder .. he stroked and came on his stomach and chest .. as he’s telling me to cum inside him ..

So I did ..


When all said and done. We crashed in bed .. the next morning he wakes up.. sees we are naked and then says what the hell .. then asked why his ass was sore ..

Turned out he got stoned n horny .. girlfriend wouldn’t put out so he knew who he can screw.. I was like.. I didn’t know.. plus he was the one sat on my dick .. I just assumed he was gay and didn’t want others to know.


After that night he’d come over and I’d wonder if he was stoned again or not as it made me eerie about being with him

OMG! First of all, what a HOT story, lol!
And second, at least you guys stayed friends after what seems to be a drunken night experience. I agree with alcohol enhancing your feelings, sad that it has to come to that for some people, but hopefully one day they'll just realize that sex is enjoyable with whomever you choose to have it and you don't need any substances to get there.

 

[ILoveGames48]

Yeah he’d want to do it and I’d find out he was stoned or whatever afterwards.. ..

There were times I wondered if he was stoned and just said he was .. as there were times I couldn’t really tell

 

[johnnyboy2285]

Hey everyone. New to posting threads so hopefully I'm doing this right and the story isn't very confusing. The following story is 100% real and I just need some advice and/or opinions on the matter.

Straight (no pun intended) to the story.

So back in 2021 my best friend (let's call him Peter) had his bachelor party in Cancun. He invited me and some of his closest friends which were all straight. Once I got there, Peter told me that there was one of his friends (let's call him Sam) he thought would totally be my type, and boy was he right.
Sam and I hit it off fairly quickly and spent most of the trip together just hanging out and partying, nothing ever happened between us nor was I going to pursue it, but we became close. After a few months the entire bachelor party crew got together again at Peter's place and by then he apparently told Sam I had a lil crush on him! I was mortified but tried to play it cool. To my surprise, Sam completely changed in the way he acted around me. He started making sexual jokes and told everyone how he and I were boyfriends for the night. The night came to an end, nothing happened.

I usually post pictures of myself on insta (I need attention, sorry) and Sam would reply to some of my stories with fire emojis and flirty messages such as "handsome" "cutie" "when am I gonna see you?", and that shit always confused me cuz whenever I answered back, he would never reply.

Almost a year went by and I didn't see Sam again until Peter's wedding. He brought his new girlfriend. She was the sweetest. They broke up a week later. Then we met again at another mutual friend's birthday party where he brought his brother, who is also straight, also hot, (let's call him David). Sam introduced me to David by saying : "If I don't hook up tonight I know who I'm taking home with me" I brushed it off and laughed. Fast forward a couple of hours and we were already drunk. Sam and David were now both teasing me about how they both wanted to get it on with me, blah blah. It was uncomfortable but kind of arousing at the same time. As the night progressed and people started to leave, I stayed back and hung out with the brothers. Now drunk as hell they both started to ask me for "pecks", and of course I obliged. These peck requests kept coming for a bit, and I always responded to them. At one moment Sam came to me and said: "come with us to the bathroom, we're gonna do a Line". I'm not into that but I had no problem going with them. Once inside the bathroom, Sam went straight to the sink to do his line and David stayed back with me, requesting another peck. I, once again, obliged and then he proceeded to grab my bulge. "Oh, he's packing!" he laughed. Sam turned and jokingly said "hey, back off, he's mine". He came over and also grabbed it. We all drunkenly laughed and the night ended and once again, nothing happened, but I couldn't get what happened out of my mind for MONTHS.

Another year of fire emojis and flirty messages on my stories went by. It's 2023 now.
Sam and I met again at another friend's wedding. This time, he brought a new girlfriend (she was annoying). Time went by, shot and drinks went by. Sam and I sat on a table by ourselves chatting about how he was so in love with his new girl and whatever. Then, he told me I looked handsome in a suit (I sure did), and that kind of pissed me off. He then told me he had to pee, and I said I needed to pee as well but we could see a line forming in the bathroom inside the venue. "There's another bathroom all the way on the other side of the yard. Let's go together and make out". I, of course, laughed it off "I'm serious!" he said. (His girlfriend was dancing with her friends on the floor, mind you). I wasn't buying it, but I agreed to go the bathroom with him.

He told me to lock the door, because he really wanted to kiss me. I obviously did and just stood there with my arms crossed to see if he was really going to kiss me or if he was bluffing, yet again. To my surprise... he grabbed my neck and pulled me towards him kissing me for probably 0.5 seconds. He pulled back, and my instant reaction was to kiss him again, this time we fully made out for probably 15 to 20 seconds. He stopped it and said: "I don't think this is my thing". I completely respected that and told him I better go back to the party. He stayed back and I haven't seen him since.

I heard he's single again. He still reacts to my stories once in a while, sends me flirty messages occasionally and even tells me he misses me and wants to hang out with me, but never follows through. I decided to just forget about it, but it's quite difficult for me cuz I wonder if things could go a bit further with him.

Sorry for the long ass story. Any thoughts?

1) he is definitely not just straight, he's bi, I should know, I'm one of those...

2) Unfortunately, he's a manipulative asshole or a fboy.
2a) either because he found out you like him he uses your attraction to him in a manipulative way and he gets off on that.
2b) or he's a f boy. A peck here, a flirt there, stringing you along in case he gets really horny at the right time and he will fuck you and toss you aside the moment he's last cum drop leaves his cock. He might be amazing in bed, but he will fuck you into confusion.

so if you want to have fun, just hang in there and fuck him when he's in heat, but most likely nothing more will come of it.

 

[oliverKj]

This is just another case of a bi curious guy afraid of “turning” gay.
As a bi guy I get that, been thru that kinda, but it’s annoying to u cause most bi dudes that r confused always wanna pick and choose when and where they can use u and then they get scared and leave. For instance, he won’t stop reacting to urs stories but when u reply he never follows thru lol
I think u were right for not pushing anything, especially when u were in the Bathroom with him and his brother. My advice to u is to keep doing what u r doing, nothing. Do not waste ur time, let him figure out his shit himself, it’s not fair to u. If he tells u, yo let’s meet up at this day, this time, sure, go meet him if u feel like it, but don’t make any moves bro.

 

[sonny84]

Hey everyone. New to posting threads so hopefully I'm doing this right and the story isn't very confusing. The following story is 100% real and I just need some advice and/or opinions on the matter.

Straight (no pun intended) to the story.

So back in 2021 my best friend (let's call him Peter) had his bachelor party in Cancun. He invited me and some of his closest friends which were all straight. Once I got there, Peter told me that there was one of his friends (let's call him Sam) he thought would totally be my type, and boy was he right.
Sam and I hit it off fairly quickly and spent most of the trip together just hanging out and partying, nothing ever happened between us nor was I going to pursue it, but we became close. After a few months the entire bachelor party crew got together again at Peter's place and by then he apparently told Sam I had a lil crush on him! I was mortified but tried to play it cool. To my surprise, Sam completely changed in the way he acted around me. He started making sexual jokes and told everyone how he and I were boyfriends for the night. The night came to an end, nothing happened.

I usually post pictures of myself on insta (I need attention, sorry) and Sam would reply to some of my stories with fire emojis and flirty messages such as "handsome" "cutie" "when am I gonna see you?", and that shit always confused me cuz whenever I answered back, he would never reply.

Almost a year went by and I didn't see Sam again until Peter's wedding. He brought his new girlfriend. She was the sweetest. They broke up a week later. Then we met again at another mutual friend's birthday party where he brought his brother, who is also straight, also hot, (let's call him David). Sam introduced me to David by saying : "If I don't hook up tonight I know who I'm taking home with me" I brushed it off and laughed. Fast forward a couple of hours and we were already drunk. Sam and David were now both teasing me about how they both wanted to get it on with me, blah blah. It was uncomfortable but kind of arousing at the same time. As the night progressed and people started to leave, I stayed back and hung out with the brothers. Now drunk as hell they both started to ask me for "pecks", and of course I obliged. These peck requests kept coming for a bit, and I always responded to them. At one moment Sam came to me and said: "come with us to the bathroom, we're gonna do a Line". I'm not into that but I had no problem going with them. Once inside the bathroom, Sam went straight to the sink to do his line and David stayed back with me, requesting another peck. I, once again, obliged and then he proceeded to grab my bulge. "Oh, he's packing!" he laughed. Sam turned and jokingly said "hey, back off, he's mine". He came over and also grabbed it. We all drunkenly laughed and the night ended and once again, nothing happened, but I couldn't get what happened out of my mind for MONTHS.

Another year of fire emojis and flirty messages on my stories went by. It's 2023 now.
Sam and I met again at another friend's wedding. This time, he brought a new girlfriend (she was annoying). Time went by, shot and drinks went by. Sam and I sat on a table by ourselves chatting about how he was so in love with his new girl and whatever. Then, he told me I looked handsome in a suit (I sure did), and that kind of pissed me off. He then told me he had to pee, and I said I needed to pee as well but we could see a line forming in the bathroom inside the venue. "There's another bathroom all the way on the other side of the yard. Let's go together and make out". I, of course, laughed it off "I'm serious!" he said. (His girlfriend was dancing with her friends on the floor, mind you). I wasn't buying it, but I agreed to go the bathroom with him.

He told me to lock the door, because he really wanted to kiss me. I obviously did and just stood there with my arms crossed to see if he was really going to kiss me or if he was bluffing, yet again. To my surprise... he grabbed my neck and pulled me towards him kissing me for probably 0.5 seconds. He pulled back, and my instant reaction was to kiss him again, this time we fully made out for probably 15 to 20 seconds. He stopped it and said: "I don't think this is my thing". I completely respected that and told him I better go back to the party. He stayed back and I haven't seen him since.

I heard he's single again. He still reacts to my stories once in a while, sends me flirty messages occasionally and even tells me he misses me and wants to hang out with me, but never follows through. I decided to just forget about it, but it's quite difficult for me cuz I wonder if things could go a bit further with him.

Sorry for the long ass story. Any thoughts?

Girl!!

You're asking the wrong question.

The question isn't if xyz person is straight/bi/into you.

The question actually you really should be asking yourself is....are you up for being the control/test subject in another person's science/social experiment of self discovery.

If you are, then go for it, take charge, get him sauced, powdered and go to poundtown till you can't walk straight.

But girl if you're into feelings and think there is a happy ending, and no I don't mean the jizzfilled kind, wherein all y'all will become friends/lovers/stay besties/fuckbuddies.....then you got bigger problems than can be solved on a LPSG thread girl.

 

[ManchesterTom]

Yeah he’d want to do it and I’d find out he was stoned or whatever afterwards.. ..

There were times I wondered if he was stoned and just said he was .. as there were times I couldn’t really tell

Stoned is a great claim, he gets to play and comes out the other end a totally 100% straight guy.