Is Sex Still Common In Gyms Today?

[Capitolhillguy]

I went to largely gay gyms decades ago and sex happened all the time in the jacuzzi and steamroom. I must have felt up 40 guys over the years in one Jacuzzi. One young god shaved his asshole in the shower and bent over and asked if he got it all. Later in the Jacuzzi i could report that he had. I woundn't put my head under that dirty water to suck dick like some did, but I did have someone sit on my dick under water. Sometimes you'd take a guy home from the wet area. Jeff Quinn, one of the most gorgeous porn stars of all time, was a trainer at one gym, so he set the stage. It was very common to watch guys get head in the sauna. One of the hottest masseurs in town with an 8 incher was stroking looking at several of us in the open showers ( remember those???). I find today's gyms so isolating with everyone all hooked up to their headphones. We used to chat each other up and often went home together. Not really sex in the gym, but certainly the gym was a facilitator to getting down.

 

[HorseHung40's]

I go there to work out. If someone were to proposition me in a gym, I would convince him to text his dirty thoughts to me.

Then, I would report him.

Why, some of you must think? Few care to witness this. Who knows what else may be in those bodily fluids.

That is the reason why I would report him.

 

[Mister2101]

I went to largely gay gyms decades ago and sex happened all the time in the jacuzzi and steamroom. I must have felt up 40 guys over the years in one Jacuzzi. One young god shaved his asshole in the shower and bent over and asked if he got it all. Later in the Jacuzzi i could report that he had. I woundn't put my head under that dirty water to suck dick like some did, but I did have someone sit on my dick under water. Sometimes you'd take a guy home from the wet area. Jeff Quinn, one of the most gorgeous porn stars of all time, was a trainer at one gym, so he set the stage. It was very common to watch guys get head in the sauna. One of the hottest masseurs in town with an 8 incher was stroking looking at several of us in the open showers ( remember those???). I find today's gyms so isolating with everyone all hooked up to their headphones. We used to chat each other up and often went home together. Not really sex in the gym, but certainly the gym was a facilitator to getting down.

I believe that there are still many men interested or looking for a little fun in the gym showers, sauna, steam room and whirlpools.....just my experience and opinion. And yes.....I like it and have often had some fun myself.....

 

[deleted1074483]

in 30 + years I've never found a 'gay' gym, sure a gym where lots of gay guys go, but everyone has (seemed) to be into gymwork (and chat) rather than any kind of action there, so never seen this and my gay friends who gym have never seen it and I lived/worked in London so not a case of not having lived in the big city. So no idea how common, or if indeed it is common at all.

 

[Countryguy63]

I've never been to a predominately gay gyms, but I've rarely seen any overt sexual activity. Maybe some overt showing off (which is always nice ), but usually just normal locker room activity including LOTS of towel dancing lol

 

[Capitolhillguy]

I go there to work out. If someone were to proposition me in a gym, I would convince him to text his dirty thoughts to me.

Then, I would report him.

Why, some of you must think? Few care to witness this. Who knows what else may be in those bodily fluids.

That is the reason why I would report him.

As good looking and as hung as you appear to be, you would have asked for a refund after a week at my first gym I went to years ago. You would have been approached all the time. I still managed to get very nicely built, despite the distractions. Good for you you appear to have found the right gym for you.

 

[HorseHung40's]

As good looking and as hung as you appear to be, you would have asked for a refund after a week at my first gym I went to years ago. You would have been approached all the time. I still managed to get very nicely built, despite the distractions. Good for you you appear to have found the right gym for you.

I never felt the need to use a gym as a bathhouse. In the past, I have reported people, much to their own embarrassment and humiliation. Why should I be inconvenienced by their lust and sexual repression? The married ones needed to come out of the closet. All needed to find another place to do that.

 

[AnthonyAdkins]

I can’t even get other people to talk in the locker room, let alone show off/suck n fuck

 

[Capitolhillguy]

My old gym was so super friendly. We were 95% gay because our neighborhood was still a gay ghetto then and the straight ones never went to the wet areas. I met all of my friends there. Unfortunately 27 of that crowd passed in the plague. I don't think gyms like that exist today. Now I work out in my apt. building which I like because I never have to encounter the attitude queens who never acknowledge anyone around them much less hook up with anyone for fun. Those were golden days for me.

 

[oakhappy]

I am in the 5-6 days a week. Get a lot of guys staring, a few compliments or asking if I ever measured. Nothing more.

 

[malakos]

Those were golden days for me.

You still insist on conceiving of the lifestyle that caused so many deaths as "golden", huh?

 

[Capitolhillguy]

You still insist on conceiving of the lifestyle that caused so many deaths as "golden", huh?

It was an awful time BUT I had a lot of fun because I am a slut. I met many wonderful, wonderful friends. It was my first time having many gay friends. Most all of my friends I met fooling around with them initially. Practically everyone is gone from that period and I have only a few gay friends now. I LOVE sex. Why else be on this forum. I had a whole lot of good sex back in those days . I did not get infected. Despite the 27 deaths I have a lot of very wonderful memories of being handsome, desired, an having tons of very fun sex and having lots of friends who loved sex as much as I did. Life is the good and the bad, else you live in fiction. I am a much, much happier person now, much more at peace, I have a more fulfilling circle of friends now, but I have very little sex now aside from porn. I will not have you shame me for the good times I enjoyed in my early days. I have mourn my friend's loss through much much expensive therapy and tears, but I will not have the incredible incredible fun I had years ago negated by others who can not know how fun it was. I was lucky I liked to do things where I did not get infected and I wasn't putting others at risk. I am proof you can have lots lots lots of sex and not die young from it. I was just lucky I was an oral queen and not into bottoming, because it was the bareback bottoms back then who were mostly all unlucky. It was never how much sex you had but what type of sex you had that spread HIV.

 

[TimeOut101]

I go there to work out. If someone were to proposition me in a gym, I would convince him to text his dirty thoughts to me.

Then, I would report him.

Why, some of you must think? Few care to witness this. Who knows what else may be in those bodily fluids.

That is the reason why I would report him.

Lame ass snitches get stitches

 

[malakos]

Lame ass snitches get stitches

Imagining the deep level of depravity it must take to think it reasonable to promote violence against someone for asserting their right to not be overtly sexually objectified is quite astounding!

 

[malakos]

It was an awful time BUT I had a lot of fun because I am a slut.

Oh, well, I guess that means it was worth it, huh? What a consolation for you!

I met many wonderful, wonderful friends.

I guess if "friend" is satisfied by someone you have some amenable social arrangement with (in this case the arrangement just being fucking around). I tend to think that's a pretty warped notion of friendship, and I'm sure it doesn't fit the colloquial sense of the term either.

I LOVE sex. Why else be on this forum.

Loving sex doesn't require avoiding accountability for your actions or being unwilling to develop/revise your evaluation of the value or rightfulness of your past sexual activities.

I did not get infected.

Lucky you! What you seem to show no indication of acknowledging is that you played a role in fostering the lifestyle/culture the enabled so many others to get sick and die horribly. On the contrary, all indications seem to be that you think it was great for you to be involved in it.

Life is the good and the bad, else you live in fiction.

Sure. But there are varying levels of goodness and badness, and most things are in a grey area that requires weighing a complex of goods and bads to determine whether they are overall good or bad. Though sex is clearly typically pleasurable, and that attracts us to it, that doesn't say much about the goodness of it. It establishes no connection to other things that are clear goods.

Does sex have any inherent connection to health? Not exactly, no, since it can either overall promote health or detract from it. Does it promote strong relationships? It can easily go either way, or neither, depending on how it's used. Does it strengthen self-esteem and a sense of dignity? Not really. It often does the opposite.

So sex seems to me to be overall more of a value-neutral thing than something one can assume is good because of the carnal pleasure derived from it. If you think about the consequences of the activities of the scene you were involved in, with respect to the negative impacts and what was or was not cultivated, I think you should be able to see that the overall "goodness status" of what you're talking appears far more grey.

I will not have you shame me for the good times I enjoyed in my early days.

Fine. It's up to you to decide what you find to be shameful and what you don't. No one can make that call for you but yourself.

 

[AnthonyAdkins]

Fuckin hell you must be the life of the party.......

 

[Gj816]

I've heard a couple of guys fucking in one of the changing rooms one morning at my gym. I'm like seriously? It's 5 o'clock in the morning and you are fucking in the gym?

I go to the gym to workout not to hookup with some stranger. I've gotten plenty of stares from other men in the locker room. Mainly because I don't do the towel dance. I walk to the showers with my towel over my shoulder. Stand on my towel in front of my locker while I'm getting dressed. Not ashamed of my body or my dick. Not showing off, just act like I'm at home after I get a shower. No biggie.

 

[Almost40]

It's not bad to separate a sex club from a gym. No need to cause discomfort to those who go to agym just for their workout. At the same time there's no need to waste time hoping there will be a sexual encounter in a place that is meant for muscle exercise just because you will undress at some point. Its like looking for sex at the nude beach. Nudity doesn't necessarily imply sexual intercourse. That's just me, not judging your opinion, but a refrain from exposing others to a sight they might find offensive. But should it be a sex club or a beach where sex is approved, hell im up for anything...

 

[EdWoody]

I've said this before and it still holds – wherever naked men gather, sex will end up happening. You can say it shouldn't happen as much as you want, it's going to happen regardless, and that will be true until this species no longer exists. If it was happening then, I have no doubt it is happening now.

I go there to work out. If someone were to proposition me in a gym, I would convince him to text his dirty thoughts to me. Then, I would report him. Why, some of you must think? Few care to witness this. Who knows what else may be in those bodily fluids. That is the reason why I would report him.

Do you honestly think the men who do such things are not aware that they are putting themselves at risk? People can tell when the situation is amenable and when it is not, and the vast vast vast majority would never dream of doing such things when children are present, or anyone who doesn't want to see it. We can actually tell the difference, and 99% of the time we wouldn't do anything unless we know without a shadow of a doubt that it's safe to do so.

We've spent every day of our lives making that calculation – is this the day I get murdered or imprisoned just for being who I am? How much risk am I willing to take? But that battles against all men's natural instinct to get their end away, and you already know how far all men – gay straight or otherwise – will go for that.

Why do you think so many people in these threads, every time they come up, say "I've never seen such things, I think it's all a fantasy that never happens in real life?" It's because the men who do it know how to hide it from those who don't want to see.

I never felt the need to use a gym as a bathhouse. In the past, I have reported people, much to their own embarrassment and humiliation. Why should I be inconvenienced by their lust and sexual repression? The married ones needed to come out of the closet. All needed to find another place to do that.

So even while acknowledging that married-but-closeted men are a thing that happens, and presumably with some vague understanding of why those men might be in that situation and that they have no other place to connect with other men and get something that is vital to their continued existence, you still go ahead and embarrass, humiliate and most likely ruin their lives just because of your inconvenience? You who have never had to face such choices should hesitate before ruining someone's life.

Oh, well, I guess that means it was worth it, huh? What a consolation for you!

etc...

Jesus fucking christ. How dare you? How dare you sneer down your nose at this man who already said this was decades ago, told you it was his first experience of meeting other gay people and of making friends, who has held good memories even despite the bad things that happened, while you piss on his memories of his friends as if he's not already aware of everything you said? The sheer condescension.

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[AnthonyAdkins]