Is Sex Still Common In Gyms Today?

In the days of Craigslist ads our local YMCA was a spot to meet for hookups. It was unwise to engage in intimate acts there but some would take the chance. Most would head to one of the person's homes. Only spot we had in our city, no other gym had any action.
 
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It was common knowledge that this gym was a "naughty" gym. Everyone called it the "Body Naughty". It was like bathhouse lite.If you were bothered by it, you showered at home. Only a handful of African American straight guys worked out there and they left us alone. It was over 95% gay. People went into this very small neighborhood gym with their eyes open. Very open. It was the late 80's and early 90's. What can I say. Sexuality was very very open in my city then. Many of us had a very different idea of how to be sexual than many of you today have. Having come from the sexually repressed South and a very very religious education in the Baptist Church, this was heaven on earth to me at the time.
 
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I've said this before and it still holds – wherever naked men gather, sex will end up happening. You can say it shouldn't happen as much as you want, it's going to happen regardless, and that will be true until this species no longer exists. If it was happening then, I have no doubt it is happening now.





Do you honestly think the men who do such things are not aware that they are putting themselves at risk? People can tell when the situation is amenable and when it is not, and the vast vast vast majority would never dream of doing such things when children are present, or anyone who doesn't want to see it. We can actually tell the difference, and 99% of the time we wouldn't do anything unless we know without a shadow of a doubt that it's safe to do so.

We've spent every day of our lives making that calculation – is this the day I get murdered or imprisoned just for being who I am? How much risk am I willing to take? But that battles against all men's natural instinct to get their end away, and you already know how far all men – gay straight or otherwise – will go for that.

Why do you think so many people in these threads, every time they come up, say "I've never seen such things, I think it's all a fantasy that never happens in real life?" It's because the men who do it know how to hide it from those who don't want to see.





So even while acknowledging that married-but-closeted men are a thing that happens, and presumably with some vague understanding of why those men might be in that situation and that they have no other place to connect with other men and get something that is vital to their continued existence, you still go ahead and embarrass, humiliate and most likely ruin their lives just because of your inconvenience? You who have never had to face such choices should hesitate before ruining someone's life.





Jesus fucking christ. How dare you? How dare you sneer down your nose at this man who already said this was decades ago, told you it was his first experience of meeting other gay people and of making friends, who has held good memories even despite the bad things that happened, while you piss on his memories of his friends as if he's not already aware of everything you said? The sheer condescension.

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Well said sir. well said.
 
I go there to work out. If someone were to proposition me in a gym, I would convince him to text his dirty thoughts to me.

Then, I would report him.

Why, some of you must think? Few care to witness this. Who knows what else may be in those bodily fluids.

That is the reason why I would report him.
Or, instead of trying to solicit his “dirty thoughts” and get him in trouble you could politely decline. This doesn’t sit right with me at all... my understanding is that at most said person could face petty charges. But you would really put someone through that because you don’t have the agency to appropriately handle a compliment???
 
Sex is common anywhere if you’re sexy and good looking, doesn’t matter if you’re straight/gay/bi or trans or whatever skin color you have.
 
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From experience, kind off, though it depends on the gym and hour. Smaller local gyms are more prone to it, I would suppose because the guys are more intimate with each other, and there is less risk of getting caught. Though, I have gotten some propositions in bigger "chain" gyms, but those have usually been close to closing hour when there is barely anyone left in the gym.
 
Well, at the moment, I think its safe to say that there is absolutely no sex going on in any of our local gyms. But I'm sure it will start up again fairly soon. Just wish LA Fit was more active than it is in these here parts.
 
I was fortunate enough to work out at the Gold's Gym in South of Market, San Francisco, from the late 90s to the mid 2010s, when there were many porn studios in active production. There was a steam room and a sauna where, after a work out, men would go to work that last muscle, often in the company of some of the planet's hottest men.

There were a few cock nazis, gay men who would project their own undesirability onto snitching, but we managed to work around them as even they began to annoy the staff.

The panoply of penis was nothing short of astounding. It was like being a grizzly bear on a prime Alaskan salmon stream where the fish were running year-round. If I did not connect with any given hot man, not to worry, there were 2 more coming down behind him.

I got to play with several well known porn stars, Cutler X, Jerry Stearns/Gary Stamina (a longer term suck buddy), Logan McRee, Leo Forte and a range of gym clients and staffers. One staffer, Johnny, was a bit femme but he was packing a 9"er that was molded perfectly to my throat.

A conservative gay supervisor, Scott Wiener, threw a hissy fit that men were playing in the Upper Market Gold's location and prevailed upon the management to close down the wet areas. The steam rooms and sauna were closed down. And at the SOMA location, shower stalls with curtains were replaced with stalls with closing doors.

That did not stop me and Jerry from mutual exhibiting from stalls across from one another, and very risky forays across to the other for some head.

I left FitnessSF as it had become a health club and switched to a more gym like gym. It has steam and sauna but is not a gay gym per se. There are occasional hook ups but they are very rare. Of course this is all closed down for now for pandemic control.
 
I was fortunate enough to work out at the Gold's Gym in South of Market, San Francisco, from the late 90s to the mid 2010s, when there were many porn studios in active production. There was a steam room and a sauna where, after a work out, men would go to work that last muscle, often in the company of some of the planet's hottest men.

There were a few cock nazis, gay men who would project their own undesirability onto snitching, but we managed to work around them as even they began to annoy the staff.

The panoply of penis was nothing short of astounding. It was like being a grizzly bear on a prime Alaskan salmon stream where the fish were running year-round. If I did not connect with any given hot man, not to worry, there were 2 more coming down behind him.

I got to play with several well known porn stars, Cutler X, Jerry Stearns/Gary Stamina (a longer term suck buddy), Logan McRee, Leo Forte and a range of gym clients and staffers. One staffer, Johnny, was a bit femme but he was packing a 9"er that was molded perfectly to my throat.

A conservative gay supervisor, Scott Wiener, threw a hissy fit that men were playing in the Upper Market Gold's location and prevailed upon the management to close down the wet areas. The steam rooms and sauna were closed down. And at the SOMA location, shower stalls with curtains were replaced with stalls with closing doors.

That did not stop me and Jerry from mutual exhibiting from stalls across from one another, and very risky forays across to the other for some head.

I left FitnessSF as it had become a health club and switched to a more gym like gym. It has steam and sauna but is not a gay gym per se. There are occasional hook ups but they are very rare. Of course this is all closed down for now for pandemic control.
Logan Mc Cree!!!! I am jealous. I would have expected SF to have had something like that. I knew I wasn't the only whore out there.
 
Logan Mc Cree!!!! I am jealous. I would have expected SF to have had something like that. I knew I wasn't the only whore out there.

"Working the last muscle" with like minded men in the gym wet area is what's kept me going to the gym and keeping fit well into middle age. I painted the ceiling of the Gold's Gym sauna with my flying sperm over the years until it looked like a Jackson Pollock spatter painting. I almost asked them for one of the sperm spattered boards when they dismantled the steam and sauna like 5 yr ago.

I'm sure that there were other porn stars involved, but I don't always know who's who in the industry.
 
I go there to work out. If someone were to proposition me in a gym, I would convince him to text his dirty thoughts to me.

Then, I would report him.

Why, some of you must think? Few care to witness this. Who knows what else may be in those bodily fluids.

That is the reason why I would report him.

There is so much wrong with this...
 
I've never seen gay stuff going on, maybe seen some flirting though. I did catch a girl blowing a guy once in a bathroom I walked into. I just laughed and said, "Have fun". (The guy and I had a laugh about it when we saw each other again.) If I saw a guy blowing another guy, I'd have the same reaction. If it was in the shower, I'd just take my shower. Maybe it's because I don't get in knots about BJs, but I think that I'm assuming that the evidence would be swallowed. If I have to step in it, there's a problem. But other than that, BJs are so quick and clean that I wouldn't care if people were blowing each other in the streets. They're a really efficient way to get your rocks off. We all need it.

I'm old enough to remember the tail end of nude swimming in YMCAs and most indoor public pools. (It phased out in the late 70's, some places had it into the 80's.) Most people today wouldn't believe that guys used to be required to be naked to swim together, but that's a fact. Anyway, I was a kid but I knew that a lot of the adult men would go to the sauna afterwards and that us kids weren't allowed. I later learned that that was where you'd go to get a nice blowjob before going home to the wife and kids. I'm guessing my dad did it too. I really don't see much wrong with it. Quick, clean, convenient. It's a total win for everyone.
 
in 30 + years I've never found a 'gay' gym, sure a gym where lots of gay guys go, but everyone has (seemed) to be into gymwork (and chat) rather than any kind of action there, so never seen this and my gay friends who gym have never seen it and I lived/worked in London so not a case of not having lived in the big city. So no idea how common, or if indeed it is common at all.
I've never seen it happen either although I hear it happens in Gymbox in Covent Garden (London)..
 
It's not bad to separate a sex club from a gym. No need to cause discomfort to those who go to agym just for their workout. At the same time there's no need to waste time hoping there will be a sexual encounter in a place that is meant for muscle exercise just because you will undress at some point. Its like looking for sex at the nude beach. Nudity doesn't necessarily imply sexual intercourse. That's just me, not judging your opinion, but a refrain from exposing others to a sight they might find offensive. But should it be a sex club or a beach where sex is approved, hell im up for anything...
In general yes, but this was a 95%gay gym, the few straights never ever went in the changing room, and all the gays were cruising in the back. You did NOT go to this gym without being aware that the wet area was for cruising and sex. Fact of life. You might shower innocently but there was no way to go into the jacuzzi or sauna without knowing what was going on. It was called The Body Naughty by everyone. One friend I met there I have had dinner with every week for 25 years. When it closed all the fun moved to World Gym. Same thing. All gay, everyone knew. If you didn't like it you went to another gym. Free country. Much fun was had. Now i work out in my apartment building. No studs but we have a great view and I don't have to put up with the new crop that are hooked up to their phones and ignore everyone.
 
In general yes, but this was a 95%gay gym, the few straights never ever went in the changing room, and all the gays were cruising in the back. You did NOT go to this gym without being aware that the wet area was for cruising and sex. Fact of life. You might shower innocently but there was no way to go into the jacuzzi or sauna without knowing what was going on. It was called The Body Naughty by everyone. One friend I met there I have had dinner with every week for 25 years. When it closed all the fun moved to World Gym. Same thing. All gay, everyone knew. If you didn't like it you went to another gym. Free country. Much fun was had. Now i work out in my apartment building. No studs but we have a great view and I don't have to put up with the new crop that are hooked up to their phones and ignore everyone.

Even though I reply using my phone, yes I go all along with you on your phone remark. Excessive use of the phone is such a turnoff.... Back to the topic, even if its a male- only- gay gym, I still don't find arousing the idea of getting completely down n dirty within the premises. To me a gym is only a workout place. Maybe its my denial to the obvious, like because at a gay gym you can easily find casual sex.
 
Even though I reply using my phone, yes I go all along with you on your phone remark. Excessive use of the phone is such a turnoff.... Back to the topic, even if its a male- only- gay gym, I still don't find arousing the idea of getting completely down n dirty within the premises. To me a gym is only a workout place. Maybe its my denial to the obvious, like because at a gay gym you can easily find casual sex.
Today yes. Back then only 15 years after Stonewall, with many of us from small repressive towns, sex exploded in our lives after years of repression. Of course AIDS was the consequence, but not the goal. Now, post internet, sex happens differently for most people. What happened at the two gyms I went to back then was a sex bursting out of the seams after years of repression and a concentration of gays in a ghetto, which no longer exists here. The ghetto is gone for good now.
 
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