The discussion over "the real thing" vs a toy is an interesting one to me. I had my first P-orgasm about a year ago with a toy. I've yet to experience it with a real dick. And tbh, I don't have much desire to. There's maybe a little bit there, just out of curiosity. But otherwise, imo, what's the point? I can get myself off by myself with truly mind blowing prostate orgasms. I don't need a real penis to do that, so what's the point of going down that route?