Is There Such a Thing as a "Verse Cycle?"

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

So, for any verse gay/bi men out there...I just wanna know if there's a kind of "verse cycle" that some of us may experience? Like...for me, earlier this week I felt pretty eager to bottom and that I wanted to be the more receptive partner in the relationship. I was chatting with some guys and just really wanted them to be dominant over me and I wanted to receive love from them and interact with them in that kind of way. However, the next day I felt a lot more "dominant" and had more of an urge to be a top. I wouldn't say that the types of men I was interested in changed necessarily, but rather what I wanted to do with them and how "egalitarian" I felt like I wanted to be with them was what had changed. I dunno, I definitely base my desire to top or bottom based on the mood I'm in and the mood of the guy I'm with, so I guess that checks out. All I wanna know is, does this happen with other people? Have you ever experienced this or know someone who has? Is this normal?
Also, I may be more of a verse top, as I definitely think that the "wanting to top" mood lasts longer than the "wanting to bottom" mood, although both are fun and intense when experienced.
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[Stephenmass]

I think most versatile people do top or bottom more than the other one. Not keeping strict count of course. True verse people do change on their moods. Sometimes I'm in a more submissive mood (but it has to be a partner or b/f) and other times I much prefer to take the dominant role. I love oral either way, and love to make out if I am really attracted to the guy, but true verse people change all the time. That's what being verse is all about IMO

 

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

I think most versatile people do top or bottom more than the other one. Not keeping strict count of course. True verse people do change on their moods. Sometimes I'm in a more submissive mood (but it has to be a partner or b/f) and other times I much prefer to take the dominant role. I love oral either way, and love to make out if I am really attracted to the guy, but true verse people change all the time. That's what being verse is all about IMO

Ah, that's so true! ^-^ I guess these things shouldn't matter

 

[Infernal]

I've always been primarily top, but I would go through periods when I wanted to be bottom. It would last a few days to a few weeks and then pass. It might be months before the mood comes back around. Earlier this year, I had a hemorrhoid banded, and the Dr was so aggressive that I'm pretty sure he tore my sphincter. I haven't had any interest since.

 

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

I've always been primarily top, but I would go through periods when I wanted to be bottom. It would last a few days to a few weeks and then pass. It might be months before the mood comes back around. Earlier this year, I had a hemorrhoid banded, and the Dr was so aggressive that I'm pretty sure he tore my sphincter. I haven't had any interest since.

Poor guy I'm sorry the doctor hurt you.

 

[Infernal]

Poor guy I'm sorry the doctor hurt you.

I had to look at the bright side: no more bleeding. A guy at work was talking about one of the younger staff being butt hurt over something, and I told him if anyone had a reason to complain about being butt hurt, it was me. No more interest in being verse so I can find more hot ass to fuck.

 

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

I had to look at the bright side: no more bleeding. A guy at work was talking about one of the younger staff being butt hurt over something, and I told him if anyone had a reason to complain about being butt hurt, it was me. No more interest in being verse so I can find more hot ass to fuck.

Well, silver linings are always gonna be a thing then I guess. Lol, butts are nice.

 

[mattpsy]

this is just the definition of being verse: sometimes you wanna top, sometimes you wanna bottom, sometimes you wanna be in the middle doing both. otherwise youd be a strictly top or bottom

same for not being a strictly dom or sub, which is known as being a switch. this is also separate. you can be a dom top or dom bottom [also separate from being a power top or power bottom]

 

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

this is just the definition of being verse: sometimes you wanna top, sometimes you wanna bottom, sometimes you wanna be in the middle doing both. otherwise youd be a strictly top or bottom

same for not being a strictly dom or sub, which is known as being a switch. this is also separate. you can be a dom top or dom bottom [also separate from being a power top or power bottom]

Thanks for clarifying haha. My bad. ^^;

 

[mattpsy]

Thanks for clarifying haha. My bad. ^^;

not your bad! learning this makes you smarter than half or more of gay/bi men under 40

 

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

not your bad! learning this makes you smarter than half or more of gay/bi men under 40

Alright then, well, thank you for your response. You're a cool guy

 

[halcyondays]

I top a guy who says he only wants to bottom. Then he says he wants to top me. I say give me a few minutes to go clean out!

Surprise, surprise! That's my verse cycle.

 

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

I top a guy who says he only wants to bottom. Then he says he wants to top me. I say give me a few minutes to go clean out!

Surprise, surprise! That's my verse cycle.

Brilliant! Hot af!! The Dream hehehe

 

[halcyondays]

Brilliant! Hot af!! The Dream hehehe

Sigh. Doesn't happen as often as I'd like...

 

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

Sigh. Doesn't happen as often as I'd like...

Oh...well, I guess that is pretty disappointing. Well, I guess it makes it an even more special occasion

 

[MNpervert]

Yes I totally understand. Some days I wake up and I just want to pound away at a nice tight bottom and other days I seem to wake up feeling more fem and need to get fucked hard.

 

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

Yes I totally understand. Some days I wake up and I just want to pound away at a nice tight bottom and other days I seem to wake up feeling more fem and need to get fucked hard.

Yes. That's the way it is sometimes, ain't it...

 

[SirHungDevon]

Same, though it not only depends on my mood, but also the type(s) of guys presented. For me the desire to bottom tends to be stronger when I have it because I am not presented many opportunities where my mood, the type of guy, and his desire to top all coincides.

 

[MoBiGuy]

I'm bi and a solosexual. I use toys when masturbating and most of the time I fuck one of the sleeves that I have but once in a while I feel the urge to be filled and use one or more of my dildos while getting off.

 

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

I'm bi and a solosexual. I use toys when masturbating and most of the time I fuck one of the sleeves that I have but once in a while I feel the urge to be filled and use one or more of my dildos while getting off.

Interesting