Thank you so much for your reply! I definitely think it has a lot to do with my confidence. I actually went out with my friend this past weekend and he sort of made it a point to change the conversation into my appearance. The man we were talking to also made it a point to ask random people if I’m attractive. I left there mortified
but I think I got the point.
Talking with guys on the apps is different because I also think I do not know how to keep conversations going. I am never the one who asks what are you looking for because it’s not my only intention. I am terrible at small talk
I try to go for guys I find attractive because it’s Grindr most people are not there to meet the one.