The problem is that these "str8" guys deny to high heaven that there is no attraction or arousal if they have sex with a man. Talk about bi-erasure And WE ate the ones being unreasonable!? The dick dont lie...but "str8" guys do. And these arent one-offs with men either or you might have a point.
It is really offensive with these type of guys. They want us to believe they arent gay or even bi and they are LGBTQ allies. Yep, they are such allies they are gonna prove it by having gay sex AND THEN bait/charge gay men for the "privilege" of watching that "support" of the community. Instead of actually being a REAL ally and admit that maybe, just maybe they are part of that community. Nope, they just cant do that though can they? They might as well be telling us to our face that "yah, I have sex with men but I ain't no f****t like you!" With the gay/bi deniers it's almost like gay4pay is the new blackface. To me it is just as insulting.