Dont get all caught up in that part. Of course they are EXACTLY the same, but I was just trying to think of a similar analogy of an oppressed group of people. Sometimes blackface was to openly mimic black people and sometimes used by whites thinking it was okay, even supportive of black people. And thankfully now it is all totally unacceptable. Similarly, the "str8" guys saying they are supportive of our community by having gay sex is just as ridiculous. And the problem is that they are ACTUALLY aroused and having gay sex which goes to my other points I had made. They want to be "openly closeted" so they dont have to deal with the crap out(and closeted) gay and bisexuals have had to deal with forever. It's not a perfect analogy but I stand behind the reasoning behind it.