I already told you I haven’t been to this thread in a year. While I didn’t even know who this dude was until I came across a few messy things over the years. I also don’t have any issue with people wanking off to him or fantasizing about whoever. There’s a lot of silly shit in many of these threads ignore. But when you publicly try to give someone pats on the back, someone who spent years trying to bury his gay porn and gay identity, who spent years uplifting straight-presenting guys and used hetero porn to get close to straight-presenting guys, who snake-i-ly posted clips getting it on with a drug addicted supposed friend knowing it’d ruin his “career”, who only publicly started to embrace queerdom once their “career” began flopping- pats on the back are simply not called for.
I understand porn is a job and a lot of these guys have insecurities, mental health struggles, fluidity, insecurities, journeys as far as the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. And I’ve had my own issues with fluidity and ego. So, I get that. But the recent idolizing and back patting was silly, and I simply called it out. And I wouldn’t have even done so if someone hadn’t liked an old post. Moving on now.
