Joshua Rush
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He's representing the rest of us skeleton twinks
i didn't intend for my comment on him getting a gf coming off as biphobic. sorry to anyone that perceived it that way.
i simply think it's a waste to be bi and then still go for the opposite gender. if he says he's bi i'll believe him until he says otherwise, i'm just against heteronormativity
i simply think it's a waste to be bi and then still go for the opposite gender. if he says he's bi i'll believe him until he says otherwise, i'm just against heteronormativity
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so.. you believe bisexual men should just be gay then?
i understand where your "apology" is coming from, but it also comes off as backhanded & still biphobic.
no. that's not what i said. if a guy is bi he can find women attractive and even hook up with them. but for relationships should go for men. what's the point of being bi if you're just gonna go for the opposite gender?
my problem is people following heteronormativity. if you're bi you have the choice to not fall into the heteronormative bs.
the way i see it, it's like you have 2 options to choose from for dessert and instead of picking the cake you chose the apple
This is most uneducated nonsense I've read on this website. Wtf
This is still biphobia my dude.
I don't care what you'd "accept", you're being biphobic. You're getting mad at a person who likes both white and chocolate cake for only eating chocolate for a month.
You don't choose who you fall in love with my dude. For all we know he might have a preference for women and he would consider women the cake on your desert island. As a gay man I understand the disappointment of not getting to see another same-sex couple, but just because he's with a girl now and more straight-passing doesn't mean he isn't also into men. He's still queer, we didn't "lose him" to anything. Bisexuality isn't a political tool against the cishets, he's not trying to be heteronormative, the dude's just in love. Good for him.
What you're saying doesn't come across as heterophobic (if that existed), but actually biphobic because there is a long history of cishets and gays alike invalidating the sexuality of bi people who are in opposite-sex relationships. Your comment is reminiscent of that, even if that wasn't your intention.
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I’m bi and you’re a dumbass.
Is this guy a troll? Nobody is this dense unintentionally. Sigh......
"Should go for men," like what?! He's bisexual. He's attracted to both. Found interest in a female who was interested in him and now they are dating. How is this heteronormative? Omg.
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You can stick to your wrong dumb opinion.
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Heteronormativity is the belief that heterosexuality, predicated on the gender binary, is the default, preferred, or normal mode of sexual orientation. It assumes that sexual and marital relations are most fitting between people of opposite sex.
learn what words mean before you throw them around to try to justify your biphobia and bigotry. a bisexual man in a relationship with a woman is NOT “heteronormativity.” heteronormativity would be if people were to encourage or persuade a bisexual man to only date women. so by definition are you suggesting homonormativity ? believing same sex relationships are the only valid relationships ? just because you’re gay doesn’t mean you can’t be an ignorant bigot and you sir are an ignorant bigot