What does that mean
When u cuddle there are two positions: big spoon (as in the one who holds) and little spoon (the one who gets held); instinctively if you assume a top is more masculine he would also be big spoon and with a bottom vice versa. We live in an age of non-binarism and gender-non-conformism though. So that wouldn’t necessarily mean he’s a top/bottom. But since most people are assuming he’s a bottom cuz he’s not very masculine one might also think he’s a top cuz he’s big spoon. Thanks for listening to my TED-talk!
 
When u cuddle there are two positions: big spoon (as in the one who holds) and little spoon (the one who gets held); instinctively if you assume a top is more masculine he would also be big spoon and with a bottom vice versa. We live in an age of non-binarism and gender-non-conformism though. So that wouldn’t necessarily mean he’s a top/bottom. But since most people are assuming he’s a bottom cuz he’s not very masculine one might also think he’s a top cuz he’s big spoon. Thanks for listening to my TED-talk!

You live in an age of non-binarism and gender-non-conformism though.

I don't!