Lack of str8 sex = feeling more bi

[hornygeordie]

hey all,

When my sex is a little sparse from the wife, do you find your sexual feelings turn more bi/gay? I know mine certainly do.

Wonder if others do too.

 

[hornygeordie]

Not just me then.......lol

 

[Larrylibido]

Yes!! Once menopause hit, it all slowed down to a crawl. And the more I starting exploring my anus and finding that I can stretch it to the point where I bet I could easily get a penis in there. Now it’s got me thinking. I just have to try it!! Blowjob? What the heck. Let’s try it. Top , bottom, backwards, sideways, swallow, rim, suck. We only live once. Now I just need to find someone local to try all this with

 

[Greg66]

Boy, that's me. I'm in my 60's and never thought about sucking off another guy till about 5 years ago . Agree with above comments, the less my wife and I connect physically, the more I want to give a blow job. I've done it a couple times and love to do it, lots of guilt afterwards though. My pattern seems to be no sex, start thinking about giving head, follow through on it, forget it for 6 months, repeat.

 

[munkieman]

100%
I tried to leave the wife a while back so iicould get back into cock sucking,shehad turned into a hell-bitch and life was the lowest

Still with her though since we had a talk and I told her everything

 

[Countryguy63]

I did find that when I was married. Since I was monogamous and faithful during my marriage, I believe it was because I had access to hetero sex, so my fantasies would focus on what I didn't have.

 

[X rated]

100%
I tried to leave the wife a while back so iicould get back into cock sucking,shehad turned into a hell-bitch and life was the lowest

Still with her though since we had a talk and I told her everything

You told her you want to get BACK into cocksucking?

 

[someotherguy]

Definitely. Whenever I'm single, I find myself looking at gay porn a lot more frequently.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

This thread is very interesting from my standpoint. This might explain why I meet a lot of married or newly experimental older men that didn't explore this side of their sexuality when they were young and probably primarily interested in females.

 

[Billy Williams]

Boy, that's me. I'm in my 60's and never thought about sucking off another guy till about 5 years ago . Agree with above comments, the less my wife and I connect physically, the more I want to give a blow job. I've done it a couple times and love to do it, lots of guilt afterwards though. My pattern seems to be no sex, start thinking about giving head, follow through on it, forget it for 6 months, repeat.

Greg, you sound like me. Flag to know other stright guys do it too.

 

[Mister2101]

This thread is very interesting from my standpoint. This might explain why I meet a lot of married or newly experimental older men that didn't explore this side of their sexuality when they were young and probably primarily interested in females.

No doubt.....I only waited till my 30's to give in to the curiosity and desire.....

Plus increased access and exposure to gay porn on the internet....plus the slow but ever changing view and dare I say acceptance of gay sex....has all contributed to older men "experimenting" with MM sex....giving it a try so to speak....

 

[deleted817718]

hey all,

When my sex is a little sparse from the wife, do you find your sexual feelings turn more bi/gay? I know mine certainly do.

Wonder if others do too.

Absolutely. I always think that is my wife and I split I would definitely only go for men now.

 

[WilliamG]

I part of this club. Married 30+ years. Love our sex. She even pegs me. But my curiosity for cock is sometimes overpowering. Especially when my ass doesn't get played with!

 

[Mike hutt]

Yes!! Once menopause hit, it all slowed down to a crawl. And the more I starting exploring my anus and finding that I can stretch it to the point where I bet I could easily get a penis in there. Now it’s got me thinking. I just have to try it!! Blowjob? What the heck. Let’s try it. Top , bottom, backwards, sideways, swallow, rim, suck. We only live once. Now I just need to find someone local to try all this with

Haha you got that right!!

 

[766911]

Sounds about right.

 

[1098270]

I have not had sex with a woman in a little over 2 years now. I got out of a bad relationship a year and a half ago. During that time, I have found it really hard to connect with women. I am a shy person, not very outgoing, don't have a lot of confidence, and I am a heavy set guy. So, I started watching porn more and more starting about 2 years ago. I started with straight porn, and lesbian porn. Then I started watching other porn, like mfm, transwomen porn, and then gay porn. At first, it was just out of curiosity and boredom. But the more I started watching transwomen and gay porn, the more I found it was arousing to me. I now almost exclusively watch gay and trans porn only. I have also experimented a couple times with a couple different guys, but not a lot. Mostly just mutual hj. I want to take it to the next step and see if i can find a guy who I can play with on a regular basis, and safely, but I still have not done so. I guess it has a lot to do with being shy and not confident in myself, as well as not having good luck with meeting anyone where mutual interest is there.

I think all of this is mostly because if I hadn't had such a long dryspell, I might not have been open-minded enough to consider being with a guy. Maybe I always had some bi tendencies, and didn't realize it until recently, or maybe it's just because I had such bad luck with women. I don't know. What I do know is if I didn't have a lack of hetero sex, I am pretty sure I would not have become bi curious like I am now.

 

[Mister2101]

I have not had sex with a woman in a little over 2 years now. I got out of a bad relationship a year and a half ago. During that time, I have found it really hard to connect with women. I am a shy person, not very outgoing, don't have a lot of confidence, and I am a heavy set guy. So, I started watching porn more and more starting about 2 years ago. I started with straight porn, and lesbian porn. Then I started watching other porn, like mfm, transwomen porn, and then gay porn. At first, it was just out of curiosity and boredom. But the more I started watching transwomen and gay porn, the more I found it was arousing to me. I now almost exclusively watch gay and trans porn only. I have also experimented a couple times with a couple different guys, but not a lot. Mostly just mutual hj. I want to take it to the next step and see if i can find a guy who I can play with on a regular basis, and safely, but I still have not done so. I guess it has a lot to do with being shy and not confident in myself, as well as not having good luck with meeting anyone where mutual interest is there.

I think all of this is mostly because if I hadn't had such a long dryspell, I might not have been open-minded enough to consider being with a guy. Maybe I always had some bi tendencies, and didn't realize it until recently, or maybe it's just because I had such bad luck with women. I don't know. What I do know is if I didn't have a lack of hetero sex, I am pretty sure I would not have become bi curious like I am now.

Thanks for sharing. I hope you find what you are looking for.....and have a nice first experience with MM sex......

Finding the right guy who will be understanding, patient, and considerate to be your first is important, as you have said.....and that will be discreet and safe.....good luck my friend....you are certainly not alone.....

 

[nnjjock24]

Yes absolutely the less she puts out the more my mind wanders.

 

[Larrylibido]

Yes absolutely the less she puts out the more my mind wanders.

Exactly. And you wonder just what it would be like...

 

[Beo Agate]

I'm 60, and still like sex. I had some bi/gay encounters over the years, but always stayed with women. My wife gave up sex over 5 years ago. Medical reasons. Now my pleasure is giving head to guys. I really want to try and bottom, but I'm very nervous. I really enjoy being with a man now.