Ladies - Comparing Your Husbands/bfs With A Friend

[Mule]

On one occasion penis size came up, it turned out he had 8 and a half

I bet he didn't.

 

[MickeyLee]

When she said 8-1/2 she meant shoe size. No peen inches.

 

[Brianne_24]

i dated a man who wasn't quite three inches. We hooked up with someone who was at least four times his size. I thought it was hot at first to see him fascinated by what that man could make me feel, how much more powerful my orgasms were, and basically just how much more prowess at making love he had to offer. My husband isn't usually submissive, but the roles switched almost immediately, like he was a kid in class forced to take notes. I think as a one time experience it was arousing...but a few days later he still wouldn't stop behaving in an insecure way. Same after a few weeks. Then months. It really got to him, and on some level he was right - he could never satisfy me sexually as much as the man we hooked up with. It just wasn't physically possible. But he became so weak and affected by it it made him seem pathetic, and I can't be attracted to anyone who's pathetic so we parted ways. Men care far too much about size.

 

[T_Lurch]

i dated a man who wasn't quite three inches. We hooked up with someone who was at least four times his size. I thought it was hot at first to see him fascinated by what that man could make me feel, how much more powerful my orgasms were, and basically just how much more prowess at making love he had to offer. My husband isn't usually submissive, but the roles switched almost immediately, like he was a kid in class forced to take notes. I think as a one time experience it was arousing...but a few days later he still wouldn't stop behaving in an insecure way. Same after a few weeks. Then months. It really got to him, and on some level he was right - he could never satisfy me sexually as much as the man we hooked up with. It just wasn't physically possible. But he became so weak and affected by it it made him seem pathetic, and I can't be attracted to anyone who's pathetic so we parted ways. Men care far too much about size.

No offense; I understand that the ex's insecure and neurotic behavior after that made you view him in an unfavorable light, that I understand.

The part I don't quite understand is where you said that he was right about not being able to satisfy you sexually, then said men care far too much about size. Sounds like you vindicated his fears about size.

Unless I'm missing something.

 

[ItalTony9]

i dated a man who wasn't quite three inches. We hooked up with someone who was at least four times his size. I thought it was hot at first to see him fascinated by what that man could make me feel, how much more powerful my orgasms were, and basically just how much more prowess at making love he had to offer. My husband isn't usually submissive, but the roles switched almost immediately, like he was a kid in class forced to take notes. I think as a one time experience it was arousing...but a few days later he still wouldn't stop behaving in an insecure way. Same after a few weeks. Then months. It really got to him, and on some level he was right - he could never satisfy me sexually as much as the man we hooked up with. It just wasn't physically possible. But he became so weak and affected by it it made him seem pathetic, and I can't be attracted to anyone who's pathetic so we parted ways. Men care far too much about size.

Jesus...

 

[Scarletbegonia]

It needs to be said...

how is male insecurity a women’s issue?

 

[Brianne_24]

No offense; I understand that the ex's insecure and neurotic behavior after that made you view him in an unfavorable light, that I understand.

The part I don't quite understand is where you said that he was right about not being able to satisfy you sexually, then said men care far too much about size. Sounds like you vindicated his fears about size.

Unless I'm missing something.

We were in an open relationship. He was still my main, but became so whiny and jealous that he stopped being fun to hang out with. Insecurity is a personal problem that men might have, and it's not on us to deal with it.

 

[T_Lurch]

We were in an open relationship. He was still my main, but became so whiny and jealous that he stopped being fun to hang out with. Insecurity is a personal problem that men might have, and it's not on us to deal with it.

Well, that makes sense.

One shouldn't enter into an open relationship if they're not secure or prepared to share their companion with others.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Insecurity is a personal problem that some people might have, and it's not on me to deal with it.

Edited for the sake of example

Men aren't the only ones who might experiment with an open relationship and not find it as easy as they want it to be..

Just thought that was worth pointing out. My guy and I were non-monogamous for some time, and when my feelings changed he wasn't on the same page immediately. I stuck around, cuz that's my muhfucker right there... But I can relate to having a bit of a change of feelings in certain circumstances. I was fine with him fucking other women, until I wasn't.

 

[Brianne_24]

Edited for the sake of example

Men aren't the only ones who might experiment with an open relationship and not find it as easy as they want it to be..

Just thought that was worth pointing out. My guy and I were non-monogamous for some time, and when my feelings changed he wasn't on the same page immediately. I stuck around, cuz that's my muhfucker right there... But I can relate to having a bit of a change of feelings in certain circumstances. I was fine with him fucking other women, until I wasn't.

True, it's just that insecurity seems to be a problem w/ men more often for some reason.

 

[6_andahalf]

I bet he didn't.

I believe he actually does. His partner had a photo from their nudist days and it was hanging pretty low.

Talking here about being compared, the first time my wife and me got it together was way back in the mid 90s. I turned up on her doorstep around midnight after a good few drinks. We had become friends over that summer and I decided to see if it would go further. I was a virgin but after sipping coffee there was an awkward silence before she lifted her top to expose one very large breast and asked 'is this what you want?'

So it was upstairs and the v-plates were lost. However it must have been 3 years later or so after we were married that she confessed to a guy leaving via the back door when I called that night. We weren't an item so I thought ok that's fair enough and I did call unexpectedly.

However she told me his penis measured 11 inches. His family had a reputation for being hung so that tallied and she had been with a whole lot of men before me, and I mean a lot. She had only jerked and sucked him off that night she told me. But I can honestly say that if I'd have known he had been there that night, she and I would never have become an item. OK I'm closer to 7 inches than 6.5, but being outgunned by a good 4 inches doesn't do a lot for a guy unless he's into cuckolding. Which is ok for jerking off over porn but not IRL.

I remember that night asking her if it was big enough. Knowing what I do now, the answer to that must have been a resounding NO. Though of course she was polite and wasn't about to say that.

 

[Fredneck1951]

While we're at it, I've never compared my vulva to another woman's either.

Now that’s interesting. My wife and her posse are all pushing 80. They weren’t inclined to talk about their men (most of whom are dead, ahem). What surprised the heck out of me was when my wife told me that in high school during gym in the locker rooms the girls who either 1) had space between their legs, i.e, you could see between their thighs) or 2) had prominent labia minora aka “beef curtains” hanging down were regarded as slutty. Nice Southern white girls, whoda thunk it?

 

[MickeyLee]

Now that’s interesting. My wife and her posse are all pushing 80. They weren’t inclined to talk about their men (most of whom are dead, ahem). What surprised the heck out of me was when my wife told me that in high school during gym in the locker rooms the girls who either 1) had space between their legs, i.e, you could see between their thighs) or 2) had prominent labia minora aka “beef curtains” hanging down were regarded as slutty. Nice Southern white girls, whoda thunk it?

Body Shaming never sleeps.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Math isn’t adding to statements.

 

[ChezzD]

Only when my two closest friends have I ever discussed dicks. Most of the time its just a general comment on whether theyve been big/decnet/small. The only exception where I actually also showed them pictures and went into detail, was my kids dad's penis. His is just so massive when I described it they wanted to see more proof

 

[ItalTony9]

We were in an open relationship. He was still my main, but became so whiny and jealous that he stopped being fun to hang out with. Insecurity is a personal problem that men might have, and it's not on us to deal with it.

you have a part in this development of his insecurity,

 

[KayleynScott]

Only when my two closest friends have I ever discussed dicks. Most of the time its just a general comment on whether theyve been big/decnet/small. The only exception where I actually also showed them pictures and went into detail, was my kids dad's penis. His is just so massive when I described it they wanted to see more proof

Sometimes the very best ones are required to be shared! Haha!

 

[Holly Doors]

Sometimes the very best ones are required to be shared! Haha!

Sharing is caring Kay x

 

[KayleynScott]

Sharing is caring Kay x

I. COULD. NOT. AGREE. MORE.

 

[passionate_kisses]

Count me on sharing and comparing. My husband is on the smaller side, and a few close friends know it. But I love when they share about the big guys they have been with or are married to.