Ladies - Comparing Your Husbands/bfs With A Friend

We were in an open relationship. He was still my main, but became so whiny and jealous that he stopped being fun to hang out with. Insecurity is a personal problem that men might have, and it's not on us to deal with it.
3" x 4=12"
Sorry but I'll call BS until the 10 000$ price have been delivered.
 
This is kind of how got me down rabbit hole and find this site. My SO is actually on the small side and wasn't like surprised. Was talking with some of my divorced friends they told me about the great Sex they have had since divorced. Also, how great it is with very well-endowed men and say I am missing out on some great sex.
A woman with your natural beauty and charm and whit should have no problem meeting anyone. Your magnetic personality showed through in your first pictures, you have a GREAT smile too. Yes you have the body too especially your sexy cute butt.

Not sure what you’re looking for exactly. I am single, never been married, 6’1” and 220lbs over 7”. I travel a lot to Florida for work I have several clients in and around Miami.

Either way I hope you find what you deserve until then WE ALL hope you keep posting those great photos of yourself.
 
I'm not in any way denying the experiences of the women here, but it seems odd that basically every woman here is denying that they've openly discussed or showed pictures of their man's privates to their girlfriends, yet almost every woman I ever knew who had more than 1 or 2 partners in her life did exactly that. Granted, I'm thinking of a lot of friends with benefits or boyfriends being shared, not husbands, so I might be viewing the question differently. (I've seen a few husband details shared, including my wife sharing my size with a few girls, but most of the time husbands seem to be where the line is drawn, with the women I've been around. Mostly college educated Millennial American women, if anyone cares.)
 
I'm not in any way denying the experiences of the women here, but it seems odd that basically every woman here is denying that they've openly discussed or showed pictures of their man's privates to their girlfriends, yet almost every woman I ever knew who had more than 1 or 2 partners in her life did exactly that. Granted, I'm thinking of a lot of friends with benefits or boyfriends being shared, not husbands, so I might be viewing the question differently. (I've seen a few husband details shared, including my wife sharing my size with a few girls, but most of the time husbands seem to be where the line is drawn, with the women I've been around. Mostly college educated Millennial American women, if anyone cares.)

I don't know what's odd about it. Sexual intimacy is just that for me - intimate. There's no need for anyone else to know what goes on behind closed doors. (Earworm alert).

Why would I brag about his penis? To make someone envious? Of whom? Him or me?

I don't even brag about my child or her achievements, or my achievements, for that matter.

Honestly, the only people that have ever asked about my husband's size are men. I've not had one other woman, either in real life or on this forum who have asked me about it.

Of course, I'm not a teenager any more, so sexual conquests mean nothing to me.
 
I'm not in any way denying the experiences of the women here, but it seems odd that basically every woman here is denying that they've openly discussed or showed pictures of their man's privates to their girlfriends, yet almost every woman I ever knew who had more than 1 or 2 partners in her life did exactly that. Granted, I'm thinking of a lot of friends with benefits or boyfriends being shared, not husbands, so I might be viewing the question differently. (I've seen a few husband details shared, including my wife sharing my size with a few girls, but most of the time husbands seem to be where the line is drawn, with the women I've been around. Mostly college educated Millennial American women, if anyone cares.)
"I'm not in any way denying the experiences of the women here, but..." and then you go about doing exactly that. As a matter of rhetorical slight-of-hand, you could use some practice as a magician.
 
"I'm not in any way denying the experiences of the women here, but..." and then you go about doing exactly that. As a matter of rhetorical slight-of-hand, you could use some practice as a magician.
Not really. I'm saying that I'm assuming these women are telling the truth, but I'm surprised it is so one-sided, because there are a lot of women who do share this information. You are allowed to recognize people are different - it doesn't mean you're shitting on one or the other.
 
Not really. I'm saying that I'm assuming these women are telling the truth, but I'm surprised it is so one-sided, because there are a lot of women who do share this information. You are allowed to recognize people are different - it doesn't mean you're shitting on one or the other.
So, I assume you are accepting "their experiences" no matter it seems "odd" to you that "basically every woman here is denying that they've openly discussed or showed pictures of their man's privates to their girlfriends." As such, the "but" was hardly necessary.
 
Not really. I'm saying that I'm assuming these women are telling the truth, but I'm surprised it is so one-sided, because there are a lot of women who do share this information. You are allowed to recognize people are different - it doesn't mean you're shitting on one or the other.

So, there's a lot of women who share this information? How many is a lot? How many do you personally know that do it? And how many do they say do it?

I'm always perplexed by "they say" type of references. Who's they? And what exactly are they saying?

I know exactly zero women who have ever discussed their mates genitalia in all seriousness. I've been in groups where they joke about it like laughing at finding Moby Dick. But to actually discuss their SO's junk? Maybe it's because I'm such a prude. Or maybe I hang around with the right women.

OK, here's the truth, and it's gonna hurt. Porn isn't real. We don't all drool over a big bulge in a man's slacks. We don't get an itch to give a blow job while he's sleeping. And the most horrible truth of all: those loud mufflers and tire squeal do not wet our panties. They only appeal to other dudes.
 
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I think it depends on what you mean by "their mates genetalia." I haven't heard of many women telling others intimate details about their husband, fiancee, or serious boyfriend's private parts. But - again, at least among Millennial girls back when they were in college - it seemed pretty common for girls to talk about the men they slept with, and that included references to their size. It was probably a little more common than not, honestly. Like 50-60% of sexually active women were sharing these details with their close friends. (I have always gotten along better with women than men, so I was clued into these sometimes - even when I didn't want to be, like when I overheard and then was roped into a brief conversation about how small one girl's boyfriend was, and I just felt bad for her outing him like that in front of me and 3 or 4 other girls.)

I'm not saying that girls were calculating and comparing volume or anything, but when a girl was fucking a well-hung FWB or boyfriend they weren't too committed to yet, statements like "He's so big," or "He's 8 inches," or "He's so much bigger than my ex" were common. Or a girl asking another if a guy was "as big as she heard" - or the opposite. (Side note: How would such rumors start if NO women talk about penis size?)

Do you remember the app that let women anonymously rate their sexual partners? It didn't last long, but for a year or two, it was actually used, and one of the default tags to assign to a guy was "big feet." Same type of thing. Do you think the app developers threw that tag in and no women used it?

I've noticed some sharing of pictures, even, but that was less common. I know at least half a dozen girls shared my pictures with friends, and one particularly immature girl did it without my permission (including putting it on the internet). I bring that girl up just to respond in advance to the idea that "Well, you must just be hanging around shitty women," because I do not think that is the case for most of them. That one girl was awful, immature, and direspectful, and another one or two were unusually sexual girls so you might expect them to be more prone to sharing, but the rest were just normal, everyday women. Not "sluts" or particularly immature, just normal women who had normal conversations with their friends.

Why is there so much pushback to the thought that maybe some normal women would tell their friends about an unusually big or small dick? It just seems like part of exploring human sexuality. Just becaue you didn't do that doesn't mean the other 4 billion women on the planet don't.
 
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"I'm not in any way denying the experiences of the women here, but..." and then you go about doing exactly that. As a matter of rhetorical slight-of-hand, you could use some practice as a magician.
I thought the same thing, it is like when you hear someone say:
“With all due respect…”

The only respect was to try and fluff up an insult lol
 
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I think it depends on what you mean by "their mates genetalia." I haven't heard of many women telling others intimate details about their husband, fiancee, or serious boyfriend's private parts. But - again, at least among Millennial girls back when they were in college - it seemed pretty common for girls to talk about the men they slept with, and that included references to their size. It was probably a little more common than not, honestly. Like 50-60% of sexually active women were sharing these details with their close friends. (I have always gotten along better with women than men, so I was clued into these sometimes - even when I didn't want to be, like when I overheard and then was roped into a brief conversation about how small one girl's boyfriend was, and I just felt bad for her outing him like that in front of me and 3 or 4 other girls.)

I'm not saying that girls were calculating and comparing volume or anything, but when a girl was fucking a well-hung FWB or boyfriend they weren't too committed to yet, statements like "He's so big," or "He's 8 inches," or "He's so much bigger than my ex" were common. Or a girl asking another if a guy was "as big as she heard" - or the opposite. (Side note: How would such rumors start if NO women talk about penis size?)

Do you remember the app that let women anonymously rate their sexual partners? It didn't last long, but for a year or two, it was actually used, and one of the default tags to assign to a guy was "big feet." Same type of thing. Do you think the app developers threw that tag in and no women used it?

I've noticed some sharing of pictures, even, but that was less common. I know at least half a dozen girls shared my pictures with friends, and one particularly immature girl did it without my permission (including putting it on the internet). I bring that girl up just to respond in advance to the idea that "Well, you must just be hanging around shitty women," because I do not think that is the case for most of them. That one girl was awful, immature, and direspectful, and another one or two were unusually sexual girls so you might expect them to be more prone to sharing, but the rest were just normal, everyday women. Not "sluts" or particularly immature, just normal women who had normal conversations with their friends.

Why is there so much pushback to the thought that maybe some normal women would tell their friends about an unusually big or small dick? It just seems like part of exploring human sexuality. Just becaue you didn't do that doesn't mean the other 4 billion women on the planet don't.
When in my teens and 20s I loved when my female friends talked about the size of their current and past bfs cock! Was very exciting to learn the size of guys I knew
 
The only respect was to try and fluff up an insult lol
I really don't get what's insulting about it. I said some women do have these conversations. Lots of them. I didn't say all of them, I didn't say anything negative about those who do or don't. I just said I was surprised that almost everyone here said they never have these conversations, but my personal experience has been wildly different. Because that is surprising any time it happens, isn't it? If you went to a forum about cars, and all your life all the car people you knew loved muscle cars, but the forum was like "Nobody likes muscle cars. Literally nobody." Wouldn't you be like "Whoa, jarring! I wonder what the difference is?"