Living With A Small Penis

[aklxx]

Hey guys!

I've been on here and various other forums for quite some time now, and yet have to find a "living with a small penis" thread of some sort that doesn't have anything to do with small dick humiliation. I'm 23, gay, living in a relationship. I think I started having sexual interactions , and pretty soon I started noticing that my dick has always been (sometimes much) smaller than the guys I've been with. There were even a few guys who turned me down for that fact. The older I got, the less I was seeking out sexual interactions because I've grown more afraid of rejection. Still after 2 years into my relationship, I'm not fully comfortable showing myself relaxed and naked in front of my partner. I've read a lot into small dick humiliation and tried it for myself (as a sexual practise), but never felt any kind of comfort in it, as it just increased my insecurities (obviously). Several men telling me I was too small to be a top have even caused me to have trobules actually performing during sex as their words still come to my head when I am top.

I'd love to start a conversation about how men can find comfort and pride in having a small dick, and I would absolutely love to hear stories from men that already have found this pride and how they did it!

 

[Borkbork]

How big is it?

 

[yhtang]

How big is it?

In the context of the subject title, shouldn't the question be, "How small is it?"

 

[peter small dick]

I completely see the pain of OP.
I have 4inches hard and to make things worst I suffer with premature ejaculation.
I'm Bi, I was married with a woman for almost 10 years and never felt comfortable naked with her.
When I'm with a guy I'm always bottom, I try to convince myself I don't like to top but reality is I'm too afraid to fail.

Unfortunately I'm here in search for advice too, I have no answers for this question.
The only upside of my lack of size is I think being humiliated by having a small penis very erotic and stimulating.

 

[CURVEDANDTHICKK]

I don't really consider myself big but I'm about 4 inches soft and never once thought about someone else being that size hard. Another reminder how we all live in the same world but can have vastly different life experiences.

 

[loo2]

A wise person once said, "its not the size of the wand, it's the magic of the performer". Being in the smaller category, I've haven't had any issues since living by this.

 

[masonjames]

It is what it is and there's not much a man can do except live with it. Confidence can be attractive.
Neither of these is me but just examples. One extreme. The other just on the smaller side, while flaccid

 

[kewlkid75]

For me, I just learned to love what I have. I realize that I am not huge like some other guys and that's ok. I have been on a journey, bit of a spiritual journey in my life, especially since I am a bit older now(45 now). I'm 7 inches, so I am good with that. This is a bit of a ramble, but yes... I am doing wonderful with my small penis.

 

[littleguy2]

It is what it is and there's not much a man can do except live with it. Confidence can be attractive.
Neither of these is me but just examples. One extreme. The other just on the smaller side, while flaccid

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That top guy is so cute and his cock size makes him look hot

 

[littleguy2]

For me, I just learned to love what I have. I realize that I am not huge like some other guys and that's ok. I have been on a journey, bit of a spiritual journey in my life, especially since I am a bit older now(45 now). I'm 7 inches, so I am good with that. This is a bit of a ramble, but yes... I am doing wonderful with my small penis.

Nothing about 7 inches is small

 

[Rewardheragain148]

Women like a girthy dck to rub down their vaginal walls for Easier orgasms and I don’t have that

Its had a big impact on my life wish I born with a girthy one to be honest

 

[hot showers]

That top guy is so cute and his cock size makes him look hot

I totally agree. My dick is about the same size as his, and I also opt to show it proudly wherever it's appropriate to be naked around other men, whether friends or strangers. I am not ashamed that I have a small penis, I think it looks great on me, and I love that other men get to see it on a regular basis in open gym showers, nude beaches, etc.

 

[Shyguyjames]

I totally agree. My dick is about the same size as his, and I also opt to show it proudly wherever it's appropriate to be naked around other men, whether friends or strangers. I am not ashamed that I have a small penis, I think it looks great on me, and I love that other men get to see it on a regular basis in open gym showers, nude beaches, etc.

I wouldn’t even say your cock is small, sir. Average, yes. A perfect size for sucking. I love it so much. (I swear most guys on here are masters at photoshopping the cocks to make them look larger than they actually are. Ha ha)

 

[littleguy2]

I totally agree. My dick is about the same size as his, and I also opt to show it proudly wherever it's appropriate to be naked around other men, whether friends or strangers. I am not ashamed that I have a small penis, I think it looks great on me, and I love that other men get to see it on a regular basis in open gym showers, nude beaches, etc.

You look hot both soft and hard and I wouldn’t think of you as small

 

[hot showers]

You look hot both soft and hard and I wouldn’t think of you as small

Thanks, man. I'm happy with what I have. I'm probably on the small/medium border, and I'm fine with either descriptor. I'm not a size queen and like small dicks as much as big ones, so I don't consider "small" as a bad thing

 

[littleguy2]

Thanks, man. I'm happy with what I have. I'm probably on the small/medium border, and I'm fine with either descriptor. I'm not a size queen and like small dicks as much as big ones, so I don't consider "small" as a bad thing

Agree I am the same size as you hard but smaller soft than you.

 

[deleted1025121]

Hey guys!

I've been on here and various other forums for quite some time now, and yet have to find a "living with a small penis" thread of some sort that doesn't have anything to do with small dick humiliation. I'm 23, gay, living in a relationship. I think I started having sexual interactions when I was 17, and pretty soon I started noticing that my dick has always been (sometimes much) smaller than the guys I've been with. There were even a few guys who turned me down for that fact. The older I got, the less I was seeking out sexual interactions because I've grown more afraid of rejection. Still after 2 years into my relationship, I'm not fully comfortable showing myself relaxed and naked in front of my partner. I've read a lot into small dick humiliation and tried it for myself (as a sexual practise), but never felt any kind of comfort in it, as it just increased my insecurities (obviously). Several men telling me I was too small to be a top have even caused me to have trobules actually performing during sex as their words still come to my head when I am top.

I'd love to start a conversation about how men can find comfort and pride in having a small dick, and I would absolutely love to hear stories from men that already have found this pride and how they did it!

I'm not sure its about comfort or finding pride in a small dick...rather than just accepting what you have. Its really hard to not compare yourself to others...especially with site like this. However I like some of the threads that just show public nudity on here cause you'll see home guys have smaller to average size ones of various weird shapes. It really just comes down to accepting yourself. Some will just withdraw from any kind of sexual pleasure or public nudity. Thats what I have done. But its more important to just try to forget about it and dwell on things you can change like your body or diet. Other things that can boost self confidence.

 

[japetty]

I'm not sure its about comfort or finding pride in a small dick...rather than just accepting what you have. Its really hard to not compare yourself to others...especially with site like this. However I like some of the threads that just show public nudity on here cause you'll see home guys have smaller to average size ones of various weird shapes. It really just comes down to accepting yourself. Some will just withdraw from any kind of sexual pleasure or public nudity. Thats what I have done. But its more important to just try to forget about it and dwell on things you can change like your body or diet. Other things that can boost self confidence.

As you say there is very little one can do/change about penis size. One has to learn there are much more important things in ones life and in a relationship. I have even found that true with my almost 50 year relationship with my wife. We have grown to love each other more over the many years of our marriage. A person who turns another person down because of the size of a penis is a very small minded person. I guess they know what they are looking for in life and I hope they find it. I do have an idea though what they will find is someone to stick a large penis in their anus for a short time and then they are moving on to someone else. A loving relationship is not found in the size of a penis or the size of a woman's breasts. We have to love our own body be very happy with the fact everything is functional and in working order.

You are very correct in your saying "It really just comes down to accepting yourself" If this does not happen it is difficult for someone else to accept you even if they try. As you say work on things you can change such as your body and make it look good when you are in a skimpy bathing suit or in the nude at a pool party or nude beach. There is nothing worse than seeing porn with people with big flabby stomach or a big flabby butt I don't care if they do have a large penis or 38 DD breasts. An appealing looking body is everything if you want to give someone to view. You are correct about the public photograph threads as they do as you suggest they show what is really out there in this world. One sees all size and shapes of penis. They are not mostly 8" or 9" as you see around here.

 

[VIIby5]

Women like a girthy dck to rub down their vaginal walls for Easier orgasms and I don’t have that

Its had a big impact on my life wish I born with a girthy one to be honest

Same dilemma here. I have no doubts that what is supposed to be average (4.5-5) is capable if getting women off. My wife cums on mine. I just dont think its the optimum for most women and something thicker is typically required for really mind blowing orgasms. For some reason the average penis doesn't seem to be the ideal or optimum size for the average vagina. Go figure..

 

[japetty]

Same dilemma here. I have no doubts that what is supposed to be average (4.5-5) is capable if getting women off. My wife cums on mine. I just dont think its the optimum for most women and something thicker is typically required for really mind blowing orgasms. For some reason the average penis doesn't seem to be the ideal or optimum size for the average vagina. Go figure..

Use a toy on the vagina. My penis never makes it where a thick penis is required. While you have their legs up well in the air using the toy (Thick dildo) you and always put your penis in her anus. My 3rd wife of 48 years has never required a thick penis yet. Now if she just let me use a thick dildo on her and put my penis in her anus. Hell she has never even let me lick her anus, hardly ever touch it. Damn!!! YMMV