Living With A Small Penis

[Perfectsix]

I dwarf that tiny little cock when flaccid but @aliuel ends up slightly bigger than me when erect to my amazement do don’t fall into the trap of dismissing small flaccid penises as useless!

 

[Ace1175]

Really mine looks like a kids dick

 

[wvgwm52]

I completely see the pain of OP.
I have 4inches hard and to make things worst I suffer with premature ejaculation.
I'm Bi, I was married with a woman for almost 10 years and never felt comfortable naked with her.
When I'm with a guy I'm always bottom, I try to convince myself I don't like to top but reality is I'm too afraid to fail.

Unfortunately I'm here in search for advice too, I have no answers for this question.
The only upside of my lack of size is I think being humiliated by having a small penis very erotic and stimulating.

Four inches is actually a great size in my opinion .. as for the premature ejaculation.. if I’m sucking it when you cum or your fucking me.. I’d say rest up few minutes and go for round two.. 3. 4 …. One guy I was with years ago came 7 times in about 10 minutes.. so I swallowed a few loads and my ass got the rest …. He said I was the first guy to ever do that… I told him guys can be assholes all have to do and tell them to get lost and find someone that understands your situation.. not put you down for it or

 

[DILFMATE]

Proud!!

 

[bleurfeliner]

With porn and popular media, we seem to have collectively tunnel visioned on penis size, cum volume, and muscularity as the metrics for sex appeal.

Sex is so much more than those things! I think it’s easy to focus on the shortcomings, no pun intended, when compared to those beauty standards. But my personal experience is that in person I can be turned on by many other things that I didn’t think mattered when looking at porn.

How passionately do you engage in oral and other forms of foreplay? Are you a good kisser? Are you confident in your gaze? How in tune are you with the rhythm of our movements? How in tune are you with how our bodies are reacting to each other? So much of that has nothing to do with penis size!

I will do a handsome intense kisser with a micropenis over an 8inch massive cummer with an average face any day.

 

[Ceasar00]

How the hell do you guys live with yourselves? And I dont mean that in a trying to offend you way, but im 23 years old and I'm well below average. It gives me so much anxiety/ self-hatred. Not to mention extremely suicidal. I've never been in a relationship or even kissed anyone yet because of how much I push anyone away because I'm too scared to get hurt. Not to mention ik how toxic the gay community is

 

[deleted1025121]

I also think men with larger cocks (and especially girthy thick ones) are more capable to have better sex in a variety of more positions. Smaller guys (and guys with thin cocks) just cant handle all those positions or rough sex. The girth gives it a solid, strong base to thrust or for the girl or guy to bounce on, etc. If you have a thin one, you have to be more careful as it seems like it can get harmed more easily, bend or slip out. Girth seems important in this equation about size too.

 

[aliuel]

‘Slipping out’ is definitely an issue. But hey, just means you have to work on your technique more rather than cruising just on your size.

Lionel Messi wasn’t the biggest footballer . . .

 

[0Pippo]

yes. I realize that i don't need a big one, I have not to show continuously and I don't see any vantage or gain to (and don't plan to be a wore or sell it).

 

[dalton101]

I’m in the same situation as some of the other members. I’m a 30 year old virgin (aside from the usual friend play back in high school). I find all sexes attractive but am afraid of rejection so I just choose to remain alone and hardly ever put myself out there. I’m 5.5 x 5.5 which is I know technically is average but I just feel tiny AF, especially because I ‘turtle’ most of the time when flaccid.

 

[Perfectsix]

That’s impressive girth - women would appreciate that for sure

 

[Derringer]

I answered 'most of the time' because I havent always been comfortable with my tiny cock but then I developed my Sph fetish and I get off on the discomfort/ humiliation from having a babydick.

 

[Flotiz]

 

[Ace1175]

Nice rocket not to small

 

[abslicker]

I'm bi and very self-conscious about my small dick (4"), more than anything how un-aesthetic it is. I guess I don't have much to offer in terms of advice or anything but it's pretty rough dealing with it being a top, you have to basically accept not having sex because I have just zero interest in being a bottom. The only alternative seems to be SPH but I have zero interest in that either I don't have a gruge against people who reject me for it, I like men so I get being attracted to big cocks but it's certainly a blow not feeling like a rea man having such a small and ugly dick.

 

[myka12]

It's nerve-racking the first time I hook up with someone new because this hammer ain't hammering much, but I do whatever I can to distract them from how small I am by making sure they cum at least twice from going down on them. Sometimes more if they'll let me. I figure if they're all loopy from me eating the pusé that they'll either just do it to make me happy (which I'm more than fine with) or like the last girl I hooked up with that would pretty much have to yell "give me your fucking dick right now" and she would just treat my little guy like the true prince he is

I guess it's just luck because I haven't NOT gotten a callback from my hookups, and they're not just in it for my cunning linguistics, they like the lower case d

 

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

I'm bi and very self-conscious about my small dick (4"), more than anything how un-aesthetic it is. I guess I don't have much to offer in terms of advice or anything but it's pretty rough dealing with it being a top, you have to basically accept not having sex because I have just zero interest in being a bottom. The only alternative seems to be SPH but I have zero interest in that either I don't have a gruge against people who reject me for it, I like men so I get being attracted to big cocks but it's certainly a blow not feeling like a rea man having such a small and ugly dick.

*hugs you*
It's okay

 

[chrisrobin]

Too much emphasis is placed on being large, big tits, big arse, big cock etc when small can most certainly be as sexy and satisfying. I've enjoyed anal penetration by cocks of various sizes but always get off best with the smaller ones. At the end of the day, being basic, the cock is in, his balls are hitting your cheeks and he shoots his cum - and from experience, again, smaller cocks have more stamina to go last longer and go again.

 

[playashleysage]

Not saying im not proud.. but sometimes.. i wish i have bigger penis hehe

 

[lanchiow]

It is what it is and there's not much a man can do except live with it. Confidence can be attractive.
Neither of these is me but just examples. One extreme. The other just on the smaller side, while flaccid

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It is what it is and there's not much a man can do except live with it. Confidence can be attractive.
Neither of these is me but just examples. One extreme. The other just on the smaller side, while flaccid

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The smiling guy is likely a grower.....in which case it'll fill up very stiff. He knows it!