Living With A Small Penis

[Bunny35]

I would'nt say you were small, but there are plenty guys around who actualy love small dicks

 

[4388301]

There's a "Small penis men and their admirers - no humiliation" group on a kink-centric site called fetlife. Might be another option for having positive conversation

 

[kewlkid75]

Nothing about 7 inches is small

Thank you.
I see your pictures. You have a great size. Nothing to be embarrassed about.

 

[18wheeler]

Actually. What bothers me the most. Is when I want to have sex with my wife. It can’t really be spontaneous. I’m small and I’m overweight. She’s chubby and has a big ass. So when we spoon in bed. I can’t just slip it in because it won’t reach. We have to get into missionary, doggie, or her on top.
I just want to be able to adjust a little and stick it in while we are laying down to together.

 

[japetty]

Actually. What bothers me the most. Is when I want to have sex with my wife. It can’t really be spontaneous. I’m small and I’m overweight. She’s chubby and has a big ass. So when we spoon in bed. I can’t just slip it in because it won’t reach. We have to get into missionary, doggie, or her on top.
I just want to be able to adjust a little and stick it in while we are laying down to together.

Since no one can do anything about your penis size concentrate on the things you can control. You say you are overweight which will make your penis smaller. your wife is you say is chubby. You could both be doing other things together to help the situation by exercising and changing your diet to loose weight. It could make a big difference in your sex lives not to mention your health. You might both find it amazing to your lives. Just a suggestion. Wish you well.

 

[18wheeler]

Since no one can do anything about your penis size concentrate on the things you can control. You say you are overweight which will make your penis smaller. your wife is you say is chubby. You could both be doing other things together to help the situation by exercising and changing your diet to loose weight. It could make a big difference in your sex lives not to mention your health. You might both find it amazing to your lives. Just a suggestion. Wish you well.

She’s curvy. Chubby might be the wrong term. She’s thick. Big butt. I don’t want this to change.

You are 100% right though. I need to lose weight. I lost 170lbs between 2012 and 2014. Sex was far better. My stamina was endless too. But. We got married. And she cooks. I gained it all back. I’ve started losing again. I’ve lost 50lbs so far.
But even when I was my smallest. 220lbs. Spooning just wasn’t an option.

 

[Crowe]

Im not so much of a small dicked member myself but I'd like to say something regarding small penises. So my ex wasn't the most sexual person on the planet and on the internet big dicks are praised into heaven.
My ex however actually liked smalled sized dicks over big or even average ones. mostly due to how they look. Im just saying that there definitely are a women out there that like smaller dicks, they are usually just notbfound on these kind of forums.

 

[ManchesterTom]

Thanks, man. I'm happy with what I have. I'm probably on the small/medium border, and I'm fine with either descriptor. I'm not a size queen and like small dicks as much as big ones, so I don't consider "small" as a bad thing

I think your dick is awesome, wanna swap?

 

[ManchesterTom]

Same dilemma here. I have no doubts that what is supposed to be average (4.5-5) is capable if getting women off. My wife cums on mine. I just dont think its the optimum for most women and something thicker is typically required for really mind blowing orgasms. For some reason the average penis doesn't seem to be the ideal or optimum size for the average vagina. Go figure..

You're not small at all.

 

[japetty]

She’s curvy. Chubby might be the wrong term. She’s thick. Big butt. I don’t want this to change.

You are 100% right though. I need to lose weight. I lost 170lbs between 2012 and 2014. Sex was far better. My stamina was endless too. But. We got married. And she cooks. I gained it all back. I’ve started losing again. I’ve lost 50lbs so far.
But even when I was my smallest. 220lbs. Spooning just wasn’t an option.

Do keep up the weight lose for your health, sorry to hear about the spooning don't know what to say there. I know when good cooking is around it is difficult to reduce consumption. The other choice is to exercise more and more exercise tends to make you want to consume more. Maybe the wife can cook something that causes less weight gain. Portion control helps as well. I have cut my meet portion at my evening meal to 2 OZ once in a blue moon I have 4OZ. I have upped my Green Vegetable portion little or no butter. We usually use olive oil. My breakfast is very limited. My lunch unless I am out is limited. I only have bacon, eggs or that kind of stuff about 3 times a month. My age is advanced and I want to keep my old age as healthy as possible to keep myself out of a recovery home type places. I don't smoke and I have not drank alcoholic beverages in 35 years. As my age advances the weight control gets more difficult

 

[18wheeler]

Do keep up the weight lose for your health, sorry to hear about the spooning don't know what to say there. I know when good cooking is around it is difficult to reduce consumption. The other choice is to exercise more and more exercise tends to make you want to consume more. Maybe the wife can cook something that causes less weight gain. Portion control helps as well. I have cut my meet portion at my evening meal to 2 OZ once in a blue moon I have 4OZ. I have upped my Green Vegetable portion little or no butter. We usually use olive oil. My breakfast is very limited. My lunch unless I am out is limited. I only have bacon, eggs or that kind of stuff about 3 times a month. My age is advanced and I want to keep my old age as healthy as possible to keep myself out of a recovery home type places. I don't smoke and I have not drank alcoholic beverages in 35 years. As my age advances the weight control gets more difficult

I try to walk every day. I used to walk 4-6 miles a day. But I now work 12-13h/day and have 4 kids. I barely get 4 hours sleep as it is.

I’ll admit. The walking/exercise has always been helpful. That how I lost the 170 the 1st time. Makes me horny as hell too.

 

[18wheeler]

Do keep up the weight lose for your health, sorry to hear about the spooning don't know what to say there. I know when good cooking is around it is difficult to reduce consumption. The other choice is to exercise more and more exercise tends to make you want to consume more. Maybe the wife can cook something that causes less weight gain. Portion control helps as well. I have cut my meet portion at my evening meal to 2 OZ once in a blue moon I have 4OZ. I have upped my Green Vegetable portion little or no butter. We usually use olive oil. My breakfast is very limited. My lunch unless I am out is limited. I only have bacon, eggs or that kind of stuff about 3 times a month. My age is advanced and I want to keep my old age as healthy as possible to keep myself out of a recovery home type places. I don't smoke and I have not drank alcoholic beverages in 35 years. As my age advances the weight control gets more difficult

Getting older does make it so much harder. Ugh

 

[VIIby5]

You're not small at all.

Overall that may be the case but I think it is all relative. A 5" girth just isn't typically going to provide earth moving orgasms like a larger girth would likely provide with ease. It would also be nice if I was big enough to have some sort of wow factor. Its Its still too close to average to elicit this. And I know I shouldn't be doing this but its pretty hard not to compare myself to everyone else here.

Every once in a while I will pump before sex. I don't go nuts. I probably only increase my girth by .25" doing this. I can definitely tell a difference in how my wife reacts during sex. Her orgasms usually come quicker and are more intense. My orgasms are even better because she seems to grip me better and its i turn on knowing she is enjoying my dick more than usual. I have no doubt if I was 5.5" to 6" thick she would have even better orgasms. Even at my girth she doesn't feel loose to me. Thats pretty telling that she likely has an average size vagina and yet im still not the optimum size for her with a supposedly average girth.

 

[deleted1025121]

Getting older does make it so much harder. Ugh

Poor sleep can also gain weight and cause ED issues. I'm concerned you're only sleeping 4 hours. Sometimes you just need to prioritize things and sleep should be one of them. Especially as you age. The body does a lot of maintenance during the night. Maintaining good weight is essential to so many things.

 

[deleted1025121]

Overall that may be the case but I think it is all relative. A 5" girth just isn't typically going to provide earth moving orgasms like a larger girth would likely provide with ease. It would also be nice if I was big enough to have some sort of wow factor. Its Its still too close to average to elicit this. And I know I shouldn't be doing this but its pretty hard not to compare myself to everyone else here.

Every once in a while I will pump before sex. I don't go nuts. I probably only increase my girth by .25" doing this. I can definitely tell a difference in how my wife reacts during sex. Her orgasms usually come quicker and are more intense. My orgasms are even better because she seems to grip me better and its i turn on knowing she is enjoying my dick more than usual. I have no doubt if I was 5.5" to 6" thick she would have even better orgasms. Even at my girth she doesn't feel loose to me. Thats pretty telling that she likely has an average size vagina and yet im still not the optimum size for her with a supposedly average girth.

How about getting fat injections to give you more girth if you're that concerned by only .25" increase. I still think your cock is fine and quite nice looking. I dont think your wife cares one bit.

 

[VIIby5]

How about getting fat injections to give you more girth if you're that concerned by only .25" increase. I still think your cock is fine and quite nice looking. I dont think your wife cares one bit.

No way! I have seen the after pictures. This issue is just a moderate annoyance. Not enough of an issue to do stuff like that. Hoping some day I will be able to get on a pumping routine.

 

[japetty]

Pumping makes the # of penis I have seen appear very ugly. YMMV IMHO

 

[brandon38]

Yes I happy it always got job done I not real small but not big I had some like in past lol . So good what I have .

 

[amazzzed2]

Getting older does make it so much harder. Ugh

In my experience, getting older makes it softer not harder! LOL
Unfortunately.

 

[japetty]

In my experience, getting older makes it softer not harder! LOL
Unfortunately.

He was not saying getting old makes the penis get harder. he was speaking of blood pressure!