I don’t need to post videos of myself having sex with men because I’m not selling sex online on a pay service. If I fool people into thinking I am interested and willing to have sex with men because that’s my orientation and I take money from subscribers, then yeah, ethically there should be videos online of me doing what I claim I do.
I’ve been out my whole life and have experienced extreme bullying, rejection, prejudice and discrimination because I am a gay man, yet I never pretended to be something I wasn’t. I understood that my orientation was bigger than the abuse I faced and men who came before me had paid a worse fate, so I could have my existence just a little better than what they had, and I gate keep because I want the gay youth after me to have it better than I had it.
If anyone needs a psychiatrist for bipolar or sociopathic tendencies I would suggest you look at your own self before throwing shade because I worked my ass off to support myself and didn’t take the easy path by turning to sex-work to get easy money. TBH a guy who puts in 120 hours a week on Wall Street or Walmart who brings home a check versus a guy who jerks off online and posts vanity videos for money won’t be the guy who comes out on top, because honest, hard work attracts like minded people.
Labels matter because gay men fight like hell to exist. My sexual orientation is my identity. It’s how my community has been treated for decades, it’s the way I had a relationship with family, it impacted the school I choose to attend, it impacts where I can walk at night with my partner. My label ie orientation puts me at risk for increased discrimination and exposure to violence. Gay men have issues with what states they can take mortgages out, or where they can raise children together legally. Every election we have to prey that the next politician doesn’t remove our civil rights to have marriage, and parental rights. In addition the gay men who came before me who lost relationships with family, careers and died of AIDS were all bonded together by a community that proudly had a label. So your snarky comment about labels and you feeling sorry for yourself because people perceive you as gay baiting or saying you’re bisexual but only associating same sex attraction to sex versus love and relationships is your hang up not mine.
The reason people are calling you out for being fake is because you are. You claim your bisexual, not straight, fluid. Every day it changes. Nobody has ever seen you even touch a guy, even in a non sexual way. You don’t date men. People have only claimed you date women and are lying about being attracted to men but who knows?
It seems the only fans “bisexual” men all have the same playbook. Throw the bisexual stuff around so people don’t call you out for co-opting a community that isn’t yours. Exploit a marginalized community and make money and then insult them when said men in the gay community question your motives and identity.
You also rub people the wrong way because you speak on behalf of the gay community but you’re not gay. The videos on your instagram mocking gay sex and making innuendos about same sex attraction is homophobic. Why do the guys on OF think it’s wrong for gay men to question the sexuality of a content creator. If you were sold a black Honda from a car dealership but then it turned out to be red Toyota wouldn’t you be able to ask questions? Aren’t people entitled to understand what they think they’re paying for? Why do you get to profit off people who don’t know what the reality of your brand is?
It’s sad that a straight guy possibly bisexual doesn’t think that it’s morally wrong to attack a gay man on a public forum because said gay man is gate keeping for the sake of the integrity of the gay community, who have historically been treated poorly.
Just the way you talk about same sex attraction comes off as it’s somehow inherently wrong. Why hid it? Do you have boyfriends? Yes/No Do you sleep with men? Yes/No it’s not a trick question. There’s nothing wrong if the answer is yes, unless you’re lying! When you give non- answers like why does it matter? Whose business is it? That’s pretty much a No and if you actually do have relationships with men and have sex with men then not answering is somehow saying to your followers that samesex attraction is something to be ashamed of?
If your straight and into women but have a male fan base that your willing to sex adult content to then just say so. What’s the difference?
his OF is HIS business, his sexuality is HIS business, and who he fucks and does with that is also...HIS business, no matter how long of a paragraph you write nobody will care, if you don't like his OF then leave already
