Lpsg Perpetuates Average Isn't Good Enough

[ItsAll4Kim]

But it is a much bigger challenge than yours and you still bitch about it

Could be. Maybe not.
I overcome challenges by facing them, figuring out a way past them, and trying it. If I fail, I try something else. I faced rejection by seeking other partners. Some worked out, others didn't. I faced the challenges of my size by adjusting my own expectations. That's worked fine, not perfect, but fine. Life isn't about "idealized" ANYTHING. No person will ever be "perfect" by dictionary definition.

How, exactly, have you faced your challenges? By jealously attacking others in a forum? By NOT seeking any long-term relationships (or any?) so you won't have to chance rejection or failure? THAT is cowardice.

YOU ARE WASTING YOUR LIFE.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

1- I do not live in a basement

2- of every woman who has responded, they do not clearly state they want, or prefer small, merely that they can conform and are willing to make due if they can compensate. That is not the same thing as desire.

1- it's a fucking metaphor.

2- do you really think that your obsession with your penis is shared by anyone else? IF you meet a woman who says she desires a small penis, is that enough to make a relationship successful? If you could just once LISTEN, every single woman who's addressed you has said that they treat men as a whole. Personality, looks, integrity, body, and any other attribute imaginable. Not one has ever stated that a great penis could compensate for a lacking in other areas. Not one has said that any physical attribute could compensate for a bad personality.

Women get such a bad rap. Most just seem to want to be loved by someone who is decent and cares for them. Given the scrutiny women are subjected to daily, they seem to know damned well that physical perfection is unattainable, and few expect it from us. And before you start rationalizing this, "physical perfection" is different for everyone...and it changes over time.

Despite what and how I respond to you, I have tried to help you come to a more realistic understanding of yourself. It's obvious that you're unhappy. Your physical issues are only your perception of your body. You put yourself through this hell every day. THAT is what professional counseling can do to help you. Your body doesn't need to change. Your perception of it does.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

To state if differently, we don't need to know "exactly" what percent think they are too small. We are trying to show there is a very large %. Only a small sample size is required to show the % is between 40 and 60%, In many applications that is why the practical standard is 30 or so. . .

If we accept this reasoning, then the similar study I posted (did you bother to read it?) which showed 30% of men feeling they were too small means you need to either accept that the small sample size is inadequate, or admit that most men are okay with their size.

 

[Llbaker]

If we accept this reasoning, then the similar study I posted (did you bother to read it?) which showed 30% of men feeling they were too small means you need to either accept that the small sample size is inadequate, or admit that most men are okay with their size.

When you have 2 conflicting studies, then you need to examine each for possible flaws in methodology or, if the resources are available, do a larger, better designed study to resolve the issues.

Repeating the study can be of value also as, for instance, a 95% confidence level means 5% of the time, the study won't be representative. Could be an outlier. In science, there is no 'final' finding.

30% is pretty high also. Are you saying 30% is "no problem?"

 

[Llbaker]

Seems like it is for you.

No, it used to be routine for me.

 

[rtg]

No one has said you dont

If you have that much difficulty with comprehension that every little thing has to be spelled out for you then you must lead a very difficult life.

 

[rtg]

1- it's a fucking metaphor.

2- do you really think that your obsession with your penis is shared by anyone else? IF you meet a woman who says she desires a small penis, is that enough to make a relationship successful? If you could just once LISTEN, every single woman who's addressed you has said that they treat men as a whole. Personality, looks, integrity, body, and any other attribute imaginable. Not one has ever stated that a great penis could compensate for a lacking in other areas. Not one has said that any physical attribute could compensate for a bad personality.

Women get such a bad rap. Most just seem to want to be loved by someone who is decent and cares for them. Given the scrutiny women are subjected to daily, they seem to know damned well that physical perfection is unattainable, and few expect it from us. And before you start rationalizing this, "physical perfection" is different for everyone...and it changes over time.

Despite what and how I respond to you, I have tried to help you come to a more realistic understanding of yourself. It's obvious that you're unhappy. Your physical issues are only your perception of your body. You put yourself through this hell every day. THAT is what professional counseling can do to help you. Your body doesn't need to change. Your perception of it does.

100%. If this guy had a big dick I’d steer clear due to the copious red flags that he vomits. Based on personality alone (since I have no idea what he looks like anyway), if I had a choice between a big dick Lloyd and a small dick guy who had even just a tolerable personality, I’d choose the latter.

 

[AlteredEgo]

So I am supposed to believe that you have likes and preferences snd physical and visual attractions for everything else, but somehow, magically when it comes to a penis you become non-physical, some kind if wholly spiritual entity with no feelings of lust, sexual desire, or any physical anything and becomes completely irrelevant? Wow

I have some very strong, and some very minor preferences regarding a penis. My only very strong preferences are that it get hard without difficulty, and that it can get hard again in the same day, and that it feels good; it has to fit well. I have found a good fit with a variety of sizes from very large, to fairly small. My minor preferences are that I prefer foreskin, lots of shiny precum, and a curve in any direction.

I do not have a specific size that is ideal to me. I have only once seen a penis that instantly inspired lust on sight. It was very oddly shaped, with an extremely pronounced curve I have never seen before or since. It looked novel and unique. I wanted to try that weird dick out. So, I tracked down the man attached and that is what I did. It was okay. Would have been better if I had some actual interest in the man.

You could possess any size, and waiting for a woman to like you, AND idealize your penis would be a long wait.

 

[deleted1138933]

How, exactly, am I a coward? Cowardice is failure to face what scares you. I have had decades of long-term relationships. Been married, faced and was defeated by some issues and overcame others. Been divorced (with now adult children). Fell in love again, and am married again.

You haven't even dated anyone.

And your claim that I whine and bitch about being well-endowed is hilarious. I've responded to a thread asking men to describe problems associated with endowment. I've mentioned that anal sex and deep-throat have been out of the question. I've mentioned being rejected as too big.

And I've challenged you more than once...because you've made this accusation several times...
to quote me in any instance where you thought my posts were "whining and bitching". Because they aren't. You know this, and you being a coward AND a liar won't either admit you were wrong OR actually post what I wrote so others can see you're fabricating it.

I have dated.

Yes complaining about your endowment is bitching and whining, or perhaps you are just humble bragging. .

 

[deleted1138933]

Could be. Maybe not.
I overcome challenges by facing them, figuring out a way past them, and trying it. If I fail, I try something else. I faced rejection by seeking other partners. Some worked out, others didn't. I faced the challenges of my size by adjusting my own expectations. That's worked fine, not perfect, but fine. Life isn't about "idealized" ANYTHING. No person will ever be "perfect" by dictionary definition.

How, exactly, have you faced your challenges? By jealously attacking others in a forum? By NOT seeking any long-term relationships (or any?) so you won't have to chance rejection or failure? THAT is cowardice.

YOU ARE WASTING YOUR LIFE.

Yeah very easy when you are not small. If I had it that easy I would too

 

[AlteredEgo]

No one has said you dont

I have. Many times. I have said countless times that I do not idealize a large, or any size penis. My ideal penis is functional, has a foreskin, a curve, is shiny, fits comfortably inside me, and can stimulate me to orgasm. Because a wide variety of sizes line up with these ideals, I have no particular size idealized.

 

[AlteredEgo]

100%. If this guy had a big dick I’d steer clear due to the copious red flags that he vomits. Based on personality alone (since I have no idea what he looks like anyway), if I had a choice between a big dick Lloyd and a small dick guy who had even just a tolerable personality, I’d choose the latter.

He was talking to @HarryPalmas . He does have a really nice gallery. Different poses, a sexy costume, gorgeous skin, ruggedly handsome face, nice broad torso and thick legs. His cock is well formed, with a smoking hot curve and a delicious shape. If I liked somebody, and they treated me well, and revealed exactly that body to me they'd be able to get laid for life. I definitely like what I see. I think he has one of the hottest galleries on the site. But that defeatest attitude is such a turn-off. It spoils it.

 

[rtg]

He was talking to @HarryPalmas . He does have a really nice gallery. Different poses, a sexy costume, gorgeous skin, ruggedly handsome face, nice broad torso and thick legs. His cock is well formed, with a smoking hot curve and a delicious shape. If I liked somebody, and they treated me well, and revealed exactly that body to me they'd be able to get laid for life. I definitely like what I see. I think he has one of the hottest galleries on the site. But that defeatest attitude is such a turn-off. It spoils it.

Oops thanks for picking that up! It’s hard to keep up with both Lloyd and Harry.

I didn’t look at Harry’s pics until your prompt. I have to agree with you about everything, including your last two sentences.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

He was talking to @HarryPalmas . He does have a really nice gallery. Different poses, a sexy costume, gorgeous skin, ruggedly handsome face, nice broad torso and thick legs. His cock is well formed, with a smoking hot curve and a delicious shape. If I liked somebody, and they treated me well, and revealed exactly that body to me they'd be able to get laid for life. I definitely like what I see. I think he has one of the hottest galleries on the site. But that defeatest attitude is such a turn-off. It spoils it.

Soooooo freaking tempted to look at his gallery now that you describe it. But I won't give him that satisfaction.

 

[deleted1138933]

He was talking to @HarryPalmas . He does have a really nice gallery. Different poses, a sexy costume, gorgeous skin, ruggedly handsome face, nice broad torso and thick legs. His cock is well formed, with a smoking hot curve and a delicious shape. If I liked somebody, and they treated me well, and revealed exactly that body to me they'd be able to get laid for life. I definitely like what I see. I think he has one of the hottest galleries on the site. But that defeatest attitude is such a turn-off. It spoils it.

You are very kind. You can see my face?

 

[cherryboom66]

You are very kind. You can see my face?

You have been told this countless times. @BigWangChow was singing your praises for a whole page.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I have dated.

Yes complaining about your endowment is bitching and whining, or perhaps you are just humble bragging. .

Again, QUOTE what you're talking about, so others can decide whether I have merely been talking about issues, or complaining, bitching, moaning, etc.

 

[LilBigWang]

Oops thanks for picking that up! It’s hard to keep up with both Lloyd and Harry.

I didn’t look at Harry’s pics until your prompt. I have to agree with you about everything, including your last two sentences.

LOL, hilarious, you mentioned Harry and Lloyd, and guess who's names those are in a movie? "Dumb and Dumber" LOLOLOL bahahaha, sure seems fitting in this thread.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

When you have 2 conflicting studies, then you need to examine each for possible flaws in methodology or, if the resources are available, do a larger, better designed study to resolve the issues.

Repeating the study can be of value also as, for instance, a 95% confidence level means 5% of the time, the study won't be representative. Could be an outlier. In science, there is no 'final' finding.

30% is pretty high also. Are you saying 30% is "no problem?"

A larger study? Why larger, if the sample size is already several times greater than the minimum of 30 needed for accuracy?

There could be flaws in methodology, but this was a rather simple question.

Note that even at 30%, the number represents far more men than the percentage who have one standard deviation below the median. So there are men with "average and large penises among those who feel they are "too small". Why would this be? A good suggestion is the porn that says bigger is better, and the lies about size that pervade it.

I have never said there is "no problem", and now is no exception. I've continually said that body image issues can and should be addressed with counseling. Just as most of these studies center around the need for counseling of many men who have an unrealistic body image. I've also consistently pointed out that there's a market for virtually anything and anyone out there. The excuse that one's penis is too small and therefore a relationship is impossible is utter bullshit.

 

[LilBigWang]

So it means its not good enough for you.

it "was" good enough, but not if it comes with your mentality and toxic vibes. I'd rather not deal with BS, so my offer if off the table, even if it wasn't ever considered. Like i mentioned before, on to the next one