Married men who use a cocksucker

Respectfully, I am not assuming. I said clearly this has been my experience, and it has happened time and time again. Obviously this isn't directed at you personally or every CS in existence, but it does include the majority of those seeking married men at the moment. Craigslist worked wonders back when it was actually an option and now it feels like the crumbs left over on places like Doublelist and the like aren't able to produce the same results. Maybe there will be a better option in the future, but I am not sure that anything reliable exists right now. You have to sift through the muck over and over again until you find gold.
I gotcha. Nowadays we all just have to be careful when we are meeting people you don’t know. Have to sieve thru the dirt to get to my platinum!! Lol.
 
That sounds kind of kinky!! Lol. What? Is he a professional ball player or doctor?
The married men I am meeting now I have known them for awhile. Craigslist or Doublelist guys. So far I’m pretty happy with them.
Lol I doubt he’s any of those, I think it’s another uniform I have the hots for. Many people have the hots for this uniform I’m referring to haha. Lucky you on the Doublelist guys, I’ve only met like 2 from there, and 1 cut me off because apparently he’s been caught in the past and his wife has him on a short leash. Shame because he was cool and also kinda tall, how I like. Haha
 
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Lol I doubt he’s any of those, I think it’s another uniform I have the hots for. Many people have the hots for this uniform I’m referring to haha. Lucky you on the Doublelist guys, I’ve only met like 2 from there, and 1 cut me off because apparently he’s been caught in the past and his wife has him on a short leash. Shame because he was cool and also kinda tall, how I like. Haha
Lol. The obvious one then is Mr. Policeman ha ha. I have 4 currently that come more frequently like every one or two weeks. Another 3-4 only come monthly or so. Recently reconnected with a BBC married man I have chatted with for awhile. He said he will be coming more often. What about you? How many regular feeders do you have now?
 
Lol. The obvious one then is Mr. Policeman ha ha. I have 4 currently that come more frequently like every one or two weeks. Another 3-4 only come monthly or so. Recently reconnected with a BBC married man I have chatted with for awhile. He said he will be coming more often. What about you? How many regular feeders do you have now?
Lol. I want one so bad! It’s like the #1 occupation I want. They look so good in their unis. Mmm. And I’m at 0, lucky you. The straights in NYC just wanna bust a nut and that’s it. It’s tough living in such a big city because they have more options. I have been posting more ads recently about wanting a FWB, hopefully I’ll get lucky some time. But I don’t wanna feel like I’m in a relationship lol. IDK, I get nervous before meeting people and all that and sometimes I flake myself lol, but to be fair to myself it’s usually THEM flaking.
 
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Lol. The obvious one then is Mr. Policeman ha ha. I have 4 currently that come more frequently like every one or two weeks. Another 3-4 only come monthly or so. Recently reconnected with a BBC married man I have chatted with for awhile. He said he will be coming more often. What about you? How many regular feeders do you have now?
I see you’re in Chicago, also another big city, but maybe I’m looking in the wrong places. Lol. It’s that I usually go for the masculine straights that just wanna use us and nothing else, they’re very discreet too and probably be scared to keep in touch. Blacks and Latinos are more “macho” and would rather be dead than their buddies know they fuck some Bussy from time to time. And that’s what’s more around my way, Black and Latino men. I’m dying to try a white Daddy too. I gotta stop being a little bitch and open up more lol
 
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Lol. I want one so bad! It’s like the #1 occupation I want. They look so good in their unis. Mmm. And I’m at 0, lucky you. The straights in NYC just wanna bust a nut and that’s it. It’s tough living in such a big city because they have more options. I have been posting more ads recently about wanting a FWB, hopefully I’ll get lucky some time. But I don’t wanna feel like I’m in a relationship lol. IDK, I get nervous before meeting people and all that and sometimes I flake myself lol, but to be fair to myself it’s usually THEM flaking.
Ha ha. True. In the big city they have options but you get to do what they like or into to get them to come back for more. Such as longer BJ and licking toll they are really hard then sit back!! lol. I’m in a big city too. I’m usually pretty picky with my guys. I feel like most married guys are like that too. They need to be comfortable with you. Yes some guys I do agree with you just wham bam n go. I made it clear. I’m not into that.
 
I see you’re in Chicago, also another big city, but maybe I’m looking in the wrong places. Lol. It’s that I usually go for the masculine straights that just wanna use us and nothing else, they’re very discreet too and probably be scared to keep in touch. Blacks and Latinos are more “macho” and would rather be dead than their buddies know they fuck some Bussy from time to time. And that’s what’s more around my way, Black and Latino men. I’m dying to try a white Daddy too. I gotta stop being a little bitch and open up more lol
Ha ha. Little butch is not too bad. It is a way to protect yourself eh? Lol. Maybe just have to expand your group of preferences?? Lol. I do have my requirements that I’m comfortable with so guess they appreciate that. Sometimes they just need a good CS friend yo complain to?! Lol
 
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Ha ha. True. In the big city they have options but you get to do what they like or into to get them to come back for more. Such as longer BJ and licking toll they are really hard then sit back!! lol. I’m in a big city too. I’m usually pretty picky with my guys. I feel like most married guys are like that too. They need to be comfortable with you. Yes some guys I do agree with you just wham bam n go. I made it clear. I’m not into that.
I tell them too that I wanna vibe and get to know each other a bit, but they’re assholes and be like “you’re asking too much questions, you wanna fuck or what?” yes, it’s Rude, but I’d be lying if I said it didn’t turn me on sometimes just thinking of a married man just wanting to use me. But maybe I should have higher standards lol.
 
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Ha ha. Little butch is not too bad. It is a way to protect yourself eh? Lol. Maybe just have to expand your group of preferences?? Lol. I do have my requirements that I’m comfortable with so guess they appreciate that. Sometimes they just need a good CS friend yo complain to?! Lol
You’re right. It’s exactly why I don’t just meet up the second we get in touch, to protect myself. I sometimes host and they want my address right away? I’m like “no, let’s get to know a little about each other first”
 
Right now there don't seem to be great options. I try to figure it out on occasion but it can be a chore to be on too many websites or apps. Married men have jobs, wives, kids, etc. lots of obligations so we're typically busy doing things to support a family. It feels like a lot of CS don't understand this and approach us online with a lot of the typical game playing they do in gay dating that doesn't apply in our world.

My experience has been a lot of guys that can't host, can't send a picture, and want something to happen instantly. There are a lot of expectations to make out, mutual reciprocation, or too much of their personal and specific fantasy. That's what my wife is for, if I have a buddy for this sort of thing then I'm expecting him to be focused on my pleasure and what he can do for me. Otherwise they're just looking for a gay relationship, so why would you want to be with a guy with a wedding band on his finger?
I've had similar experiences, but the other way around. When I'm looking for a married guy to service, I constantly run into guys who want to reciprocate. I'm just looking to suck you off. All of my other sexual and relationship needs are met by my wife; the only thing I'm looking for is a hard cock to fuck my mouth. I wish you and I lived near one another...
 
I tell them too that I wanna vibe and get to know each other a bit, but they’re assholes and be like “you’re asking too much questions, you wanna fuck or what?” yes, it’s Rude, but I’d be lying if I said it didn’t turn me on sometimes just thinking of a married man just wanting to use me. But maybe I should have higher standards lol.
Ha. Well. Some ppl are like that just depending on if you ok with that. If you set the initial conditions then they won’t react like an asshole. Lol. I have a few guys I met before were like that but I never contacted them again. But hey I hope they find others that would accept that behavior. Ha ha.
 
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Being a great cs is not easy but if you ask your feeders what they need and want. Trust me yiu will be very happy and yiu will be rewarded always!!
And having great cocksuckers standing in line——intuitively giving them what they want -and crave—-is quite helpful ;-)

and I often know more about it than they do
 
I've had similar experiences, but the other way around. When I'm looking for a married guy to service, I constantly run into guys who want to reciprocate. I'm just looking to suck you off. All of my other sexual and relationship needs are met by my wife; the only thing I'm looking for is a hard cock to fuck my mouth. I wish you and I lived near one another...
My male cocksuckers are to suck cock. Period. And they better excel at it.
 
And having great cocksuckers standing in line——intuitively giving them what they want -and crave—-is quite helpful ;-)

and I often know more about it than they do
Ha. I’m sure. If you are near me I can show you what I do best for my married feeders.

Always. Slurp and swallow them dry!!
 
I've had similar experiences, but the other way around. When I'm looking for a married guy to service, I constantly run into guys who want to reciprocate. I'm just looking to suck you off. All of my other sexual and relationship needs are met by my wife; the only thing I'm looking for is a hard cock to fuck my mouth. I wish you and I lived near one another...
Haha, I wish we did live near one another too! That's always a huge compliment when someone wants to service me. I love the weather in Florida too, probably feels like a good sauna right about now.

I don't know if there is just one term to describe what we're all into here, but it definitely seems like something we are wired for that has a set of rules to it and one of those rules is no reciprocation, otherwise it turns into something else. The first time a guy doing the sucking told me that reciprocation was a turn off I could hardly believe it. Having someone want to blow you just for the enjoyment of giving the blow job felt like someone that just wants to give you $100 because giving is so fun. That's exactly how it works though, and even more unbelievable is that sucking is more common and those needing to be sucked are in high demand.

In the years this thread has been active, I'm surprised a pairing has never happened. Maybe there just aren't enough married guys around here to make it happen, but I feel like sooner or later we'll have ourselves a success story.
 
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For those CS that live in big cities, I know the work from home thing has also impacted my married men's availability. I had a few that lived in the burbs, worked downtown, and would stop by during lunch or before commuting back. No they're stuck at home and have a tough time making it to the city.
 
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For those CS that live in big cities, I know the work from home thing has also impacted my married men's availability. I had a few that lived in the burbs, worked downtown, and would stop by during lunch or before commuting back. No they're stuck at home and have a tough time making it to the city.
Ha. True. But if they really want to go ‘to the city’ they will find a way to yoir mouth!! Lol. Good luck thou. You just have to provide them a great excuse or plan for what you would do for them to make their visits worthwhile!!
 
My male cocksuckers are to suck cock. Period. And they better excel at it.
Oldcowboy, to me there is absolutely nothing sexier than a dominant feeder with a big penis who truly knows how to put submissive beta male cocksucker cum sluts like myself into their proper place when giving a blowjob!
 
Um, what the fuck is this? We got to pay for Doublelist now? I tried to go back and it just took me to this page again! I’m not paying for a site where 90% of the guys flake.
 

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