Married men who use a cocksucker

I have a question, do married men give anything in return for getting their cock sucked to anyone? I feel like they should at least tip or give something nice in return to treat the person sucking their cock . What do y'all think? I'm not saying pay for the blowjob but maybe buy them coffee or something lol. Is that too much to ask?? Lol
They do, you get that delicious Str8 cum down your throat that's your reward.
 
Edging advice? Have a new cs who is very interested on being reg. I want to save up so we can get the maximum semen load possible. But I also want to provide the penis to him for at least an hour, so need to have a protocol for holding back. As difficult as it may be. What have other ppl done?
 
Edging advice? Have a new cs who is very interested on being reg. I want to save up so we can get the maximum semen load possible. But I also want to provide the penis to him for at least an hour, so need to have a protocol for holding back. As difficult as it may be. What have other ppl done?
Communication. My straight bud would tell me when he was getting close and i would stop. Either work on his balls or rim him (though that's not for everyone) until he was ready for another go. We eventually got it down to a 30 second rotation (after an hour of edging) and he would tell me when he absolutely NEEDED to cum - I would then edge him a few more time and swallow him hole. If you both agree that you want to be edged, then your CS should appreciate clear feedback when you're getting close.

With another straight buddy, we agreed we would edge him 10x, so that meant 10 "I am getting close" warnings, which I welcomed. We are cocksuckers, not psychics!
 
Well what can I say. Us gay boys love sucking dick. I love oral. I used to be married even though I knew I was gay. What can I say. I grew up Mormon. So I felt like I had to get married. The difference between a gay guy sucking a dick and my wife was night and day. Not only do they want to suck cock, they want it down their throat taking my cum
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Ok. so you focussed on the 'how many' part of the question to give a percentage.. when it was maybe better phrased:

Of the straight married men who use cocksuckers, because your wife will not suck you or will not engage in sex at all; do you stop trying with the wife/woman altogether (just give in to her not wanting sex with you and therefore don't bother, basically and make life easier, perhaps) - once you have found a good Cocksucker?
However you phrased it, the same question is why and will married guys stand for not having their euchre at all? The answer is NO. As I ve heard from my married guys.

Many of them never wanted to look or done anything outside their marriages but need sexual gratification from someone. Gf or lady side piece were too risky.

Many of my guys never had good head until they met guys! Cs.
 
I agree! As a married male, CL was the BEST!!! Doublelist and Grindr are not reliable, have a lot of flakes and often a huge waste of time. On CL, I would email the guy, he responded and soon we would meet!! I've met some really hot cocksuckers/sub who responded to my domination!
You gentlemen should check out this hookup platform:

theblowers.com

It's narrowly focused on just what you (and me, from opposite positions) are looking for. I always have luck finding talented cocksuckers through it.
 
I have a question, do married men give anything in return for getting their cock sucked to anyone? I feel like they should at least tip or give something nice in return to treat the person sucking their cock . What do y'all think? I'm not saying pay for the blowjob but maybe buy them coffee or something lol. Is that too much to ask?? Lol
Ha ha. Donā€™t think so most cs expect too much. I know some married guys probably get or bring something nice for their cocksuckers depending on the relationships or friendships they are sharing?!
 
You gentlemen should check out this hookup platform:

theblowers.com

It's narrowly focused on just what you (and me, from opposite positions) are looking for. I always have luck finding talented cocksuckers through it.
Iā€™ve had limited success on that site. Guys Iā€™ve already met are on there and just like Grindr and the others, there are bots and fake profiles from all over sending me messages. I have met a few guys but for me itā€™s more a hassle than what itā€™s worth. CL did seem like it was more easy to meet guys and less game playing. DL is full of time wasters and pic collectors.
 
Iā€™ve had limited success on that site. Guys Iā€™ve already met are on there and just like Grindr and the others, there are bots and fake profiles from all over sending me messages. I have met a few guys but for me itā€™s more a hassle than what itā€™s worth. CL did seem like it was more easy to meet guys and less game playing. DL is full of time wasters and pic collectors.
Hard agree. I just joined recently as they had a sale on membership and I got a three-month subscription and can honestly say it is underwhelming and sometimes wonky to use - mainly the site's UX. I don't like the map, at all. My bad experience meeting men is probably 100% due to my locale, the MSP area is miniscule compared coastal cities and people here are more closeted/not out as much, even on a hookup site. It has potential, but it really depends on the city you are in - I wish they had a community board a la Sniffies (if I missed this, lmk!) - all I want is a married hung man's cock in my mouth, it shouldn't be this fucking hard to get.
 
Going back on topic, re: sucking married men's dicks, I find it so frustrating how married men seem so "chained" to their wives, and it makes sense, the wives are probably the ones that manage their social calendars, but they seem to NOT have any free time to themselves, like they lack autonomy to step out of their home bubble. Of course, here I am saying this as a single gay man, but the co-dependency is a little maddening. Poor guys, in my opinion, they should have set boundaries early on in the marriage i.e. I get my time and you get yours and then we come together. Just an outsider's perspective, please don't shoot me lol.
 
Going back on topic, re: sucking married men's dicks, I find it so frustrating how married men seem so "chained" to their wives, and it makes sense, the wives are probably the ones that manage their social calendars, but they seem to NOT have any free time to themselves, like they lack autonomy to step out of their home bubble. Of course, here I am saying this as a single gay man, but the co-dependency is a little maddening. Poor guys, in my opinion, they should have set boundaries early on in the marriage i.e. I get my time and you get yours and then we come together. Just an outsider's perspective, please don't shoot me lol.
I've found it's often the case when they have kids, it makes availability for "service" very limiting. I had a few consistent married buddies before the pandemic when I lived near the commuter rail - they would stop by before taking the train home. It was the perfect window. That said, the SINGLE straight younger guys that just need a good mouth, are a good time. I'm getting a little old for that but those 2AM "you up?" texts were good for the soul.
 
How I miss Craigslist!!! As a married guy I am always looking for suckers who can host.
Doublelist is there but not the same. I've had slight success with that but not the same as Craigslist. I guess its not as popular. Grindr is full of flakes and the genuine ones seem to have a problem that they cannot hos (same as me!)
Have others here had some success with Doublelist? (BTW, I am in NYC/Long Island - had some success with DL when I was in Dallas, but nothing in DC!!!
Still on Long Island?
 
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I've found it's often the case when they have kids, it makes availability for "service" very limiting. I had a few consistent married buddies before the pandemic when I lived near the commuter rail - they would stop by before taking the train home. It was the perfect window. That said, the SINGLE straight younger guys that just need a good mouth, are a good time. I'm getting a little old for that but those 2AM "you up?" texts were good for the soul.
The single guys are great, but in my experience sometimes they cannot process that they enjoy getting sucked by a man, so there's an internal sexuality struggle which almost always leads to them ghosting you.

It comes down to their sexual inexperience, their lack of a sense of self-assurance in their masculinity and ultimately, social pressure (having a gf/wife and kids, "what would my friends think?")

It's really a shame - it just happened to me last month - met a cute "straight" bear cub, very average looks and body, but his dick was just superb - 7", curved slightly banana cock, with large egg-size balls. I was his first gay mouth apparently and he came back a week later and enjoyed it more; I swallowed both times, there was NO WAY that cum would get wasted. I was so excited he would be my youngest regular at 29! I was hoping for round three with his cock in the last two weeks, but he either blocked me or deactivated his Grindr account because our chat thread was no longer visible to me.

That is why I prefer mature men or married men, their lack of recurring sex makes them easier to have them come back regularly since their partners are doing nothing to please them, whereas the single or younger guy is out there actively looking and hoping he gets pussy, as that is what society and his friends/family expect of him.
 
Hard agree. I just joined recently as they had a sale on membership and I got a three-month subscription and can honestly say it is underwhelming and sometimes wonky to use - mainly the site's UX. I don't like the map, at all. My bad experience meeting men is probably 100% due to my locale, the MSP area is miniscule compared coastal cities and people here are more closeted/not out as much, even on a hookup site. It has potential, but it really depends on the city you are in - I wish they had a community board a la Sniffies (if I missed this, lmk!) - all I want is a married hung man's cock in my mouth, it shouldn't be this fucking hard to get.
Hard agree. I just joined recently as they had a sale on membership and I got a three-month subscription and can honestly say it is underwhelming and sometimes wonky to use - mainly the site's UX. I don't like the map, at all. My bad experience meeting men is probably 100% due to my locale, the MSP area is miniscule compared coastal cities and people here are more closeted/not out as much, even on a hookup site. It has potential, but it really depends on the city you are in - I wish they had a community board a la Sniffies (if I missed this, lmk!) - all I want is a married hung man's cock in my mouth, it shouldn't be this fucking hard to get.
The concept of the site is good and plenty of gay guys on there and bi too but a straight suburban dad who just wants his cock sucked, that can be a challenge to find on there. I have seen profiles with many comments on how good the cock was to suck but there are no cock pics in the profile which makes me wonder if this is just more game playing.
 
I've found it's often the case when they have kids, it makes availability for "service" very limiting. I had a few consistent married buddies before the pandemic when I lived near the commuter rail - they would stop by before taking the train home. It was the perfect window. That said, the SINGLE straight younger guys that just need a good mouth, are a good time. I'm getting a little old for that but those 2AM "you up?" texts were good for the soul.
Many married men have the best window to play during the weekday. Itā€™s been rare for a married guy to hit me up at midnight and ask if Iā€™m free. One married guy said there was only one car in the family and when the wife had it, he could not travel. I thought about Uber since he is not that far but he said he has to make excuses to leave the house sometimes to come see me. To be like that is having a ball and chain tied to your leg. As for the younger crowd, wellā€¦. I never really played with guys in their 20ā€™s. But these last few years it has been an experience. Something about them makes it thrilling on a different level. They do seem to hit me up when their girls arenā€™t putting out but when we do meet so great to make them smile.