My straight crush said something sus

thanks for sharing your story, I went through something similar when I was in high school when I fell head over heels for one of my best friends. I’m still not over him but I’ve made some new friends since I’m in college now and I’ve been talking to this one guy for like a year now and we’re both very close. The new guy we’ll call him (Seth) is straight I think idk even know. He’s like super horny half the time it’s super hot she points out mine and his bulges. I like it so much he even peaked on me once at a urinal like full blown turned his head put out his hands on the urinal divider and looked at my dick. Part of me thinks he’s sexually curios but I know for a fact he’s only been with women. A few days ago I was at his house after working out, we were just watching movies while drinking and smoking weed. We were laying on the same bed together and he started leaning on me like kinda cuddling. And here’s the crazy part lol
He leaned in twice to kiss me 🫣 I didn’t know what to think of it so I just laughed it off and said to chill the first time but man when he leaned in the second time he got up all in my face and we nearly kissed I was just to scared to go in for the kiss I just don’t wanna push the boundaries of our friendship and ruin it. Maybe it’ll scare him idk he was drunk but I wasn’t willing to take the risk and now I’m regretting it 😭
I still have hop tho that we could hook up or something we always talked about having a threesome with a girl but we just need to find one that down 😅
 
I think he was serious and was aiming it at one person, probably you.
You could always bring it up again before the trip, " when is the jerk off party scheduled for?"
It can be awkward to be perceived as straight (him) while trying to hit on a guy (you) who you suspect is bi / gay . He threw it out there, I would follow up.
 
He’s like super horny half the time it’s super hot she points out mine and his bulges. I like it so much he even peaked on me once at a urinal like full blown turned his head put out his hands on the urinal divider and looked at my dick. Part of me thinks he’s sexually curios but I know for a fact he’s only been with women. A few days ago I was at his house after working out, we were just watching movies while drinking and smoking weed. We were laying on the same bed together and he started leaning on me like kinda cuddling. And here’s the crazy part lol
He leaned in twice to kiss me 🫣 I didn’t know what to think of it so I just laughed it off and said to chill the first time but man when he leaned in the second time he got up all in my face and we nearly kissed I was just to scared to go in for the kiss I just don’t wanna push the boundaries of our friendship and ruin it. Maybe it’ll scare him idk he was drunk but I wasn’t willing to take the risk and now I’m regretting it 😭
I still have hop tho that we could hook up or something we always talked about having a threesome with a girl but we just need to find one that down 😅
bro he's definitely curious, a bit at least... if u're ok with hooking up with a girl u should do a threesome with him, he will probably do something with u too.
plus, in Italy we use to say "in vino veritas", which is latin and means that u say and do truthful things when u're drunk... so he could truly have wanted to kiss u.
 
I’d appreciate your thoughts. Thanks!
For who's interested, he is now single and we shared many nice moments: he introduced me to many of his friends and made sure to not make me feel excluded from the group, I smoked my first joint with him and his friend. He still doesn't joke with me like he does with others, but I know he truly cares about me because he said some really nice things about me in a certain situation. He also hugged me from nothing various times, even if I don't do much physical touch: he's a loving one.

I've been trying to stay as cool as possible and it has been nice for now long. I'm trying to get out of my comfort zone by leaving likes on his stories (and on my friends' to make it look coherent). I'm also trying to not think too much about him in order to prevent any delusion.
 
bro he's definitely curious, a bit at least... if u're ok with hooking up with a girl u should do a threesome with him, he will probably do something with u too.
plus, in Italy we use to say "in vino veritas", which is latin and means that u say and do truthful things when u're drunk... so he could truly have wanted to kiss
bro he's definitely curious, a bit at least... if u're ok with hooking up with a girl u should do a threesome with him, he will probably do something with u too.
plus, in Italy we use to say "in vino veritas", which is latin and means that u say and do truthful things when u're drunk... so he could truly have wanted to kiss u.
damn I should’ve just done it 😭😭😭 it’s okay though I still have hope that we’ll hook up one way or another. We always talk about having threesomes. It’s only a matter of time
 
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Hi everyone, this is my first thread where I talk about my personal experiences, and I hope to get some honest advice. Here’s the situation.

I’ve had a strong sexual attraction to a guy in my friend group since October. He’s straight and in a relationship with a girl for 3 years (they cheated on each other many times tho), so I try not to get emotionally attached. Usually, I don’t feel love easily, but I do experience strong sexual desires.
No one in the group knows I’m not straight, so the guys treat me like a “bro,” which makes me a bit uncomfortable. I’m the quiet one in the group, but they all like me. They often make sexual jokes (hetero ones, obv), and sometimes they make me nervous because I’m not used to that kind of talk.
I’m Italian, and in my city, it’s common for guys to say things like “I put my cock in your mouth” as a joking way of saying “Shut up.” They never say these things to me, probably because I’m quieter and more serious, and that makes me feel a bit excluded.
Now, about the guy I like: during a conversation, he told me and another friend that on an upcoming trip (with a lot of other people), we should all jerk off together. I was too stunned to speak, and my friend didn’t respond either. Then he jokingly added, “We’ll cum on (another friend’s name) ” and the conversation moved on with other jokes.
I’m still thinking about what he said, his tone felt too serious. What he said (translated to English) is "But we definitely need to jerk off together when we’re in the room". The idea of doing that with him excites me but also makes me anxious because I’m not straight, and all my friends are (we are 6 guys). I’m 80% sure he wasn’t joking: he kinda looks like one of those bros who would jerk off with his friends as a way of sharing time and getting a closer friendship, but I’m confused.

My questions are:
1. Do you think he was joking or serious?
2. If he wasn’t joking, should I participate if the situation comes up?
3. What do you think about a straight guy with a girlfriend suggesting this kind of thing to his friends?

I’d appreciate your thoughts. Thanks!
I want to say that if he said it that easily, then maybe he has already done that before. When I was younger just about every friend group I was a part of at some point had that kind of experience with each other. I was the only gay one usually and most, if not all already knew that I wasn't straight.

Only you can answer if you should participate if he wasn't joking but he you guys do it, try and go with the flow and while everyone will glance at each other, don't get caught staring at just one person to long. Gay, Straight, Bi etc it really doesn't matter, there is probably nothing that even comes close to this kind of male bonding. Just try and have fun if you do it
 
I think when you are on the trip, if you find yourself alone with him, you should absolutely 100% bring it up. You can bring it up casually and “jokingly” say something like “so when are we jerking off together? 😂”. Then give him a funny but serious smirk. That way he can play it off as if he was joking and you can both play it off as joking, or he can double down and say he was serious. He seems like a chill relaxed guy open to having fun, crazy things happen on vacation. If a group jerkoff happens, let it happen, join in, enjoy the fun. But in my opinion he probably just wants to jerk off with you one on one.
 
Hi everyone, this is my first thread where I talk about my personal experiences, and I hope to get some honest advice. Here’s the situation.

I’ve had a strong sexual attraction to a guy in my friend group since October. He’s straight and in a relationship with a girl for 3 years (they cheated on each other many times tho), so I try not to get emotionally attached. Usually, I don’t feel love easily, but I do experience strong sexual desires.
No one in the group knows I’m not straight, so the guys treat me like a “bro,” which makes me a bit uncomfortable. I’m the quiet one in the group, but they all like me. They often make sexual jokes (hetero ones, obv), and sometimes they make me nervous because I’m not used to that kind of talk.
I’m Italian, and in my city, it’s common for guys to say things like “I put my cock in your mouth” as a joking way of saying “Shut up.” They never say these things to me, probably because I’m quieter and more serious, and that makes me feel a bit excluded.
Now, about the guy I like: during a conversation, he told me and another friend that on an upcoming trip (with a lot of other people), we should all jerk off together. I was too stunned to speak, and my friend didn’t respond either. Then he jokingly added, “We’ll cum on (another friend’s name) ” and the conversation moved on with other jokes.
I’m still thinking about what he said, his tone felt too serious. What he said (translated to English) is "But we definitely need to jerk off together when we’re in the room". The idea of doing that with him excites me but also makes me anxious because I’m not straight, and all my friends are (we are 6 guys). I’m 80% sure he wasn’t joking: he kinda looks like one of those bros who would jerk off with his friends as a way of sharing time and getting a closer friendship, but I’m confused.

My questions are:
1. Do you think he was joking or serious?
2. If he wasn’t joking, should I participate if the situation comes up?
3. What do you think about a straight guy with a girlfriend suggesting this kind of thing to his friends?

I’d appreciate your thoughts. Thanks!
Straight guys do have circle jerks, usually after booze. I would participate if I were you. Forget about the girlfriend. He has.
 
This is so real lmao, I feel you
It's very real, my conversation with anyone who is curious/unsure is always about how you can get into watching dicks in porn, but it is a whole different world from wanting to be naked on a bed with a man sucking each other off :D :D
So many of them bail, too nervous to begin with. It is a bit like most things, first time you do it you don't know how to feel, then you get used to it hehe
 
Hi everyone. I received many messages from people who wanted to know something more about the trip. The fact is that the trip hasn't happened yet: we will leave on the 24th of February.

Him and I have become closer, we both trust each other and he introduced me to many of his friends. They're the typical "bad boys", so quite different from me. Many things happened but I don't think y'all care about the smallest things, but the spiciest ones lol.
So I can update y'all with an episode of a month ago (01/25) that involved my crush, his friend, a friend of ours and me. Those three wanted to smoke weed after a volleyball match that they had, I had nothing to do so I stayed with them. This third guy, who I didn't know, was quite sweaty and he has a great body (his nickname is literally "Muscled"). While they were making the joint, he just lowered his pants to get fresh. He had some Calvin Klein's boxers and I saw his full package. Then, he lifted his pants but he continued to put his hand in his boxers. He clearly touched his nuts and his ass (he said to us that his ass was too sweaty) and with that hand he got closer to my mouth (he hold the joint while teaching me how to smoke it properly lol). My crush even made me touch his friend's muscles and I can assure y'all that he has one of the greatest body I've ever seen, no hair even on his pube (I managed to see a bit when he touched his nuts lol).

I hope y'all like this event, I loved every single second of it lol. I hope there will be many moments like this on the trip, even if this Muscled guy won't be there.
 
thanks for sharing your story, I went through something similar when I was in high school when I fell head over heels for one of my best friends. I’m still not over him aches and paints from years go slang. but I’ve made some new friends since I’m in college now and I’ve been talking to this one guy for like a year now and we’re both very close. The new guy we’ll call him (Seth) is straight I think idk even know. He’s like super horny half the time it’s super hot she points out mine and his bulges. I like it so much he even peaked on me once at a urinal like full blown turned his head put out his hands on the urinal divider and looked at my dick. Part of me thinks he’s sexually curios but I know for a fact he’s only been with women. A few days ago I was at his house after working out, we were just watching movies while drinking and smoking weed. We were laying on the same bed together and he started leaning on me like kinda cuddling. And here’s the crazy part lol

He leaned in twice to kiss me 🫣 I didn’t know what to think of it so I just laughed it off and said to chill the first time but man when he leaned in the second time he got up all in my face and we nearly kissed I was just to scared to go in for the kiss I just don’t wanna push the boundaries of our friendship and ruin it. Maybe it’ll scare him idk he was drunk but I wasn’t willing to take the risk and now I’m regretting it 😭
I still have hop tho that we could hook up or something we always talked about having a threesome with a girl but we just need to find one that down 😅
Straight guys do have circle jerks, usually after booze. I would participate if I were you. Forget about the girlfriend. He has.
I am not joking… not even slight exaggeration….
But I wish I was lol…. Every camper and mobile work crew live and b words just like it. or even and certain toy no exaggeration lol. slightly exaggerating… behind every circle jerk story made of straight guys story’s that involves a group of guys in this is a story I hear time in work with a new group.

Every time there is a new crew of all laborers / or operators and they’ve all got wides back home but the money is too good to leave. getting sent on the toast. These pools of guys always tend to pool up for some reason and occassionally it require major recursions. nforces always pool up though four the office. that start to congregate like this on projects girlfriend or wife some tucked away in some rural county of the country. have to get together and perform any group work… hell I’m not even exaggerating - they made Orion look back and I had a toon ache try lying to get to a dentist and it wouldn’t let me. Lol. at all when I say… a your brig ona dnd hire. I think every single group/circle jerk crew
on his one…. I think the fact applies to every single solitary project there rumor mills managed to get confirmed…. There was always stories of the Coke guy got too old in the moment lol

But it happens to me all the time 😅 I’ve had one of those storages.

been on that had delivery o discreet story that was uploaded story I’ve ever heard or been around included one or multiple of these guys having girlfriends…. And that never seemed to be an issue. never About curious these two gigs straight guys working together (not a double entendres) and at a company performing that. Service… it always gets weird and
En they having to and a mutual jerk off group sort of arrangements 1% on this “condition everyone walks in with lol” the most common theme in every “these straight guy friends started jerkin off together on occasion
 
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I am not joking… not even slight exaggeration….
But I wish I was lol…. Every camper and mobile work crew live and b words just like it. or even and certain toy no exaggeration lol. slightly exaggerating… behind every circle jerk story made of straight guys story’s that involves a group of guys in this is a story I hear time in work with a new group.

Every time there is a new crew of all laborers / or operators and they’ve all got wides back home but the money is too good to leave. getting sent on the toast. These pools of guys always tend to pool up for some reason and occassionally it require major recursions. nforces always pool up though four the office. that start to congregate like this on projects girlfriend or wife some tucked away in some rural county of the country. have to get together and perform any group work… hell I’m not even exaggerating - they made Orion look back and I had a toon ache try lying to get to a dentist and it wouldn’t let me. Lol. at all when I say… a your brig ona dnd hire. I think every single group/circle jerk crew
on his one…. I think the fact applies to every single solitary project there rumor mills managed to get confirmed…. There was always stories of the Coke guy got too old in the moment lol

But it happens to me all the time 😅 I’ve had one of those storages.

been on that had delivery o discreet story that was uploaded story I’ve ever heard or been around included one or multiple of these guys having girlfriends…. And that never seemed to be an issue. never About curious these two gigs straight guys working together (not a double entendres) and at a company performing that. Service… it always gets weird and
En they having to and a mutual jerk off group sort of arrangements 1% on this “condition everyone walks in with lol” the most common theme in every “these straight guy friends started jerkin off together on occasion
Is this a riddle
 
Well…. Now see that’s very interesting to me because the unsolicited sales pitches me and my buddies would get front them while going down town to bars or bbqs and drinking at the party house..… they always painted a perfect picture about “switching tot heir plan” lol…. Nothing could go wrong. Everything improved in your life. Hell you could walk around without sunscreen according to them hahah. Of course it was the only sales pitch I ever had that made me feel a bit like a mouse in a field with sky full of hawks….. just like prey 😂 but sounded so good that we had they almost picked a few off 😂
 
Well…. Now see that’s very interesting to me because the unsolicited sales pitches me and my buddies would get front them while going down town to bars or bbqs and drinking at the party house..… they always painted a perfect picture about “switching tot heir plan” lol…. Nothing could go wrong. Everything improved in your life. Hell you could walk around without sunscreen according to them hahah. Of course it was the only sales pitch I ever had that made me feel a bit like a mouse in a field with sky full of hawks….. just like prey 😂 but sounded so good that we had they almost picked a few off 😂
Wait you’re 1% gay. Can you elaborate if the story fits here