My wife is kind of a size queen. I think

You might want to try a penis pump. Get the temporary size increase and see if she really enjoys that more.
I don't pump as my girth is already an issue but this could be a quick test perhaps?
I'm guessing that you might be a bit more pre-occupied with this than she is...
 
You might want to try a penis pump. Get the temporary size increase and see if she really enjoys that more.
I don't pump as my girth is already an issue but this could be a quick test perhaps?
I'm guessing that you might be a bit more pre-occupied with this than she is...
I toyed with pumping for my wife for a time. In the end she said it felt too "puffy".
 
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Thanks for the clarifications and pertinent details. Have you considered trying a penis sleeve? It would give you both length and girth, and it would still be you doing the sex thing!

In my case while my length (7") is above average, but my girth (6") is in the 99th percentile, so it's the combination of both, but especially the girth, that has given women that "full" feeling when I'm inside them.

Most of the women I've been with could only orgasm via oral and/or digital stimulation, no matter what man it was (or his size) in their lives. Go down on her until she orgasms, and if she one of the ~20% of women that can have orgasms via intercourse, then give her another that way. Basically ask her what she wants and how she likes it. That goes a really long way to sexual satisfaction.
Ha a penis sleeve
 
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back in my mid thirties, I went from big to bigger from a jelqing, stretching routine. my wife slowly accepted my new size at first, then admitted she liked it and wanted to know how big I could make it and could she help. thus, we began a few years of lots of sex. I sometimes wondered if I hadn't made her a size queen. luckily, i had what she needed.
I suggest working on penile enlargement.
 
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We’ll see that’s what I’m afraid of. Like is she gonna have temptation to cheat on me with her ex. I have no reason to ever question her loyalty but when a woman tells you that she enjoyed sex with her ex more how would you feel? I’m not worrying about it much anymore we had a talk and she explained what she meant
Dude,

how would I feel if the woman I was in love with said she preferred sex with her ex?

id be heartbroken and then move on and find someone who appreciated me..

wearing piece of plastic over my dick to satisfy my Mrs? If she wanted me to, yeah.

To measure up to someone else? Nah…

hope things work out for you.
 
back in my mid thirties, I went from big to bigger from a jelqing, stretching routine. my wife slowly accepted my new size at first, then admitted she liked it and wanted to know how big I could make it and could she help. thus, we began a few years of lots of sex. I sometimes wondered if I hadn't made her a size queen. luckily, i had what she needed.
I suggest working on penile enlargement.
Very similar to my experience. Wife is reluctant to admit it, still, but she clearly enjoys my increasing size. If your wife wants more, give it to her.
 
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Very similar to my experience. Wife is reluctant to admit it, still, but she clearly enjoys my increasing size. If your wife wants more, give it to her.
Don't you guys think your wives will ultimately start wanting the bigger ones more? Like i mean this only increases the size temporarily and when she demands it you can't just make it big on the spot other than wearing the plastic
 
Bro I think you just let her have her fantasies. They are just that, I’m sure she remembers the dick being bigger than it really was. If you are trying to match up to fantasies, you’ll never catch up. One day she will fantasize of even bigger cocks than her ex, probably big pornstars.

Better to just let her have her fantasies.

My girl is shy, but she really likes big cock. She loves my 7.5, and loves to suck on it. She’s also said her first dude was ‘just as big’. Which I think is code for him being bigger. She doesn’t really lean into the big dick unless we go out and have a night of drinks, she lets her wild side out and we have an amazing fuck.


Bottom line she loves my cock, in big but definitely not bigger than the many porn cocks and just hung guys out there.
 
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Don't you guys think your wives will ultimately start wanting the bigger ones more? Like i mean this only increases the size temporarily and when she demands it you can't just make it big on the spot other than wearing the plastic
I don't know what plastic you're talking about lol unless you're referring to guys who use sleeves.

I'm doing pumping and clamping to gain girth. I've gone from my natural erection of 5.25 inches girth (with the occassional 5.5 inch girth erection) to a typically 5.75-ish girth (usually just a hair under that, sometimes more like 5.9). That's just my permanent girth now, without any aid whatsoever. And she enjoys 5.75 noticeably more than 5.25.

I like to pump it before sex to get temporary gains up to 6.25-6.5 inches - her favorite size. It doesn't take much time or effort for me to get there, so I'm there almost every time we have sex. Hopefully, I'll eventually reach an unpumped girth of 6.25, but in the meantime our sex life is great! (I know I don't want to be bigger than that, because sometimes 6.5 is a bit too much...I've fucked her all the way up to a bit over 7.25 inches in girth, and while it was enjoyable, it was definitely not as good for her as my unpumped size. Just too fat.)
 
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Bro I think you just let her have her fantasies. They are just that, I’m sure she remembers the dick being bigger than it really was. If you are trying to match up to fantasies, you’ll never catch up. One day she will fantasize of even bigger cocks than her ex, probably big pornstars.

Better to just let her have her fantasies.

My girl is shy, but she really likes big cock. She loves my 7.5, and loves to suck on it. She’s also said her first dude was ‘just as big’. Which I think is code for him being bigger. She doesn’t really lean into the big dick unless we go out and have a night of drinks, she lets her wild side out and we have an amazing fuck.


Bottom line she loves my cock, in big but definitely not bigger than the many porn cocks and just hung guys out there.
yeah I’ve accepted it. My wife likes big cock what can ya do everybody has a preference. She just told me recently she used to eat his ass. She’s never touched my ass lol I asked her why did you run your ex but not me. And she said because his big dick made her do sluttier things. That bothers me more so than her just liking a big dick but again what can ya do
 
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yeah I’ve accepted it. My wife likes big cock what can ya do everybody has a preference. She just told me recently she used to eat his ass. She’s never touched my ass lol I asked her why did you run your ex but not me. And she said because his big dick made her do sluttier things. That bothers me more so than her just liking a big dick but again what can ya do
Nice she was hypnotic over big cock. I wonder how many she sucked and if not more than one at a time. Well there's a limit you can do to enlarge or get more girth . My wife is okay with mysize but I know she wouldn't mind trying bigger but there is no issue and no need to . We have a 6x5 fake cock i use on her after I cum and she likes the creampie eating I give her as well as our fake cock. All is good at the home front.
 
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She had her chance to choose the Ex and his cock but she chose you. Your cock and who is attached to. We all have fantasies. When we are fucking it’s not their pussy or ass or mouth we are poking it’s their brain. Be thankful. Try going 3 years celibate with a gorgeous wife. Does she give great head?
Be a beast in bed and anywhere else you want it. Be alpha and proud If the pics really bother you ask her to dispose of them or burn them together. You can’t erase the memory pic or not. So make new ones and find new positions foreplay and places that enhance making her cum first and many times. Cock rings help stamina
Good luck you got this!
 
My ex was a size queen and could take most cock standing up or lying down - eventually ended up finding a huge dick and went off with it.
I know it was bg, I saw them fucking, and my eyes watered just looking
 
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Wife and I have been married 9 years we have been together since senior year college. My wife is a sexy lady, very good in bed not overly sexual but when she’s horny she can be kind of a freak. Long story short my wife had an ex boyfriend who had a big dick. She’s petite and fit as can be. When we first started dating 11 years ago she told me all about her ex and was very straight up. She told me he had a very big dick and that she has kept some pics of him. She was totally up front and said she obviously found him very attractive and wanted to keep a few pics. I assume for fantasy purposes. I was totally ok with it because I have pics of exes as well. Of course I don’t show people but yeah I obviously used to masturbate to them. So whatever I was ok with it I understood. Fast foreward years later we are married are sex is very good no complaints. My wife still has pics of his dick and body years later. Again I’m ok with it that’s ancient history. I’m not small he was just really big and obviously my wife admitted she enjoys a really big dick but she still loves fucking me. So she has been 100 percent honest and up front. I assume she masturbates to the thought and the pics of his dick. That’s fine. My question or concern is I would absolutely love to make my wife cum like she did with him but of course I wasn’t as blessed as him. I tried getting her a dildo and she doesn’t like the feel of it. I assume a lot of people on this site have very similar experiences and was wondering if anybody had any ideas on how I can fulfill my wife sexually like he used to. Again our sex is totally fine and she’s never complained but I want to be the guy she masturbates to as well as the guy who gets to fuck her. Any thoughts?
Thank you
I think you can use your mouth/your tongue better
 
Wife and I have been married 9 years we have been together since senior year college. My wife is a sexy lady, very good in bed not overly sexual but when she’s horny she can be kind of a freak. Long story short my wife had an ex boyfriend who had a big dick. She’s petite and fit as can be. When we first started dating 11 years ago she told me all about her ex and was very straight up. She told me he had a very big dick and that she has kept some pics of him. She was totally up front and said she obviously found him very attractive and wanted to keep a few pics. I assume for fantasy purposes. I was totally ok with it because I have pics of exes as well. Of course I don’t show people but yeah I obviously used to masturbate to them. So whatever I was ok with it I understood. Fast foreward years later we are married are sex is very good no complaints. My wife still has pics of his dick and body years later. Again I’m ok with it that’s ancient history. I’m not small he was just really big and obviously my wife admitted she enjoys a really big dick but she still loves fucking me. So she has been 100 percent honest and up front. I assume she masturbates to the thought and the pics of his dick. That’s fine. My question or concern is I would absolutely love to make my wife cum like she did with him but of course I wasn’t as blessed as him. I tried getting her a dildo and she doesn’t like the feel of it. I assume a lot of people on this site have very similar experiences and was wondering if anybody had any ideas on how I can fulfill my wife sexually like he used to. Again our sex is totally fine and she’s never complained but I want to be the guy she masturbates to as well as the guy who gets to fuck her. Any thoughts?
Thank you
My ex gf turned me on to uncut cock and I actually got to play with her previous bf who was uncut.
 
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I'm in the "try a sleeve" camp... You can even try a cock ring to give her a bit more girth!

I think she will really enjoy that! She will make some different noises, and that's going to make you even harder, and make you feel powerful! Have fun!

Roxx.
'Have fun' with it. Great advice. Get in there and fuck- with words, with a ring, with a sleeve.
It is a 'green eggs and ham' moment for you. Eat them in a house, with a mouse, in a boat etc.
 
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Hey it is what it is. My first fuck was a black girl in high school who told me about a brother with a cock over 8. I dated another girl who said her guy was over 8 and he “ruined it for everyone” when I was 20 in college. Both of them still came and organism when we fucked.

As men we all have dreams of sticking it in every hot girl we see or like big boobs butts etc. it’s really no different.

But her comments may open up some swinging if you’re up for that. Just make sure it’s full swap :)

Have some confidence in your size and proceed as instructed. If you’re both confortable and she wants a bigger dick go find one, just make sure you also get a return.

I’m 6 and it’s never been a problem. I’m also a grower so before or after I’m a little aware of my smallness but no woman has ever said a damn thing…
 
Wife and I have been married 9 years we have been together since senior year college. My wife is a sexy lady, very good in bed not overly sexual but when she’s horny she can be kind of a freak. Long story short my wife had an ex boyfriend who had a big dick. She’s petite and fit as can be. When we first started dating 11 years ago she told me all about her ex and was very straight up. She told me he had a very big dick and that she has kept some pics of him. She was totally up front and said she obviously found him very attractive and wanted to keep a few pics. I assume for fantasy purposes. I was totally ok with it because I have pics of exes as well. Of course I don’t show people but yeah I obviously used to masturbate to them. So whatever I was ok with it I understood. Fast foreward years later we are married are sex is very good no complaints. My wife still has pics of his dick and body years later. Again I’m ok with it that’s ancient history. I’m not small he was just really big and obviously my wife admitted she enjoys a really big dick but she still loves fucking me. So she has been 100 percent honest and up front. I assume she masturbates to the thought and the pics of his dick. That’s fine. My question or concern is I would absolutely love to make my wife cum like she did with him but of course I wasn’t as blessed as him. I tried getting her a dildo and she doesn’t like the feel of it. I assume a lot of people on this site have very similar experiences and was wondering if anybody had any ideas on how I can fulfill my wife sexually like he used to. Again our sex is totally fine and she’s never complained but I want to be the guy she masturbates to as well as the guy who gets to fuck her. Any thoughts?
Thank you
Ever tried finding a dildo with the size and texture she likes, and then put it in your pants and fuck her with it? You can represent the size and experience you want to give her that way. I've done that with my man and it's a fun supplement and a hot way to use a toy.