New to anal stimulation/prostate massage

[deleted22469371]

I just got my aneros a few months ago, haven’t yet had a hand free orgasm yet. It is pretty hot to wear it outside of the house though, especially with a jockstrap on. I have been trying the whole make sure you have a huge load stored up, be very relaxed, slowly get aroused, etc. And I haven’t been able to make it all the way yet. I end up getting so horny that I end up just jerking myself. it does seem to make me blow a lot larger of a load, which is cool.

Nipple play man? Nipples make me leak a shit ton, and eventually a hands free orgasm

 

[cwb6]

If a finger is inserted through anus and directed towards the wall of abdomen, one can locate prostate. However, is there any specific relation between body features such as type and shape of pubic region or distance between naval to public region to the location (depth or distance) of prostate from the anus? What is your observation based on self experience? If you are a doctor and have ever done physical prostate examinations, what was your basic observation on the position of prostate from the anus? Can it always be accessed with ones finger? If so, what is best body posture to access it by oneself?

What is your observation on the location prostate?

 

[likitisplit]

i found the best orgasm came from letting my best friend watch me jo and him use two lubed fingers in me stimulating my prostrate. i started out moaning cumming like a gay porn star causing him to laugh at the amount. the second time i was inverted letting him milk me into my mouth and face. once more and the orgasms stopped.! ? hmmm...i dunno.

 

[Blade-Blanco]

Well, I've always been curious about this. So I bit the bullet and ordered an Amazon prostate massager. It has 4.5 stars out of 5. Another post mentioned it. Any previous anal play was geared to me giving my wife anal. Other times involved a blow job and a finger sliding to my taint. I've mentioned to my wife that I would be interested in prostate play when her comment was always "let me stick my dildo up your ass". Well shit, life is short so I gave it a whirl by myself with this prostate massager. Initially I am hesitant with sticking anything up my ass. Anyways, I laid down and then to my side. I lubed that thing up and tried to gently slide it in slowly. I probably got 1/2 to maybe 2/3 insertion and wondered if this was going to fit. I wasn't sure if the massager was going to go in. Then as I was adjusting the position I accidently hit the button that turned on the 360 rotation. Jesus, that thing with the rotation and vibration felt like a gentle drill or something that slowly penetrated my anus.....to full insertion. I wasn't sure what to do laying on my back and side. I played with the various 360 settings and the various vibrations. Some felt better than others. I noticed my dick was far from hard. I felt like if I didn't hold it in my anus with my hand that it would pop out and did. There wasn't any mind blowing prostate orgasm or sensation of having to go pee. I think it was the overall newness of the whole situation.

So, now where do I go from here? Are there tips to keep it inserted without using my hand so that I can just relax and focus? Has anyone asked their wife to help them? How was a partner beneficial in this process? Is this more a self journey in these initial phases? I just didn't feel entirely comfortable keeping it inserted to allow me to relax. It wasn't because it didn't fit either.

 

[WilliamG]

So, now where do I go from here?

Well? Since your wife says she'd put a dildo in you... The world is your oyster.

You experienced what EVERY guy feels the first time of really trying. If it's a wand, your going to have to keep it in. You want to work it against the base of your cock from the inside. The vibe should really help with that.

Now here's the goal:
Have your wife suck your cock while SHE works it into you. Show her where it feels best. And yes for many of us... Our dicks stay flaccid. Even though you can still cum with a limp dick. Trust me on this!

 

[cwb6]

Well? Since your wife says she'd put a dildo in you... The world is your oyster.

You experienced what EVERY guy feels the first time of really trying. If it's a wand, your going to have to keep it in. You want to work it against the base of your cock from the inside. The vibe should really help with that.

Now here's the goal:
Have your wife suck your cock while SHE works it into you. Show her where it feels best. And yes for many of us... Our dicks stay flaccid. Even though you can still cum with a limp dick. Trust me on this!

Which sexual organs (or part of) play crucial role in male sexual pleasure?

 

[deleted25017271]

Hi! I've always wanted to experience a prostate orgasm, so I bought this prostate massager online. For some reason I can't get any stimulation from it. I also tried stimulating my prostate externally, from the taint, to no avial. I really wonder if my prostate is just not sensitive at all. I've also never hooked up with a guy and tried anal (idk if I would, I'm bi-curious, trying to figure that part out lmao). Could anyone give me a step-by-step guide into prostate stimulation, and maybe achieving an orgasm through it? The only sensitive part on my body aside from my genitals are my nipples (which are really really really sensitive). Thanks!
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I have this exact set and yes, it was not very successful at first. I have experimented with various positions and finally found that time is your friend. This has me cumming hand-free like a fountain. Patience is required and enjoy!

 

[jforsaif]

Is the anal orgasm the same sensation when you had a wet dream? I actually remember how my wet dreams feel like, they are more intense and more pleasurable ejaculations than the ones from jerking off, but not leg trembling or feeling like dying.

For me hitting the prostate, and I know where mine is, does not work well but maybe I'm not doing it right. Taking a dildo in-and-out like 1~2 inches from my hole works wonders and it makes me cum very quickly, and yeah, the cum pours out instead of shooting out. But again, those are also just better ejaculations.

 

[jforsaif]

involved a blow job and a finger sliding to my taint. I've mentioned to my wife that I would be interested in prostate play when her comment was always "let me stick my dildo up your ass".

Do you douche thoroughly before ass play? And what do you need to do to compensate her? Just curious

 

[dirk8989]

i found the best orgasm came from letting my best friend watch me jo and him use two lubed fingers in me stimulating my prostrate. i started out moaning cumming like a gay porn star causing him to laugh at the amount. the second time i was inverted letting him milk me into my mouth and face. once more and the orgasms stopped.! ? hmmm...i dunno.

U and ur friend are close

 

[Kanashi]

Is the anal orgasm the same sensation when you had a wet dream? I actually remember how my wet dreams feel like, they are more intense and more pleasurable ejaculations than the ones from jerking off, but not leg trembling or feeling like dying.

For me hitting the prostate, and I know where mine is, does not work well but maybe I'm not doing it right. Taking a dildo in-and-out like 1~2 inches from my hole works wonders and it makes me cum very quickly, and yeah, the cum pours out instead of shooting out. But again, those are also just better ejaculations.

I would say no. Because an anal orgasm has very little if anything at all) to do with ejaculating or the penis. For me, at least. Sometimes I ejaculate and sometimes I don't. But either way, the feeling of the anal orgasm isn't coming from my dick.

 

[myhard1]

Those prostate massagers didnt do it for me, I used one of the wifes vibrators, old fashion one that takes C batteries, variable speed, moving it around the prostate and dripping precum non-stop. Licking up that sweet nectar, take my time and increase the speed till I cant take it no more. It's like an internal orgasm, I still cum, not as much and usually not hard but takes awhile to come down, catch my breath. Its not a conventional hard throbing, flying cum orgasm but deeper inside, feeling thing. I plan ahead, make sure I have plenty of time, make a drink and enjoy exploring myself.

 

[Kanashi]

Those prostate massagers didnt do it for me, I used one of the wifes vibrators, old fashion one that takes C batteries, variable speed, moving it around the prostate and dripping precum non-stop. Licking up that sweet nectar, take my time and increase the speed till I cant take it no more. It's like an internal orgasm, I still cum, not as much and usually not hard but takes awhile to come down, catch my breath. Its not a conventional hard throbing, flying cum orgasm but deeper inside, feeling thing. I plan ahead, make sure I have plenty of time, make a drink and enjoy exploring myself.

same! prostate massagers still don't really do much for me. my orgasms are just like yours, not much cum but a super intense internal orgasm that usually takes a few minutes to come down from.

 

[sentry]

Give it time. If you are oozing or cum, more than most likely you are stimulating your prostate. Once you get used to the way it feels you'll eventually get there.

Sometimes the expectation is higher than the actual experience. Once you've experienced your first leg shaking prostate orgasm though you'll be hooked.

Just keep at it. It will eventually happen. I've got the Loki Lelo , but I'm thinking of getting an Aneros. I don't always have the big prostate "O", but I leak like a faucet whenever I do use my prostate massager. More men should be stimulating their prostate. It certainly helps get the prostatic fluid flowing. Keeps the pipes cleaned out. I always have an intense orgasm from jacking off while using it too. Good luck

Truthful. Guys must keep those prostate fluids moving for health reasons. Prostate massages also mitigate the occurrence of prostate cancers.
I use a vibrator on my taint to stimulate mine. There are also cock rings with vibrators integrated to stimulate the taint while masturbating. They work really well.

 

[sentry]

Hi all,
has anybody achieved a prostate orgasm by being fucked by a real cock?

Yes. It the prostate O made me buck like a bronco and my partner was quite pleased. I couldn't get enough dick when it was happening. It made for an epic cum shot later.

 

[Robert Dole]

Speaking of the prostate, after years of not having to have mine examined by a doctor, today was the day. Being on testosterone injections raised my PSA so the regular doc sent to a urogolist for a check up and for safety precautions. In comes the fucking cute urologist, tiny guy, probably late 30's - early 40's. Light scruff on his face, beautiful, longish, thick, straight hair and a killer face. Gay vibe for sure. Of course, I as expecting it, but he did a digital prostate exam and when he pushed his pretty finger up my butt it felt so good. If he could have seen the expression on my face when he went in he would have definitely known, well, most likely known I was gay and loving it. I couldn't help but imagine him naked in a bedroom scenario and me making love to his sweet cock.

So nice.

There was a NZ GP who got into some trouble several years back for telling an uncomfortable patient that he should not be anxious a digital exam "because people do this for fun". The patient was not amused and nor was the medical registration board...

My GP and I have a chuckle about this every year because it is never a problem for 99% of his patients

 

[ray12mac]

Sooo I've read about how prostate stimulation is all that and a bag of chips. I had decided to try it and see how it goes. I've been trying this for a few days and I'm sad to say that I don't seem to be doing things right or something. I've had this for a few years and my ex's have all liked it. I would recommend this to others.

I'm so frustrated that I cant seem to get the big O like I keep reading about. When I was younger I put a tens unit around my crotch and wow did that feel good!

If anyone has any recommendations let me know!

Eclipse™ Thrusting Rotator Probe™​

 

[ray12mac]

Would someone please PLEASE help me we something?? I've got liquid lube, and I just bought some Astroglide Gel.... would you use Gel on my the probe?? What else is the Gel used for??

 

[bslak]

Good news, I’m not too sure but I think I’ve finally gotten a prostate orgasm.

So I recently bought an Aneros, and used it during a session. My nipples are very sensitive, so I started stimulating them while using the Aneros. After a while, I started leaking pre-cum heavily, and I got the feeling of needing to pee. This feeling became really intense, and all of a sudden my legs started shaking and I thought I was gonna piss myself (also felt like I was gonna cum, like the feeling of almost reaching an orgasm but not). I looked down and nothing came out, just that really intense feeling of needing to piss or cum, which honestly felt amazing. I still don’t know if this was it. Hopefully it was!

yep...that is it. amazing feeling. have been close w my toy a few times, but the only time I experienced what you described was part of a massage session when my masseuse (male) starting fingering me...after a few minutes I experienced exactly what you described...loved it.

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

Hi! I've always wanted to experience a prostate orgasm, so I bought this prostate massager online. For some reason I can't get any stimulation from it. I also tried stimulating my prostate externally, from the taint, to no avial. I really wonder if my prostate is just not sensitive at all. I've also never hooked up with a guy and tried anal (idk if I would, I'm bi-curious, trying to figure that part out lmao). Could anyone give me a step-by-step guide into prostate stimulation, and maybe achieving an orgasm through it? The only sensitive part on my body aside from my genitals are my nipples (which are really really really sensitive). Thanks!
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