Nico ( Nico’s Aesthetics )

[deleted1305299]

I’m not sure what data you’re looking at that suggests abuse is more common in gay Black relationships than it is in gay White relationships, but it paints the picture that Black men are more in inclined to be abusive.

Also, there’s nothing wrong with wanting a man with those characteristics. Sexual attraction is important. White men are no different in seeking masculine, rugged, muscle body men or twinks. There are beauty standards within each demographic.

1. You can deny the reality all you want, but it still not going to change it.
2. Did I say it was wrong? No, I didn't.
3. No shit, Sherlock. Why do you think LPSG exists? We didn't come here to look at ugly, fat/flabby men with small penises and flat asses. Don't get me wrong I know there's a group for that, but still.
4. The majority of people barely meet beauty standards within each demographic. I have been to L.A., Atlanta, and Rio de Janeiro where I was told "OMG, the men there are so beautiful, so hot, so sexy." Then when I went, some were handsome and beautiful, others were cute, but the majority were average or plain or ugly. This is called the 'Real World'

 

[JifariGrier]

I don't think he's retired. It sounds like he's going back to OnlyFan because he claimed he came back from Puerta Vallarta, Mexico to do some more shoots. I'm sick n tired of his Gemini Bi-Polar bullshit.

I kind of agree with you but I also understand others who have a problem with it because we have to be honest:
Gay black relationships are severely underrepresented and less common. You find more gay black men in serious relationships with white men than you do with black men, but it's a double edge sword too because, yes, there is internal anti-black sentiment among gay black men who think white men are the supreme being, but black men are less open to a relationship if the black guy doesn't fit his idea i.e. hood, muscular, extremely masculine with a 12-inch dick and a phat juicy ass.
Another unfortunate side between gay black couples is the physical and mental abuse. As much as we like to enjoy the teas and drama but it is also alarming how common abusive relationship is in gay black relationship hence why I kind of understand why many gay black men prefer to be with white men. Even though yes physical and mental abuse does occur in gay-white relationships but not as frequently in gay-black relationships.

I have to be honest... That Bigo app makes people think all the black gay folk are a mess.. they have stereotypical characters like a trans woman named "Cherry da bomb" and a host of other gay men just fighting and doing health reads and the like and one time I saw a segment where someone was coming to kick ATL Tayhs ass because he gave them an STD. All the while Tayh was in his house filming the whole thing and laughing hysterically. That shit makes all of us look bad.

 

[deleted1305299]

I have to be honest... That Bigo app makes people think all the black gay folk are a mess.. they have stereotypical characters like a trans woman named "Cherry da bomb" and a host of other gay men just fighting and doing health reads and the like and one time I saw a segment where someone was coming to kick ATL Tayhs ass because he gave them an STD. All the while Tayh was in his house filming the whole thing and laughing hysterically. That shit makes all of us look bad.

I realized that there is a huge homophobia within the gay black community. People never take into account the traumatized experience people, especially gay black men, had growing up and how they take it out on others because of the years of hurt and self-loathing.

Honestly, don't worry about what makes black people look bad or good because white people are going to hate them either way. Reading European history, I realized white people are some hateful ass people. So their opinion is worth less than a penny.

 

[Donismon]

1. You can deny the reality all you want, but it still not going to change it.
2. Did I say it was wrong? No, I didn't.
3. No shit, Sherlock. Why do you think LPSG exists? We didn't come here to look at ugly, fat/flabby men with small penises and flat asses. Don't get me wrong I know there's a group for that, but still.
4. The majority of people barely meet beauty standards within each demographic. I have been to L.A., Atlanta, and Rio de Janeiro where I was told "OMG, the men there are so beautiful, so hot, so sexy." Then when I went, some were handsome and beautiful, others were cute, but the majority were average or plain or ugly. This is called the 'Real World'

Ok

 

[Jimbob66]

I have to be honest... That Bigo app makes people think all the black gay folk are a mess.. they have stereotypical characters like a trans woman named "Cherry da bomb" and a host of other gay men just fighting and doing health reads and the like and one time I saw a segment where someone was coming to kick ATL Tayhs ass because he gave them an STD. All the while Tayh was in his house filming the whole thing and laughing hysterically. That shit makes all of us look bad.

as if people like james charles isn't caught talkin to children almost every year. every community has negative people but it seems only black gay people, and black people as a whole, aren't treated like a monolith. like andy cohen isn't messy as hell but would never be considered a community issue but an individual one lol. respectability politicking is corny as hell and has been proven to never change views.

 

[JifariGrier]

as if people like james charles isn't caught talkin to children almost every year. every community has negative people but it seems only black gay people, and black people as a whole, aren't treated like a monolith. like andy cohen isn't messy as hell but would never be considered a community issue but an individual one lol. respectability politicking is corny as hell and has been proven to never change vi

There are a few directors that end up in front of the camera at one point or another. Sometimes I like him and sometimes I can't stand him. One thing I do respect about him is he fact checks what he is saying before making his videos instead of putting out half truths and inaccurate information.

Not only does he sometimes come across like he's better than everyone else, I believe he truly thinks he is which is problematic. People keep saying that he only talks about the drama in the community. His videos are based on what it currently going on in today's world. If there wasn't so much drama going on, he'd have nothing to talk about.

I'm all for people being able to voice their opinions freely just like everyone else does. We as a people want others to listen to what we want/have to say but we aren't willing to do the same for others. Instead of trying to explain our points or view or listen to other points of view, we weaponize our tongues and start with the name calling then escalate to insults. It's okay to disagree but I don't understand how or why people get so angry over such things.

Chile.. how many times is he going to go after the men that claim that they are straight and just in it for the cabbage?

 

[Donismon]

Chile.. how many times is he going to go after the men that claim that they are straight and just in it for the cabbage?

Because Nico’s mantra is “sex work is work” but he doesn’t think “straight” men can sell their work to a gay audience who voluntarily chooses to monetize gay4pay work.

 

[Cheesycorn]

Because Nico’s mantra is “sex work is work” but he doesn’t think “straight” men can sell their work to a gay audience who voluntarily chooses to monetize gay4pay work.

Whoever ends up with this takeaway just read the title or missed the point. This was more of a critique of queer men supporting these “straight” performers while simultaneously being mad that the performers ruin their fantasy by having sex w women. Nico didn’t critique flashmanwade. He critiqued grandy and that other guy (in the past/ not in this vid), but that’s bc they were bating. He didn’t talk about tiger and is a big fan so idk why he was put in the thumbnail especially bc of the caption made for him.

 

[Cheesycorn]

If there can be openly gay men, like chris damned for example, that are paid to have sex with women, idk why gay4pay is something ppl don’t believe

And that type of situation is less likely to occur bc gay sex pays more - making it less likely for gay ppl to have sex with a gender they’re not attracted to when they can have sex with the gender they’re attracted to for more.

 

[JifariGrier]

If there can be openly gay men, like chris damned for example, that are paid to have sex with women, idk why gay4pay is something ppl don’t believe

And that type of situation is less likely to occur bc gay sex pays more - making it less likely for gay ppl to have sex with a gender they’re not attracted to when they can have sex with the gender they’re attracted to for more.

I'll tell you what... Jeff Stryker made films with both male and female and even showcased his son at a fashion event and nobody gave a FF.

 

[Jeffer2580]

If there can be openly gay men, like chris damned for example, that are paid to have sex with women, idk why gay4pay is something ppl don’t believe

And that type of situation is less likely to occur bc gay sex pays more - making it less likely for gay ppl to have sex with a gender they’re not attracted to when they can have sex with the gender they’re attracted to for more.

Actually straight porn pays gay porn performers times two of what they make in gay porn especially when the gay person is a star like Chris damned. He actually tweeted he's paid double in his straight scenes because unlike straight men in straight porn who just dumps their load and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not,a gay man shooting straight porn is expected to make the woman cum before he climax and he said,he has to watch gay porn or get fluffed to get hard as most times he's limp.

There would be more straight4pay pornstars because back in the day,a lot of gay men shot straight porn,there was no hate because social media didn't exist but the backlash as of now is terrible hence why gay men stay in their lane,like people forget porn is just a job first and foremost. Pornstar Justin Jett who's gay is already getting backlash for his first straight scene coming out later this month, gay men came for Francois Sagat when he shot his second straight porn movie in 2021 not to talk about how the backlash is rumored to have prompted Arpad Miklov's suicide because his straight scene was the last scene he shot before he died,Arad Winwin's career was ruined after that scene in men where he fucked a girl,gay men weren't having it,it got so bad that the studio apologized and decided to open their own bi porn studio hence how biphoria became born.I really wanna see men of color like Nico and Krave shoot scenes with women although they are both bi but I wonder what will happen if someone like Fame, Rhyheim,max konnor and other black gay men decided to fuck women on cam,it will be fire and brimstone from their fans

 

[TonyTrade]

If there can be openly gay men, like chris damned for example, that are paid to have sex with women, idk why gay4pay is something ppl don’t believe

Whoever ends up with this takeaway just read the title or missed the point. This was more of a critique of queer men supporting these “straight” performers while simultaneously being mad that the performers ruin their fantasy by having sex w women. Nico didn’t critique flashmanwade. He critiqued grandy and that other guy (in the past/ not in this vid), but that’s bc they were bating. He didn’t talk about tiger and is a big fan so idk why he was put in the thumbnail especially bc of the caption made for him.

Actually straight porn pays gay porn performers times two of what they make in gay porn especially when the gay person is a star like Chris damned. He actually tweeted he's paid double in his straight scenes because unlike straight men in straight porn who just dumps their load and don't care if the woman is satisfied or not,a gay man shooting straight porn is expected to make the woman cum before he climax and he said,he has to watch gay porn or get fluffed to get hard as most times he's limp.

There would be more straight4pay pornstars because back in the day,a lot of gay men shot straight porn,there was no hate because social media didn't exist but the backlash as of now is terrible hence why gay men stay in their lane,like people forget porn is just a job first and foremost. Pornstar Justin Jett who's gay is already getting backlash for his first straight scene coming out later this month, gay men came for Francois Sagat when he shot his second straight porn movie in 2021 not to talk about how the backlash is rumored to have prompted Arpad Miklov's suicide because his straight scene was the last scene he shot before he died,Arad Winwin's career was ruined after that scene in men where he fucked a girl,gay men weren't having it,it got so bad that the studio apologized and decided to open their own bi porn studio hence how biphoria became born.I really wanna see men of color like Nico and Krave shoot scenes with women although they are both bi but I wonder what will happen if someone like Fame, Rhyheim,max konnor and other black gay men decided to fuck women on cam,it will be fire and brimstone from their fans

Ryheims career would be RUINED if he fucked girls on camera lol. He's up to a million followers on Twitter now

 

[Jeffer2580]

Ryheims career would be RUINED if he fucked girls on camera lol. He's up to a million followers on Twitter now

Too bad,I will so pay to see that

 

[TonyTrade]

Too bad,I will so pay to see that

He only saw punani on the day he was born! Have you ever heard him speaking? He is serious fruit!

 

[Jeffer2580]

He only saw punani on the day he was born! Have you ever heard him speaking? He is serious fruit!

Nah!!! He said he's been with women before in an interview,I think it was when he was in highschool,he had his first sexual experience with a girl and the girl said it was too big,he said that was how he knew he wasn't average and gender mannerisms isn't human sexuality,I've seen hyper feminine men who smashed the hell out of pussy

 

[JifariGrier]

Nah!!! He said he's been with women before in an interview,I think it was when he was in highschool,he had his first sexual experience with a girl and the girl said it was too big,he said that was how he knew he wasn't average and gender mannerisms isn't human sexuality,I've seen hyper feminine men who smashed the hell out of pussy

The market is already saturated with hot bald black men with big penis when it comes to heterosexual porn and the dudes are freakish large. I understand some of them don't even get paid, they are just hard up and they get a Subway lunch lol

 

[Jeffer2580]

The market is already saturated with hot bald black men with big penis when it comes to heterosexual porn and the dudes are freakish large. I understand some of them don't even get paid, they are just hard up and they get a Subway lunch lol

I learned about the bolded from Jason luv,I was super shocked when he said most of the men of Blacked don't get paid and even the ones who do are giving very meagre wage. They honestly don't do it for the money but when they come to gay porn,they are treated like gods above other gay men

 

[privatempls]

I don't understand why people get mad at those who choose to "play in the snow".( date white guys) like what's the BFD? Why does that have to represent self-hatred? Me no get it

For me, it's not that they play in the snow, lol, it's because they always seem to make disparaging comments about black guys or their own race as a way to defend or explain why they're into who they're into. AND what they say is undesirable in their own race, they find perfectly acceptable in the arms of a white guy.

 

[TonyTrade]

For me, it's not that they play in7 the snow, lol, it's because they always seem to make disparaging comments about black guys or their own race as a way to defend or explain why they're into who they're into. AND what they say is undesirable in their own race, they find perfectly acceptable in the arms of a white guy.

I learned about the bolded from Jason luv,I was super shocked when he said most of the men of Blacked don't get paid and even the ones who do are giving very meagre wage. They honestly don't do it for the money but when they come to gay porn,they are treated like gods above other gay men

The average black guy in those gay
"thug/ do-rag" videos coming out of Atlanta gets paid $250.

 

[Tjay8]

Well damn. Nico lied about meeting Reign? Lmaoo

Nico got a lil reputation and now he don’t know to act. I don’t care for Reign, but this is funny!

Damn!!! He read him all the way down to the equator.