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[jaybee0560]

First of all, don’t imply that I should be offended just because I’m Black. I don’t need you to be offended on my behalf.

Second of all, it’s the same thing! You never know if someone is checking off a box when they’re hooking up with you. It’s a hookup. You don’t know that person or their desires. Hooking up is partly about exploring your fetishizes and desires.

In either situation you are mutually taking advantage of someone for your own pleasure. FOH...

I'm pretty much with you on this .. hook ups aren't about getting to know a person, almost everything to do with casual sex boils down to looking for a particular quality or fetish whether that be a daddy or hung or twink or BBC - there is obviously a history behind being black that I am sure makes this a more sensitive issue, I mean, I get the push back - but I fail to see how someone looking for a BBC is engaging in a different flavour of fetishizing than someone asking for a Hung Daddy type - neither is asking for a whole person, both are focussing on a non-material aspect of that person for casual sex