If you are a trans women what sex partner are you looking for? I am a male looking to date a transgender women. I've been with two trans escorts and are very interested in dating a pre op trans women. Possibly for.a LTR if it works dor both of us. Both girls I've been with gravitate to female partners. Just curious how many are looking for a male long term partner.
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Straight trans women are the minority.
Most trans women are trans lesbians who transition after having married a woman and after having fathered children. Think about Caitlyn Jenner.
The ones of us who are straight usually want to move on with our lives.
We transition, usually have sex reassignment surgery and then don't always disclose to partners that we are trans. Or not right away at least.
In the first few years after completing my transition, I didn't always tell men I was dating that I am a trans woman.
Awareness about trans people was much lower in the early 2010s than now.
So you could easily move on with your life and not always have to disclose.
Something you should realise is that most of us hate being fetishized.
We want to be seen in the same way as a cis woman.
We don't want men to seek us out specifically for being trans.
Most of us also have genital dysphoria and don't want to fulfill your sh*male fantasy.
We get gender reassignment surgery and move on with our lives like normal cis women.
The few ones who like being a chick with a dick, are usually either escorts pretending to like topping men or fetishists.
Autogynephiles make up a big portion of trans women.
Typical for autogynephiles is that they behave in a very male way. Even after transitioning. They will not mind topping cis men; they remain attracted to women in a heterosexual cis male way; they usually only seek out men to fulfill a societal ideal to be a straight woman.
Most of them are not emotionally attached to men. They are compulsory bisexual.
They go with men because it feeds their image of what a woman is.
They aren't truly attracted to men.
Their true sexuality is autogynephilia and heterosexuality in a male way.
There is a lot of controversy about this in the trans community and straight trans women ( researchers call us "homosexual transsexuals") get a lot of hate for pointing this out.
The homosexual transsexuals are the real trans women. The one you read about in literature as having been born with a female brain in a male body.
Autogynephiles in contrast have a male brain but their fetish to be a woman is so strong that eventually they medically transition.
Typical for homosexual transsexuals is that we lived lives as feminine gay men before we transitioned. We never fitted in however. We were too much of a girl to be a gay man. We blend in with cis women perfectly fine. We have enjoyed female socialization. Autogynephiles on the other hand have been male socialized.
Seems like the 2 escorts you had experience with were autogynephiliacs as they gravitate towards women.
Read Ray Blanchards typology of trans women if you want to learn more.
Most trans women are trans lesbians who transition after having married a woman and after having fathered children. Think about Caitlyn Jenner.
The ones of us who are straight usually want to move on with our lives.
We transition, usually have sex reassignment surgery and then don't always disclose to partners that we are trans. Or not right away at least.
In the first few years after completing my transition, I didn't always tell men I was dating that I am a trans woman.
Awareness about trans people was much lower in the early 2010s than now.
So you could easily move on with your life and not always have to disclose.
Something you should realise is that most of us hate being fetishized.
We want to be seen in the same way as a cis woman.
We don't want men to seek us out specifically for being trans.
Most of us also have genital dysphoria and don't want to fulfill your sh*male fantasy.
We get gender reassignment surgery and move on with our lives like normal cis women.
The few ones who like being a chick with a dick, are usually either escorts pretending to like topping men or fetishists.
Autogynephiles make up a big portion of trans women.
Typical for autogynephiles is that they behave in a very male way. Even after transitioning. They will not mind topping cis men; they remain attracted to women in a heterosexual cis male way; they usually only seek out men to fulfill a societal ideal to be a straight woman.
Most of them are not emotionally attached to men. They are compulsory bisexual.
They go with men because it feeds their image of what a woman is.
They aren't truly attracted to men.
Their true sexuality is autogynephilia and heterosexuality in a male way.
There is a lot of controversy about this in the trans community and straight trans women ( researchers call us "homosexual transsexuals") get a lot of hate for pointing this out.
The homosexual transsexuals are the real trans women. The one you read about in literature as having been born with a female brain in a male body.
Autogynephiles in contrast have a male brain but their fetish to be a woman is so strong that eventually they medically transition.
Typical for homosexual transsexuals is that we lived lives as feminine gay men before we transitioned. We never fitted in however. We were too much of a girl to be a gay man. We blend in with cis women perfectly fine. We have enjoyed female socialization. Autogynephiles on the other hand have been male socialized.
Seems like the 2 escorts you had experience with were autogynephiliacs as they gravitate towards women.
Read Ray Blanchards typology of trans women if you want to learn more.
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