Paying for sex -- the pros and cons

[heirtothewind]

When I was 23, a guy about my age offered me money to fuck him. I was confounded because he was young, handsome, and healthy. He explained that he did not like hanging around in a smoke-filled bar only to be disappointed by going home with a drunk who might pass out, or not be able to get a hard-on, or who does not like to do this or that ---- thus being a total waste of time and money spent buying drinks. At age 35, I felt the same way and started to pay for sex with guys who were 'my type' to get exactly the kind of sex I wanted. There is a certain etiquette and protocol to follow to be safe, but most of my 'little hoodlums' were very decent guys who became my good friends.

Please share your feelings or experience ---- either paying for sex or getting paid for sex.

 

[KennF]

Been on both sides of it.

Getting paid was fun, but then I wasn't there for the sex, I was there for the money. All the guy wanted was my thick cock. Didn't care a lick about me or even if I came. Only cared about me filling his hole and him getting off.

Paying for it was just about the control. I wanted something and I wanted it my way at my time under my terms.

Having been on both sides, money is about control and not having to be intimate. Sex is good, but at this point in my life, I enjoy the intimacy more.

 

[heirtothewind]

To be a successful hustler, a guy needs at least two of three physical attributes= handsome face, big cock, well-built body. He should have a pleasant personality, compassion, and the ability to converse intelligently ---- something like the fictional character of Phil Andros in that excellent series of books by Samuel Stewart [a professor of English at UC Berkeley, turned tattoo artist in San Francisco in the 70s].

 

[AlexDB9]

To be a successful hustler, a guy needs at least two of three physical attributes= handsome face, big cock, well-built body. He should have a pleasant personality, compassion, and the ability to converse intelligently ---- something like the fictional character of Phil Andros in that excellent series of books by Samuel Stewart [a professor of English at UC Berkeley, turned tattoo artist in San Francisco in the 70s].

Another version, quite popular here in LA: Barely legal, as pre-pubescent looking as possible and you don't even have to be very attractive. Just look like you're under age and haven't eaten in 6 months.

 

[MuscledHorse]

Never paid for it but I escorted back in the early/middle 2000's. It was a blast and enjoyed being a muscle bottom and getting paid over $100 an hour for guys to enjoy my muscles cock and ass. Nearly all the guys were average to above average that were either a) closeted or b) married. And then there were the really hot guys that I felt like I should have been paying; they were a great reward, too. No regrets about it and I'd go back to it tomorrow if I could.

 

[Adam2]

I have posed for an individual gay artist who paid me extra if I would pose with an erection and cum at the end. Needing the money, I did it. But kind of regret it afterwards.

 

[heirtothewind]

Another version, quite popular here in LA: Barely legal, as pre-pubescent looking as possible and you don't even have to be very attractive. Just look like you're under age and haven't eaten in 6 months.

Unfortunately, this statement is true and not limited to L.A. Chicken hawks exploit these kids in every big city. What a shame.

 

[Barberseville]

Based on your photos, muscledhorse, I think the product you were selling ten years ago would still find many takers nows

 

[SnapperLondon]

I have often wondered about this subject.

I have often thought of paying for it, as I would never attract the type that my "fantasies" are made of, and to get what I would like would probably require it.

Also, being able to tell someone, who I would deem to be superior in looks, body and dick, what to do and not "degrade" them as I would not go to that extent, but certainly tell them what and how to do what I want, would be quite a turn-on I imagine.

 

[deleted871301]

I have posed for an individual gay artist who paid me extra if I would pose with an erection and cum at the end. Needing the money, I did it. But kind of regret it afterwards.

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