I'm not saying numbers don't have anything to do with it. For example my 4" girth cock will always be thin, no matter what type of a frame it is attached. But to me it is still about appearance. It might not look that thin on me 'cause I'm skinny but if I doubled my weight it would look non existent even though it still is the same 4".You mention that, for you, it’s appearance/optics. For me, it’s more the actual numbers.
Isn't this exactly about appearance?I’m big “down there” but don’t look it. Primarily because I’m a big guy overall (250+ lbs here, big frame, etc.), so my cock size is often underestimated.
You are definitely right here. We all have our own ways of looking at thingsNeither your way or my way are more right than wrong; they’re just our preferred perspective/stance on things.