How do you think guys become life partners?
By committee?
Sometimes, it’s understanding thought processes.
How and why should I know what he is packing (or if he’s “packing”) before I go on a date? I personally don’t get that close to people and I look at eyes (and mouths, I lip read to a small degree)
Why would I judge an entire human on what is really a small part of the anatomy in a percentage and proportion sense? I don’t judge based on noses, either. Nose, hair, maybe. I’m short, I see the caverns.
Why would I let myself lose out on a fabulous soul based on peen size, either direction? Larger is often more of an issue, because we might physically be too mismatched.
Every body is different. One will have soft fuzz on the small of the back, another only a tuft at the top of the cleft of the butt cheeks. One will have lighter feeling bones. Another, a solidity that could pin a partner down in a hurricane.
One person’s smile will start with a lip twitch, another’s at the cheeks.
it’s the totality that matters.