Public Restroom Sex

I used to venture to park tearooms and highway rest stops when I was younger, but with the rise of Internet hook-up sites, it just isn't worth the time wasted waiting for a random encounter anymore. Had quite a few good experiences, but always felt at risk of danger. Also, the 'understall' thing has no appeal to me, and gloryholes give me castration anxiety... I prefered to see the man that the dick was attached to.

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No, I've never had sex in a public bathroom. I have always valued sex too much to do it where others shit and piss. I've always been disappointed in other gay men when I've walked into a restroom and sex between men is going on--I leave quickly and find another bathroom. Wouldn't want to be in a place like that when a vice arrest goes down. I have know instances where some 'watchers' have been arrested (for loitering) along with the participants. Just think of US Senator Larry Craig (R-ID) arrested by a vice cop in a bathroom in the Minneapolis Airport; his veiled threat to the arresting officer ('Do you know who I am?') didn't keep him from arrest, public humiliation, and having to leave the senate in disgrace.

I know men who
1.) have had careers damaged or cut short by arrests for restroom sex/public lewdness/indecency;
2.) have been passed over for jobs or lost a security clearance or have been dishonorably discharged because of a public indecency arrest;
3.) have had to live with the embarrassment for having been arrested for, sorry, being a toilet fuck.

Having sex in a bathroom that has dirty floors, dirty toilets (because they ARE toilets), and that smell bad because of effluvia or restroom deodorants, where sinks and faucets are disease-transmission vectors (fomites) has never appealed to me. I hate entering a stall with either cum on the floor/toilet seat, orcum tracks on stall walls--it's like an animal leaving its spoor. I just walk away without using that stall.

Hot gay sex is so great that it deserves a good setting with privacy, and for me, that's not a public shitter.

It's certainly not the case, as it used to be, that such places are the only place that casual gay sex can occur.

I'm not a prude, and yes, I know that for some filth is a fetish, just not for me.

Don't bother to attack me, this is just my own experience that the OP asked for, along with my personal opinion.
 
Never have, never will. Maybe if I MYSELF just freshly installed that bathroom that day, it is unused. Then sure. Other then that, not gonna happen. I think it is gross. I tend to skip every single porn video that takes place in bathrooms as it is, it is that unappealing for me.
 
I must confess that yes I have. Though she was the one who dragged me into the ladies room. Not very romantic, and the stall was more than a bit cramped, but sometimes the just right amount of alcohol can cloud our better judgment while leaving our nasty bits fully capable of doing things which might make us wince about the morning after.
 
No, I've never had sex in a public bathroom. I have always valued sex too much to do it where others shit and piss. I've always been disappointed in other gay men when I've walked into a restroom and sex between men is going on--I leave quickly and find another bathroom. Wouldn't want to be in a place like that when a vice arrest goes down. I have know instances where some 'watchers' have been arrested (for loitering) along with the participants. Just think of US Senator Larry Craig (R-ID) arrested by a vice cop in a bathroom in the Minneapolis Airport; his veiled threat to the arresting officer ('Do you know who I am?') didn't keep him from arrest, public humiliation, and having to leave the senate in disgrace.

I know men who
1.) have had careers damaged or cut short by arrests for restroom sex/public lewdness/indecency;
2.) have been passed over for jobs or lost a security clearance or have been dishonorably discharged because of a public indecency arrest;
3.) have had to live with the embarrassment for having been arrested for, sorry, being a toilet fuck.

Having sex in a bathroom that has dirty floors, dirty toilets (because they ARE toilets), and that smell bad because of effluvia or restroom deodorants, where sinks and faucets are disease-transmission vectors (fomites) has never appealed to me. I hate entering a stall with either cum on the floor/toilet seat, orcum tracks on stall walls--it's like an animal leaving its spoor. I just walk away without using that stall.

Hot gay sex is so great that it deserves a good setting with privacy, and for me, that's not a public shitter.

It's certainly not the case, as it used to be, that such places are the only place that casual gay sex can occur.

I'm not a prude, and yes, I know that for some filth is a fetish, just not for me.

Don't bother to attack me, this is just my own experience that the OP asked for, along with my personal opinion.
A simple no it's not for me would have worked.
 
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^ lol... Yep, but, it's refreshing to hear an alternative to the usual "Me, too!" type replies in threads here about dirty and risky M4M sex. And, he didn't condemn those that are into it... "I'm not a prude, and yes, I know that for some filth is a fetish, just not for me."

Aside from the stink, the risk of getting gay-bashed, infected, robbed, and/or arrested cruising public toilets is very VERY real, and it's good that those facts, as a warning to the naive, are addressed on this topic. Just ask my friend "Michael F.", who had to have his entire face surgically reconstructed after being bashed in at a park toilet. Not to mention the many broken ribs. He was lucky that someone found him before he bled out.

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a follow-up, of sorts. I asked an attorney who does a lot of LGTBQ-related representation what it costs to hire a lawyer if someone gets arrested or cited (no arrest, just given a ticket) for public-restroom sex. He says it varies lawyer-by-lawyer and state-by-state.
He wouldn't give a figure, and smiled when I asked him if it was generally more than a thousand bucks. He did say that the publicity and the results of that are far more costly than being represented by an attorney, paying the fine, or posting bail (in some cases).
He said that he thought red states are probably tougher about arrests than blue states, but that he didn't know.

Anyone have information about this?

Have any straight people on LPSG been sited for public sex?
 
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a follow-up, of sorts. I asked an attorney who does a lot of LGTBQ-related representation what it costs to hire a lawyer if someone gets arrested or cited (no arrest, just given a ticket) for public-restroom sex. He says it varies lawyer-by-lawyer and state-by-state.
He wouldn't give a figure, and smiled when I asked him if it was generally more than a thousand bucks. He did say that the publicity and the results of that are far more costly than being represented by an attorney, paying the fine, or posting bail (in some cases).
He said that he thought red states are probably tougher about arrests than blue states, but that he didn't know.

Anyone have information about this?

Have any straight people on LPSG been sited for public sex?
I know a guy that that got busted for hitting on a undercover cop here in Houston, it was an expensive nightmare. I'm going to guess more than five grand.
 
I know a straight couple who were caught screwing in their car, late at night in a city park's parking lot... They got a "rap" on the window with a Cop's flashlight, and were only told to "Move on"... If it had been two men, you know it would have been an arrest scene.
 
I wasn't looking for sex but was chatting with a guy on Grindr while on a layover in Seattle. We joked about people that cruse the stalls and then decided to give it a shot. I blew him in the handicapped stall in a busy bathroom. In hindsight I should have say crossed legged on the seat there weren't four legs visible but to my knowledge no one noticed.

I went to Vegas with some friends and spent a lot of time in the bathrooms checking out the scenes. It made me so horny. I jerked off multiple times a day in the stalls at Cesars. One time I walked into the bathroom and accidentally bumped into a guy who followed me to the last stall and tapped his foot. He was so cute but I was too nervous to respond. At the airport before my flight I was chatting with a married guy from MS who said he just landed and was hoping to get a bj. I told him to meet me in the bathroom near my gate because the stalls were totally empty and partly private. I sucked on his nice curved cock. Again crossing my legs on the toilet didn't register. He blew his load and left. When I left a guy was standing at the urnals and looked me in the eyes. I know he knew what I was up to and I freaked out. The idea turns me on but it scares me now. I think the thrill of the moment has passed and I doubt I'll be doing this again. Good memories though
 
I love peeking at public restroom urinals and stalls but always try to be casual and covert about it. However, if I catch the other guy(s) reacting such as peeking back, smiling, giving their cocks a stroke then I know they're into having some fun. Always careful though to be sure about the number and ages of people around, the overall business of the room, etc. Have had some very hot jo and oral sessions in public restrooms.
 
I've only actually done it once.
Too many worries for me, the biggest one being my, um, castration anxiety with the whole glory hole thing. Hard not to picture Jeffery Dahmer on the other side of the wall.
Somehow, though, I have no problem with anonymous hookups. So long as I can see a face ...