I want to know how other plus-sized/fat men (and specifically Black Chubs) are getting their sexual needs met in 2025
Long story short (and potentially TMI), I've been trying to find a play partner for the past year to help me get better at sucking dick. I give great head but I want to eventually be able to deep-throat, etc. Finding someone who is down for this has been a monumental task. I'm not opposed to chasers, but I've never been approached by one.
I'm upfront with my size and my goals, and I the tone I write in is a casual, non-hyper sexual/aggresive style.
I also don't hesitate to send body picks when asked even when I know the inevitable will happen.
I've tried Doublelist, The Blowers, Grindr, and Reddit (surprisingly I had the most success on reddit). I've had some very very mild one-time successes setting up glory-holes in motel rooms, but I haven't found the kind of arrangement that I'm actually looking for.
I know that there are fat men fucking and sucking out there, like how are y'all getting it done because I'm at a loss at this point? And I'd further ask this question specifically to other Fat Black Men because what works for other people doesn't always translate for us.
Any input would be greatly appreciated.
Long story short (and potentially TMI), I've been trying to find a play partner for the past year to help me get better at sucking dick. I give great head but I want to eventually be able to deep-throat, etc. Finding someone who is down for this has been a monumental task. I'm not opposed to chasers, but I've never been approached by one.
I'm upfront with my size and my goals, and I the tone I write in is a casual, non-hyper sexual/aggresive style.
I also don't hesitate to send body picks when asked even when I know the inevitable will happen.
I've tried Doublelist, The Blowers, Grindr, and Reddit (surprisingly I had the most success on reddit). I've had some very very mild one-time successes setting up glory-holes in motel rooms, but I haven't found the kind of arrangement that I'm actually looking for.
I know that there are fat men fucking and sucking out there, like how are y'all getting it done because I'm at a loss at this point? And I'd further ask this question specifically to other Fat Black Men because what works for other people doesn't always translate for us.
Any input would be greatly appreciated.
