Reactions to your flaccid size in non-sexual contexts

[RaskaYu]

Hi. I’m starting gym next month and I haven’t been in a locker room since the end of the Mayan calendar. I used to feel much more anxious being more in the grower side of the spectrum back then, but now I’ve become more into a shower, apparently.

I’m about 15 cm ~ 6 inches flaccid and according to calcSD - Penis Size Percentile Calculator and The Big Dick Guide say that’s pretty damn big for a flaccid, even more than twice some lower “average” guys out there. Thankfully, not a monster, I guess, I can still sport skinny jeans nicely with just a subtle bulge etc.

Sorry, but this flaccid size seems surreal I didn’t thought this was considered that big at all.

Given that locker rooms have somewhat optimal conditions (high temperature, post-workout blood flow, loose clothing...) i can totally pull some flaccid even low semi-hard size. Aside from anxiety I also feel a tiny bit horny nervousness. I really don’t know what to expect but I can totally control myself and not be escorted out of the building, of course.

Aside from this rambling, tell me

• What is your flaccid size?
• How did people (non-lovers, buddies, strangers) in the past reacted to it?

Examples:
Locker room banter, friends going camping, pissing at a urinal next to somebody, random compliments, etc.

 

[Tom81]

Love this topic, rambling or not

I'm not sure I've ever measured flaccid, precisely because it can vary depending on different circumstances and so isn't really telling you anything constant, unlike erect length.

But I find the locker room thing so interesting. It starts off with the thinking that, well, it isn't a good indicator of hard size so it's not that deep. But then there are guys like you who show, and I mean really show. 15cm flaccid is something I imagine most guys notice in the locker room. That is a very visible and lets be honest large size to have hanging soft. With most shy of 10cm in the locker room, obvious glances or not, that would stand out.

But here's a further thing. Even erect 15cm is longer than almost three quarters of men. And that I think is the Real locker room realisation. Yes flaccid size is unreliable. But there are guys who show off sizes which a majority of the guys present know they don't have even in private, in the bedroom, when hard. Obvious glance or not, the guys who hang 15cm or more are packing more just getting changed soft than others will have that evening during sex or masturbation. And thats quite a realisation to have.

One step further is this. Not only do those guys know it. There comes a time when the hung guy knows it. He'll have seen the sites linked above. He'll know the average erect size stats. And he'll walk around knowing soft in the locker room he's showing off more inches or cm than the guy opposite can give his partner, that he can just stand, hang there and that unspoken message will be conveyed. It doesn't need anything more. Maybe the guy is in blissful ignorance. But chances are, especially if the 15cm+ guy is exhibitionist..... he'll know

 

[RaskaYu]

Love this topic, rambling or not

I'm not sure I've ever measured flaccid, precisely because it can vary depending on different circumstances and so isn't really telling you anything constant, unlike erect length.

Yes, to be fair that flaccid length measure is in somewhat optimal conditions, being flaccid but not even semi-hard, with acceptable room temperature (home) and a piece of cloth over the area (pyjamas) - I've been having mad summer dick, and while my flaccid size isnt always ghe same, I can replicate the measurement in the wild easily, for example while taking a leak at some bushes or similar. Don't measure for flaccid after a cold shower! Hahaha

15cm flaccid is something I imagine most guys notice in the locker room. That is a very visible and lets be honest large size to have hanging soft. With most shy of 10cm in the locker room, obvious glances or not, that would stand out.

I guess the thing that makes me go around this topic is that it took until these last years for my testes to hang lower and more freely, and thus I didn't feel I had an "adult" looking package, as well as being a grower. Going commando, sleeping naked, avoiding thight clothes at home, and having rigorous sex has helped a lot in changing my status to shower.

But chances are, especially if the 15cm+ guy is exhibitionist..... he'll know

Turns out that I can be a bit of a casual subtle exhibitionist too.

 

[Tom81]

How subtle are you as an exhibitionist? The context varies I know. But I think you are confirming what I suspect, that some men know they are sporting flaccid what others have erect and aren't afraid to show it

 

[RaskaYu]

I'm more of an exhibitionist that I initially thought of, and my new normal contributes to it.

Covert Exhibitionism

This is exactly my flavor of casual exhibitionism aside from uploading a couple of photos here or sending a dick pick to a girlfriend. I don't do webcam stuff, thought.

As I said in that thread:

My favourite has to be taking a leak behind some bushes, rocks or similar, specially if you live in a rural area or at a highway stop where people just stop to rest briefly (I wouldn't do that in a crowded city park and risk a fine, for example)

It's subtle but sometimes somebody will approach by your side without you noticing there was a trail or similar and take an accidental peek of your dong so whenever I do that now I make sure I'm at least in a very meaty semi-hard state.

And being in this website and uploading dick picks is in itself a bit of an exhibitionist act, isn't it?

 

[tripod]

Show the soft bulge in your pants and you can show EVERYONE your big soft cock. Bulge displaying is infinitely more enjoyable imho.

 

[RaskaYu]

Show the soft bulge in your pants and you can show EVERYONE your big soft cock. Bulge displaying is infinitely more enjoyable imho.

To be fair bulge displaying and its implications is a whole art form I wasnt remptely aware of until I signed up here

 

[B2TW2021]

My flaccid size is a puny 8 cm / 3 inch soft. Sometimes a little over.

I don't get it out that often because I'm embarrassed about it, but only one person, an old friend, made a joke about it. I have always been tall, and broad, a typical jock build, but not a lot to show below the belt. Apparently I'm within the average range, but I feel below average.

 

[RaskaYu]

My flaccid size is a puny 8 cm / 3 inch soft. Sometimes a little over.

I don't get it out that often because I'm embarrassed about it, but only one person, an old friend, made a joke about it. I have always been tall, and broad, a typical jock build, but not a lot to show below the belt. Apparently I'm within the average range, but I feel below average.

That's very ok, yours not a bad size in itself. Do you feel the need to be at least semi-hard to pull off your pants in company? I know I did with girls I wasnt confortable with at first.

I find it interesting that only an old friend made a joke (not one too cruel I hope and you guys could laugh it off) we always have this idea in popular culture and in nightmare scenarios of comedy movies and such that everybody's laughing in locker rooms and so. It took an old friendship to even point at it. That's reasuring

 

[B2TW2021]

That's very ok, yours not a bad size in itself. Do you feel the need to be at least semi-hard to pull off your pants in company? I know I did with girls I wasnt confortable with at first.

I find it interesting that only an old friend made a joke (not one too cruel I hope and you guys could laugh it off) we always have this idea in popular culture and in nightmare scenarios of comedy movies and such that everybody's laughing in locker rooms and so. It took an old friendship to even point at it. That's reasuring

Being semi or hard helps a little. But I'm not that impressive, even then. A little over 5 inches / 13 cms .
The only thing I have going for me is girth. I think I'm a little above average, which shows even more against a low average length.
My friend and I were teens. He just laughed and said something about it, he wasn't cruel or demeaning. my size used to bother me a lot more than it does now. I got my height, some blokes are much shorter than me (Ironically he's 5ft7 and I'm 6'5). I guess we all have our blessings and shortcomings

 

[Tom81]

5 inches soft, and with proportionately greater girth, is pretty good going for flaccid!

 

[Hungbrowntwunk]

Around 6.5-7 inches soft. Somewhere in that range

At the gym, I love looking through the mirror and seeing the beautiful ladies stare when I'm doing jump ropes, cleans or burpees, since my flaccid cock usually bounces around when I jump.

At the urinals, it depends on the type of guy thats around. If they are not good looking, I'll go piss in the stalls. If they're hot, however, I'll usually use the urinal right next to them and do a helicopter and stretch my flaccid cock out without looking at them, and then turn around and look them in the eyes while pissing because I know that they're looking directly at it.

I'm an exhibitionist too. More of the overt variety rather than the covert type.

 

[nomju]

Several stories, so strap yourselves in (btw I'm 5.5 x 4.5 soft. Sometimes even 6 inches if it's warm):
- in the gym showers, one stranger asked me what equipment I'd been using on 'that muscle'.
- gym changing rooms, after I'd showered. Me and one other guy in there. The cleaner knocked on the door to see if the room was empty. Jocking, I shouted to her 'Come in, we're not shy' to which the guy says 'i bet you're not with that between your legs'.
- at work, a female colleague raised a point in a management meeting that she'd seen an elephants trunk on site. She was referencing my dick, as she'd seen me pissing in the badly designed toilets.
- the guitarist in my old band was stood next to me at the urinals. 'fucking hell, that's massive. What do you use it for?'. The last bit didn't really make sense.
- the girlfriend of the guitarist in my current band came to our hotel room very early in the morning to retrieve something she'd left in our room. I answered the door naked. Her eyes were only in one direction.
- my wife's friend visited while I was in the shower. Not knowing she was in the house I walked down the corridor toweling my hair dry, only to bump into her. Later I overheard her saying to my wife 'i know why you married him now'.
- on holiday me, my wife, her sister and my brother in law all went skinny dipping. I ran out of the sea with this big thing swinging. He was hung like mouse. Later, in private, my sister in law asked my wife LOTS of questions.

 

[deleted25291131]

BPFL: 13.5 cm (5.31 in.)
MSFL: 12.5 cm (4.92 in.)

I've only had a couple of incidents where I knew people were looking an noticing. I try to conceal it behind my fly because of the work situation. Once in a locker room after showering, I heard one guy whispering to another asking if he'd seen the size of my cock. Another time, a eighteen-year-old-girl noticed when it had dropped down my right pants leg and was rubbing up against my thigh (possibly thickening up a little more). She said to me, "Nice cock." Looking for a daddy, maybe. That made my day.

 

[XLIMX]

I've accepted that I'm going to bulge at the gym. Muscle guys, the environment, etc. No different than wrestlers getting semi hard in a match

 

[Wildman2015]

I usually hang right at 5.5" long and 5" in girth. Like you, I didn't think it was that big until I saw the same stats you did on CalcSD and other sites. However, I did know that I was larger than some of my friends from occasionally seeing them in their underwear and swim suits. One of my straight friends did see me stepping out of the shower once and he did a double take, but he didn't say anything. I've been accused of being hard because my dick's outline could be seen in my jeans. Most recently I've switched to wearing briefs with a larger pouch that allows my dick to hang down instead being compressed against my balls, which is way more comfortable, but that means it hangs a little down my left leg. I've gotten a few comments on my pics posted to IG and other sites because it's more visible. It can be embarrassing when one of my friends points it out in front of a group of friends, but they're mostly gay and appreciative of the view. Honestly, there's a part of me that's an exhibitionist, so I have to admit to liking the attention.

 

[lilguy11]

I love seeing giant flaccid cocks at the gym. There are a few older guys at my gym with VERY LARGE flaccid cocks. It totally amazes me. Nothing like a daddy with a massive flaccid cock thats bigger than mine hard

 

[Countrythick6]

I’m usually around for soft but very thick. After a hard workout it’s definitely smaller but I can shake it out and loosen it up some. Seems to help. I’ve gotten many looks and a few comments on my girth from guys in the locker rooms and buddies that have seen it.

 

[RaskaYu]

@Countrythick6 has also commented in a thread I should mention that could be a sister thread to this very one (or at least my introduction to this one) and talks about that sort of shrunk dick you get after workouts.

Gym Dick

As I recall this happening to me after jogging and getting back home (and going for a cold shower no less) I guess all my flaccid exhibitionism will have to be done before the actual workout lol

 

[popolki12]

Young guy here and when I go to the open shower of my gym most guy are older, so they are always having a surprised look to see a naked young guy around, then have a quick glance on my dick. A bit bigger than average and I have pretty big balls, so I like to shower in a way that other guy can have a look on my big balls, side position.