Reactions to your flaccid size in non-sexual contexts

[RaskaYu]

[...] they are always having a surprised look to see a naked young guy around, then have a quick glance on my dick. [...]

I'm under the impression that a lot of these surprises are a very non-verbal impression. Confidence, the element of surprise, body language, your dancing dick, and being even just a bit bigger than average can do wonders on a first impression, I guess

 

[aliuel]

My flaccid size ranges from 0.5 to 2 inches so suffice to say, even in optimum conditions I’m well below average and almost always the smallest in a locker room or urinal by a noticeable amount.

Just as others have posted here about a large size getting comments, a tiny one does too. People tend to react to anything beyond what’s considered ‘normal.’ It’s ranged from unspoken double takes to jokey ‘Must be cold’ comments to crueler remarks (mostly at school). The thing is, as a massive exhibitionist, I love showing off. I just had to get past the psychological barrier of accepting I has a small cock, ‘owning’ it.

And now, IRL and on LPSG 90% of comments I get are positive. A lot of people are genuinely fascinated as they ‘didn’t know cocks could be that size’. Interestingly, quite a few have suggested I shave or at least trim my extensive pubic hair as it would ‘make me look bigger.’ I think - come on, no amount of manscaping is going to make me hung. Might as well embrace it

 

[belvano]

My wife has made fun of my softie which is just 1 inch many many times. She laughs and comments on it very bluntly

 

[blutobluto2000]

I had some pain on the side of my balls once and the doc wanted an ultrasound. The ultrasound tech took me into the room and then actually looked at the order and where she needed to scan and didn't seem thrilled. Dropped my shorts and I was not hard at all and when she saw my unit her eyebrows raised to say that's impressive. As the scan proceeded I did chub up a bit as I had to hold my cock to the side l but was able to control from going full mast. Was actually a bit pleasurable and it turns out my balls were OK.

 

[StMars69]

 

[Perfectsix]

After a work out I am prone to shrinkage and am often as small as 1.5” with a tight retracted ball sac but it is my lack of pubic hair that attracts the most attention and, mostly negative, comments

 

[WadWorshipper]

It varies, but I'd say the best consistent measurement I get for flaccid cock is 5.5" x 4.5". It sometimes hangs to six after a shower at the gym, I think. I always walk to/from the showers naked, and yes, some guys look. A few have done double-takes. I admit that I get a kick out of it. The younger guys are never naked, of course, so are vaguely uncomfortable around men that are not, but i leave them be, as they try to sneak sideways glances to satisfy their curiosity. I never do anything more overt than get dressed without embarrassment because a lot of guys are not comfortable around naked men, even at the gym! I much prefer flopping and swinging on a nude beach but they're not any around me.

 

[WarriorforLife]

Regardless of any man's dick size, it is liberating and primal to hang with other nude dudes in the locker room.

 

[VodkaLover]

• 6” soft and approx 4.5” girth
• Usual reaction: “wow it’s huge” “that’s a massive willy!” “Wasn’t expecting that” “puts me to shame” “absolutely massive!”— mainly Because I’m only short (5ft 5)

 

[BigPosersBulge]

• 6” soft and approx 4.5” girth
• Usual reaction: “wow it’s huge” “that’s a massive willy!” “Wasn’t expecting that” “puts me to shame” “absolutely massive!”— mainly Because I’m only short (5ft 5)

impressive meat.

 

[lorne]

I love showing off in change room and seeing difference etc. I love seeing how people react. I got lucky and have a rather giant softy which shows really well. I get a lot of comments about "third leg" "or looks like a tail" etc usually jokes. I did Wreck beach recently and got a couple comments from other people when chatting etc usually in the vein of "solid piece!"

 

[rootbeer4377]

Okay this thread is getting me plumped up, not going to lie.

 

[Gaspard_Da_Gama]

I love pissing in the urinals just to proudly expose my dick to others and attract attention!

At school, a classmate and I were pissing side by side, he tried to be discreet but he kept looking my dick. I found him very interested for someone who claimed to be 100% straight. I teased him about it during the break but he looked uncomfortable.

The next day, I go to the toilet again and what do I see ? The guy was going in the same direction. I had understood his little game, he was waiting for me to go pee to join me "discreetly" and admire the beast again. I get into his game and do like nothing was. As soon as I finish pissing I grab him and take him to a cabin and ask him to suck my dick. The guy is performing, it's because he was also talented! It didn't take me long before I came in his mouth.

I noticed that since what happened, he looks at me differently, I have already referred to it but we have never talked about it together again.

 

[Ponyhoff]

I love pissing in the urinals just to proudly expose my dick to others and attract attention!

At school, a classmate and I were pissing side by side, he tried to be discreet but he kept looking my dick. I found him very interested for someone who claimed to be 100% straight. I teased him about it during the break but he looked uncomfortable.

The next day, I go to the toilet again and what do I see ? The guy was going in the same direction. I had understood his little game, he was waiting for me to go pee to join me "discreetly" and admire the beast again. I get into his game and do like nothing was. As soon as I finish pissing I grab him and take him to a cabin and ask him to suck my dick. The guy is performing, it's because he was also talented! It didn't take me long before I came in his mouth.

I noticed that since what happened, he looks at me differently, I have already referred to it but we have never talked about it together again.

A cabin? What kind of school has a nearby cabin? How far was the cabin from the bathroom? You silently grabbed him and walked him over to another building? I mean, I think you are writing fantasy here and in some of your other stories, but I prefer fiction to be labeled as such.

 

[Gaspard_Da_Gama]

A cabin? What kind of school has a nearby cabin? How far was the cabin from the bathroom? You silently grabbed him and walked him over to another building? I mean, I think you are writing fantasy here and in some of your other stories, but I prefer fiction to be labeled as such.

No, a toilet cabin! I'm not English-speaking so it may happen that I'm imprecise about some words, sorry. I wasn't talking about the cabin at the bottom of the garden!

 

[Ponyhoff]

So basically, after believing that he was looking at you peeing, you grabbed him and pushed him into the toilet, without consent? I mean, there still is a thing about asking first....just because someone likes to watch doesn't mean that they want to have sex with you

 

[FrankieGuile]

Hi. I’m starting gym next month and I haven’t been in a locker room since the end of the Mayan calendar. I used to feel much more anxious being more in the grower side of the spectrum back then, but now I’ve become more into a shower, apparently.

I’m about 15 cm ~ 6 inches flaccid and according to calcSD - Penis Size Percentile Calculator and The Big Dick Guide say that’s pretty damn big for a flaccid, even more than twice some lower “average” guys out there. Thankfully, not a monster, I guess, I can still sport skinny jeans nicely with just a subtle bulge etc.

Sorry, but this flaccid size seems surreal I didn’t thought this was considered that big at all.

Given that locker rooms have somewhat optimal conditions (high temperature, post-workout blood flow, loose clothing...) i can totally pull some flaccid even low semi-hard size. Aside from anxiety I also feel a tiny bit horny nervousness. I really don’t know what to expect but I can totally control myself and not be escorted out of the building, of course.

Aside from this rambling, tell me

• What is your flaccid size?
• How did people (non-lovers, buddies, strangers) in the past reacted to it?

Examples:
Locker room banter, friends going camping, pissing at a urinal next to somebody, random compliments, etc.

The situation you describe and the questions you posit are contradictory to the premise of the thread, "Reactions To Your Flaccid Size In Non-Sexual Contexts." (I've added the emphasis). You are sexualizing all these "contexts." They should be non-sexual, but God forbid any regular guy would want to undress in a locker room or take a shower among other men without checking out dick sizes or being checked out himself. Your own self-effacing attempt to boast the size of your own Johnson fails in its pretension. We can't know if what you claim is true, and as for me, when one resorts to bragging, it is a sign of need for validation for something lacking.

 

[BigPosersBulge]

• 6” soft and approx 4.5” girth
• Usual reaction: “wow it’s huge” “that’s a massive willy!” “Wasn’t expecting that” “puts me to shame” “absolutely massive!”— mainly Because I’m only short (5ft 5)

Would be fun to piss and size compare with you.

 

[tdnet]

My flaccid size is usually 6 to 7 inches long, which can depend on temperatures… and he always hangs downwards.

Most of the glancing stares i notice in public are often folks seeing my bulge thru my pants.
And the other times are mostly in the gym locker rooms after showering. Also, at urinals that don’t have a divider between them where other men will make darting looks at him.

I do have a friend that’s seen my flaccid dick who has told me that he wished he could be my size. He somehow believes that being outsized can attract women more! But that seldom happens to me. It can often be problematic when it comes to having sex as well.

 

[deleted29924911]

I met a colleague at the gym. We worked out, totally non-sexual. Afterwards, we hit the showers. While we were changing, he made reference to my “male member” and that it was humbling to him. I just laughed.