Richard Madden (Robb Stark in GOT)

Eh, I was just responding to an on-going back and forth in this thread. And I did so in as nuanced of a way as possible and also without all the naive and coddling bullsh*t. No matter how you frame it, dating guys who are quite a bit younger than you, being with them for years and forcing them to have publicly “in” relationships. Brandon indirectly calling him an asshole. Froy going public with his post Richard relationship with the quickness. None of those things are signs of “contentment” or being a good person or good partner.

It’s fine to support people doing things on their own time and also not trying to force something on anyone. I don’t like anyone feeling forced to share things they don’t want to and many of these public figures offer too much frankly. While you never know people’s dimensions or struggles. But a lot of y’all like playing dumb/naive when it comes to folks you have the hots for. Then you act shocked when certain things are revealed about those people.
 
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Being almost 40 in 2024 and having fame, money, looks, career opportunities, no female partner but still being really worried about how the public perceives your potential queerness and telling your years long partners who are quite a bit younger than you that there are certain things you can’t be seen doing publicly and that you can’t publicly claim them. All of that hints towards things like insecurities, discontentment, uncertainty around what you want and uncertainty around the gender, sexual, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. And it may hints towards being a user or manipulator or having some abusive tendencies. It does not scream “contentment”. However, a lot of these guys move weird af and forever contend with a lot of struggles. So, many of you are used to it.
Dude, you are making so much shit up. 97% of what you write is just based on your own interpretation and the stories you make up in your head about other people. We certainly all know your "dimensions" as you write the same exact things everywhere, about people you do not know and have never met no less. But you are very comfortable positioning yourself as "expert" on their life and their "dimensions." You are projecting so much.
 
Dude, you are making so much shit up. 97% of what you write is just based on your own interpretation and the stories you make up in your head about other people. We certainly all know your "dimensions" as you write the same exact things everywhere, about people you do not know and have never met no less. But you are very comfortable positioning yourself as "expert" on their life and their "dimensions." You are projecting so much.
The ignore feature works really well.
 
Dude, you are making so much shit up. 97% of what you write is just based on your own interpretation and the stories you make up in your head about other people. We certainly all know your "dimensions" as you write the same exact things everywhere, about people you do not know and have never met no less. But you are very comfortable positioning yourself as "expert" on their life and their "dimensions." You are projecting so much.
There are people who think they are psychologists and believe that they are really saying super profound things when is just pure nonsense lmao
 
Dude, you are making so much shit up. 97% of what you write is just based on your own interpretation and the stories you make up in your head about other people. We certainly all know your "dimensions" as you write the same exact things everywhere, about people you do not know and have never met no less. But you are very comfortable positioning yourself as "expert" on their life and their "dimensions." You are projecting so much.

I never said I’m an “expert” of anything. But I certainly know more shit than most of y’all. And while I’m willing to be fair, I also don’t purposely play dumb or naive like most of y’all. If anything, many of y’all project fantasies on a lot of these dudes instead of accepting the evidence that they may not be good partners or good people or may be flatout a-holes. There are definite signs of user and a-hole to what we’ve seen from Richard. Didn’t say he was certainly a bad person and never justified trying to shame someone into be “out”. But I’m also not about to be in la la land like most of y’all. Then again, many of y’all who post here are fantasy obsessed closet cases who deal with your own resentments.
 
This thread is so funny. People who think he can't be happy because he chooses to keep his sexuality private from the public, and people who think they can tell what kind of person he is due to... body language?
Special people with special abilities...MAGIC...
 
Yup. Because he's seen as "not straight" people feel entitled to know about his life in a way that would never be expected of a straight person.
Yeah becouse the people never talked, talk and will talk about the life of straight famous people : unamused:
There are many straight celebs that also have very private love lifes (even just becouse they married in a moment people realize “oh he/she was dating?”, they current cases of Chris Evans and Henry Cavill are examples about it, even the case of Emma Stone years ago