johnjohnston
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Eh, I was just responding to an on-going back and forth in this thread. And I did so in as nuanced of a way as possible and also without all the naive and coddling bullsh*t. No matter how you frame it, dating guys who are quite a bit younger than you, being with them for years and forcing them to have publicly “in” relationships. Brandon indirectly calling him an asshole. Froy going public with his post Richard relationship with the quickness. None of those things are signs of “contentment” or being a good person or good partner.
It’s fine to support people doing things on their own time and also not trying to force something on anyone. I don’t like anyone feeling forced to share things they don’t want to and many of these public figures offer too much frankly. While you never know people’s dimensions or struggles. But a lot of y’all like playing dumb/naive when it comes to folks you have the hots for. Then you act shocked when certain things are revealed about those people.
It’s fine to support people doing things on their own time and also not trying to force something on anyone. I don’t like anyone feeling forced to share things they don’t want to and many of these public figures offer too much frankly. While you never know people’s dimensions or struggles. But a lot of y’all like playing dumb/naive when it comes to folks you have the hots for. Then you act shocked when certain things are revealed about those people.