Scott Holliday [@hollidaybam]

[gattaromana]

The video with Filou?

 

[gayguy282828]

 

[User0987651234]

Anyone had any issues with buying his content on of? Tipped but not had a reply still

 

[ImNotHereToPost]

 

[ImNotHereToPost]

Breathtaking

 

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[ImNotHereToPost]

 

[Markus.Bittencourt]

He should bottom more

 

[johnjohnston]

Throwback... Now he gay porn Star

Hardly a “star”. Posting a vid on your OnlyFans every some odd months hardly equates to being even a “porn star.” Also, doing gay porn doesn’t mean that you’re comfortable with your queerness. It often just means that you love attention and validation and like getting paid for sex.

These queer-presenting men obsessed with being “masculine” and obsessed with proving how into girls they are are almost never entirely comfortable with their queerness and frequently never will be. Many people still have a ton of biases and ignorance towards any guy who isn’t conventionally “straight”. Then you have the fact that a lot of these guys have been abused or contend with things like mental health struggles, fluidity, contradictions, hyper-sexuality, gay resentments, hetero superiority complexes, masculine insecurities, confusions as far as their place in the gender, sexual, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. All of this stuff is why it’s best to just wank off and wish them well. These guys are almost never gonna be decent “representation.”

 

[Muscleterf54]

Hardly a “star”. Posting a vid on your OnlyFans every some odd months hardly equates to being even a “porn star.” Also, doing gay porn doesn’t mean that you’re comfortable with your queerness. It often just means that you love attention and validation and like getting paid for sex.

These queer-presenting men obsessed with being “masculine” and obsessed with proving how into girls they are are almost never entirely comfortable with their queerness and frequently never will be. Many people still have a ton of biases and ignorance towards any guy who isn’t conventionally “straight”. Then you have the fact that a lot of these guys have been abused or contend with things like mental health struggles, fluidity, contradictions, hyper-sexuality, gay resentments, hetero superiority complexes, masculine insecurities, confusions as far as their place in the gender, sexual, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. All of this stuff is why it’s best to just wank off and wish them well. These guys are almost never gonna be decent “representation.”

Oh my goodness gracious. You don't know much about Scott

FYI, most gay men don't give a shit about all these modern TQ+ nonsense definitions that they invented to try to make cis monosexual people more open minded about dating them. "gender, romantic, sexual, emotion commitment spectrum. What a word salad of meaningless distinctions

 

[johnjohnston]

Oh my goodness gracious. You don't know much about Scott

FYI, most gay men don't give a shit about all these modern TQ+ nonsense definitions that they invented to try to make cis monosexual people more open minded about dating them. "gender, romantic, sexual, emotion commitment spectrum. What a word salad of meaningless distinctions

”Sexuality”, gender expression, romantic dimensions, emotional investment are all a spectrum, at least they tend to be for non “cis monosexual people”. Also, where did I focus on identities? I don’t care about identities. I care about people not preaching dumb shit. While if more people truly educated themselves on queerness and human psychology there would be less ignorant folks like you and there’d be less men constantly promoting masculine insecurities, doing dumb things and saying borderline anti-gay shit like “Scott” has in the past.

 

[Muscleterf54]

”Sexuality”, gender expression, romantic dimensions, emotional investment are all a spectrum, at least they tend to be for non “cis monosexual people”. Also, where did I focus on identities? I don’t care about identities. While if more people truly educated themselves on queerness there would be less ignorant folks like you and there’d be less men constantly promoting masculine insecurities and saying dumb, anti-gay shit like “Scott”.

I do not believe sexuality is a spectrum. I believe you are either born straight, gay, bi or asexual. Everything else is just sub-categories of bisexuality, and so called sexually fluid people are in reality just self-suppressed born bisexuals, who after allowing themselves to explore their sexuality, suddenly likes to speak for everyone else a bit too much! The attempt at making all these meaningless distinctions all so important, is confusing AF for most people, even people within the so called LGBTQ+ community, and overall it is causing more damage than it solves.

 

[johnjohnston]

I do not believe sexuality is a spectrum. I believe you are either born straight, gay, bi or asexual. Everything else is just sub-categories of bisexuality, and so called sexually fluid people are in reality just self-suppressed born bisexuals, who after allowing themselves to explore their sexuality, suddenly likes to speak for everyone else a bit too much! The attempt at making all these meaningless distinctions all so important, is confusing AF for most people, even people within the so called LGBTQ+ community, and overall it is causing more damage than it solves.

Sorry to break it to you. But I’ve experienced degrees of fluidity and so have many others. It is what it is. Things may be simple for you. But a lot of queers who contend with many different things (things such as mental health struggles, fluidity, contradictions, paraphiliacs, hyper-sexuality, little to no libido, internalized phobias, uncertainties about their gender, sexual, romantic, emotion, relationship aspects) have to put in work to really understand themselves and understand how to navigate the world without saying/doing harmful things.

It may be “confusing”. But I’d rather people be entirely honest and things be confusing than us still being so focused on identity politics and sociology and sex. The latter perspective is still leading to a lot of confusion, deception, insecurities and messy/problematic behaviors. And once again, this ain’t about identities or LGBTQA+. I too think the addition of more and more identities was a mistake.

 

[Muscleterf54]

Sorry to break it to you. But I’ve experienced degrees of fluidity and so have many others. It is what it is. Things may be simple for you. But a lot of queers who contend with many different things (things such as mental health struggles, fluidity, contradictions, paraphiliacs, hyper-sexuality, little to no libido, internalized phobias, uncertainties about their gender, sexual, romantic, emotion, relationship aspects) have to put in work to really understand themselves and understand how to navigate the world without saying/doing harmful things.

It may be “confusing”. But I’d rather people be entirely honest and things be confusing than us still being so focused on identity politics and sociology and sex. The latter perspective is still leading to a lot of confusion, deception, insecurities and messy/problematic behaviors. And once again, this ain’t about identities or LGBTQA+. I too think the addition of more and more identities was a mistake.

Of course people can explore themselves, and experience a shift in whatever attracts you, but then they should also accurately classify themselves as bisexual(which there is strong reasons to believe is genetic). Way too much respect is being given to people's own labels. I see guys claiming to be gay who fucks women for pleasure, not money. It is ridiculous, and I will call out anyone who does that! I don't trust in all individual's ability to accurately classify themselves, so if gatekeeping is what it takes, so be it! Also, while trying to understanding yourself, it may also be best to keep that to yourself, and not project your experiences on to others

 

[johnjohnston]

Of course people can explore themselves, and experience a shift in whatever attracts you, but then they should also accurately classify themselves as bisexual(which there is strong reasons to believe is genetic). Way too much respect is being given to people's own labels. I see guys claiming to be gay who fucks women for pleasure, not money. It is ridiculous, and I will call out anyone who does that! I don't trust in all individual's ability to accurately classify themselves, so if gatekeeping is what it takes, so be it! Also, while trying to understanding yourself, it may also be best to keep that to yourself, and not project your experiences on to others

I’m not “projecting”. My original comment was based on a few things he has said and an interview in a podcast he gave.

While yeah, fluidity is a thing. Some people experience an increase or decrease in attractions or arousals or desires towards certain people throughout time. It doesn’t even have to be based on gender. For example, some guys are really into muscles but lose attractions to muscular guys as they get older. Some guys only find themselves attracted to twinks once they’re a bit older. Those things are also forms of “fluidity”. It wouldn’t be a big deal if we didn’t make it a big deal. And yes, some people do lie about experiencing fluidity. And some inherently bi/pan/hetero/homo people who’ve claimed to have experienced fluidity never genuinely have.

I’m not really interested in discussing fluidity. You have your perspective. I have mine. (Though I would caution you to be careful with trying to tell people what their own experiences are). People are weird and individual and got their own journeys. My point is that we shouldn’t idolize sex workers and look to them for “queer representation”. Also, it’s important to confront and educate yourself on things like fluidity, traumas, mental health, masculine insecurities, homo inferiority complexes, queer resentments, and the gender, sexual, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum before yapping off at the mouth and saying problematic shit like “Scott” (and also like you kinda) did. That’s all I have to say about this. I’m not interested in this back and forth taking over the thread.

 

[ImNotHereToPost]

Sit down n shut up

 

[ImNotHereToPost]

Waiting at the bedroom door

 

[johnjohnston]

Just to be clear my initial post was responding to someone who was insinuating that because he’s been in a lot of recent videos getting it on with men that must mean he’s fully embraced his queerness and is comfortable with it. The dude felt the need to post a video talking about why he’s no longer “bi” and then later talked about how he wasn’t open to dating women previously because he once hated women. The guy clearly has been through some struggles with traumas, mental health, insecurities, how he relates to men and women, and maybe some issues with fluidity, contradictions, hyper-sexuality, uncertainties around the gender, sexual, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum.

My original point was suggesting that just because he’s now been in a lot of videos getting it on with guys doesn’t really mean he’s eradicated internalized phobias or gay resentments or masculine insecurities or that a lot of his general issues have been resolved. Being “out” and/or having sex with tons of guys doesn’t mean any of that. And we’ve seen enough mess from male porn performers throughout the years to know this. But I do wish him well.

 

[ImNotHereToPost]

Move ur hand to the left...

 

[nubodybuilder]

so hot