Sex Life During Pregnancy

[Nudist_Mama_97]

Anyone ever have this dilemma. I'm expecting and, contrary to what I thought, my sex drive has gone up a lot. I've always been a very sexual person, but I'm in the mood way more than usual.

The catch? My husband is working overseas a lot and our sex life has dwindled to almost nothing. Surprisingly, I've been flirted with and hit on by men since getting pregnant, which I didn't expect. With my sex life needing a boost, I'm almost tempted to take some of them up on their offers.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

This takes me to a very dark place, and I'm already in a dark place.

Yeah. I'm gonna avoid Penisville for awhile. I'll be back. Not sure when.

Too much.

 

[MickeyLee]

Yeah, with child is a great time to consider infidelity.

I give you props for being a new twist on an old theme.

 

[Evenflow618]

Anyone ever have this dilemma. I'm expecting and, contrary to what I thought, my sex drive has gone up a lot. I've always been a very sexual person, but I'm in the mood way more than usual.

The catch? My husband is working overseas a lot and our sex life has dwindled to almost nothing. Surprisingly, I've been flirted with and hit on by men since getting pregnant, which I didn't expect. With my sex life needing a boost, I'm almost tempted to take some of them up on their offers.

Don’t do it. Stick with the masturbating it’s not worth it to cheat especially pregnant.

 

[EllieP]

I got pregnant on our honeymoon. Once he found out I was never touched until after I gave birth, and then only sparingly. Thankfully.

It seems I was the only one going without sex during the pregnancy. I finally got the courage to split. Neither of us ever saw him again.

Yes, my sex drive was very high especially during the third trimester when I was big as a house. But I never got hit on. I doubt I would have been tempted even if I knew he had been cheating.

I don't know your current marriage relationship, but why risk it?

 

[Sagittarius84]

Anyone ever have this dilemma. I'm expecting and, contrary to what I thought, my sex drive has gone up a lot. I've always been a very sexual person, but I'm in the mood way more than usual.

The catch? My husband is working overseas a lot and our sex life has dwindled to almost nothing. Surprisingly, I've been flirted with and hit on by men since getting pregnant, which I didn't expect. With my sex life needing a boost, I'm almost tempted to take some of them up on their offers.

So...the dilemma is whether or not you seek to ruin your family, emasculate your husband and have him question paternity?
You know what really reveals the selfishness here? At least some women in this situation would upfront offer their husband a hall pass. Not that I applaud them, because it's usually only to satiate their own consciences for actions they have done or about to engage in, but I at least respect the offer, OP, I strongly suspect for all the temptation you struggle with, you'd have a really averse reaction to him partaking in infidelity or even putting himself in situation where it is freely offered to him...
So if you think your ego can take it, 1st arrange a hall pass for your husband. Find an escort or some girl near his location via a dating app, and let him partake of a non monogamous tryst before you do anything, then go ahead and succumb to your tempations...although I seriously doubt you'll be anywhere near as tempted to dabble then.

 

[Marriedinkansas]

Anyone ever have this dilemma. I'm expecting and, contrary to what I thought, my sex drive has gone up a lot. I've always been a very sexual person, but I'm in the mood way more than usual.

The catch? My husband is working overseas a lot and our sex life has dwindled to almost nothing. Surprisingly, I've been flirted with and hit on by men since getting pregnant, which I didn't expect. With my sex life needing a boost, I'm almost tempted to take some of them up on their offers.

My wife's sex drive always increased greatly during each of her 3 pregnancies. Closer to her due date the hornier she got. And her inhibitions dropped too. Fun times! And I'm not surprised guys are hitting on you, manyen find pregnant women very attractive and quite erotic,myself included

 

[Nudist_Mama_97]

Some people took what I said too literally. Tempted isn't the same as 'I'm going to '. I was looking for people with similar experiences. That's it.

 

[Nudist_Mama_97]

Yeah, with child is a great time to consider infidelity.

I give you props for being a new twist on an old theme.

I never said I was going to. I wanted to know if others had a similar experience.

 

[MickeyLee]

Note the second part of my post...

I give you props for being a new twist on an old theme.

This was the main gist of my post.

 

[Sagittarius84]

I never said I was going to. I wanted to know if others had a similar experience.

So why would you use the term dilemma? If there's no intention to follow through why would that have to be a hard decision to make. Perhaps your morality center has kicked in now that you've gotten responses, but I strongly suspect you were being more honest than you intended with OP.
Anybody with 2 brain cells can deduce, that in a sexually based forum you can't throw a rock without hitting someone with a similar sexual situation...so perhaps you're trying to talk yourself out of it/ into it by hearing other people's experiences, I don't know...

 

[Nudist_Mama_97]

So why would you use the term dilemma? If there's no intention to follow through why would that have to be a hard decision to make. Perhaps your morality center has kicked in now that you've gotten responses, but I strongly suspect you were being more honest than you intended with OP.
Anybody with 2 brain cells can deduce, that in a sexually based forum you can't throw a rock without hitting someone with a similar sexual situation...so perhaps you're trying to talk yourself out of it/ into it by hearing other people's experiences, I don't know...

So dramatic. Dilemma=I'm hornier than ever and can't have sex like I want.

 

[Sagittarius84]

So dramatic. Dilemma=I'm hornier than ever and can't have sex like I want.

Semantic actually. "I'm hornier than ever and can't have sex like I want without crossing a moral boundary", implies the dilemma exists only because you're not totally opposed to crossing said boundary. I'll take you for your word now, but I would just caution, especially in your tumultuous and vulnerable state, that you not forget that words have power and are revealing of one's intentions whether they are consciously aware of it or not.

 

[AllieHeidi]

Anyone ever have this dilemma. I'm expecting and, contrary to what I thought, my sex drive has gone up a lot. I've always been a very sexual person, but I'm in the mood way more than usual.

The catch? My husband is working overseas a lot and our sex life has dwindled to almost nothing. Surprisingly, I've been flirted with and hit on by men since getting pregnant, which I didn't expect. With my sex life needing a boost, I'm almost tempted to take some of them up on their offers.

Are you looking for advice about something specific or just looking to exchange stories for casual entertainment and socialization? Because I thought it was already well-established that most women experience a libido spike at some point during pregnancy (usually by the 3rd trimester) due to hormones. So, obviously, other women have experienced this.

If your husband is currently indisposed at the moment just self-stimulate until he returns. Don't cheat. Especially not while carrying his child.

 

[VIIby5]

This seems to be common. My wife was quite a bit more amorous . We continued having sex until she really started showing.

 

[EllieP]

This seems to be common. My wife was quite a bit more amorous . We continued having sex until she really started showing.

Why did you stop when she started showing?

 

[Subzero45]

Girl. Get the dick you want. Some (like me) find pregnant women especially attractive. It sounds like it’s purely physical. If he’s away, and can’t deliver, you have needs. Does he even have to know? Have you had a discussion about being open?

 

[AllieHeidi]

Girl. Get the dick you want. Some (like me) find pregnant women especially attractive. It sounds like it’s purely physical. If he’s away, and can’t deliver, you have needs. Does he even have to know? Have you had a discussion about being open?

Please be joking.

 

[LaFemme]

Please be joking.

I fear he’s not. Not that pregnant women can’t be sexy, and it’s not that men can’t find pregnancy sexy. It’s just that during that time, bonding between partners is important.

Whatever. I always hope for the best in people, but…well, at least hope is eternal.

 

[Subzero45]

Please be joking.

I’m not joking. I’m speaking from experience.

Trust and communication are more important than monogamy.