The bi closet, so to speak...

[thongboy]

By the time I was 18 I knew I liked fooling around with my buddies, but I'd also learned that that the way my cock felt when it slid into a wet pussy was awesome too.
I feel I'm lucky to have been able to accept this situation. I have a gf who's also bi, and it's an open relationship. And because we're both bi, we do a lot of MMF weekends. But I think what's most important is that we have no secrets from each other. I was always truthful with earlier girlfriends I was fucking — if things were getting serious I always told them I liked guys too so they could decide for themselves whether they still wanted to see me. I feel sorry for guys or girls who are unable to reveal their "other" side to their partners

 

[Sagittarius84]

I feel sorry for guys or girls who are unable to reveal their "other" side to their partners

I used to, well the guys at least, I tend to think girls are literally their only own obstruction when it comes to appreciation of a man accepting/embracing their "other" side, wherein guys' "normal" is more often than not is going to be selected against....
But more and more I see mens willingness to both lie and not hold up the façade, as opposed to simply being honest and facing rejection, or at the very least holding to the standard they purported in the first place and not trying to offload their burden unto anyone else....the less and less I can respect it...even if I understand why.

 

[KaloVisor]

I sort of came out as gay to my family about 10 years ago but not really by choice and that ended by disaster. So I do sympathize with you. I have felt attraction for women and even had a relationship with one once, so I would consider myself at least somewhat bi-sexual.

I've never actually had sex with a woman, so maybe I would like it more than I think?

I would say if you are bi, it is good to have a relationship with someone who is open and accepting of people like that, even if you never act on, it because you are already in a happy relationship.

but coming out can be bad, but if she really won't love you just because you have some attraction for both sexes, she may not be the right one, but I would do whatever you think is best for you.

also, being gay or bi does not mean partying and having sex with 100s of people. I've had sex like 5 times last year bc I am single (talking to someone now actually) and really only hook up as a last resort and I never go to bars and only drink socially with my friends (like 1 or 2 beers). so that is a bit of a misconception about the LGBT community

 

[meatonastick]

I can tell you from experience I am an unintentional homewrecker, I met a married guy that was into hiking, camping, canoeing etc, and two guys in a tent one thing leads to another. I just thought it was some casual fuck buddy, but he was catching feelings and for some reason talked to his wife about it and she wanted a divorce, and I didn't want a relationship, and it was a mess. Nice guy I feel bad for wrecking his life.

 

[Mrwiz2121]

I can tell you from experience I am an unintentional homewrecker, I met a married guy that was into hiking, camping, canoeing etc, and two guys in a tent one thing leads to another. I just thought it was some casual fuck buddy, but he was catching feelings and for some reason talked to his wife about it and she wanted a divorce, and I didn't want a relationship, and it was a mess. Nice guy I feel bad for wrecking his life.

Maybe should have told him before you had sex with him you don't want anything more then sex

 

[meatonastick]

Maybe should have told him before you had sex with him you don't want anything more then sex

well maybe but he was married, and just assumed there wasn't more to it than fucking in the great outdoors.

 

[Mrwiz2121]

well maybe but he was married, and just assumed there wasn't more to it than fucking in the great outdoors.

I know this is a cheeky question but how was he sexual?

 

[i-feel-fantastic]

I can tell you from experience I am an unintentional homewrecker, I met a married guy that was into hiking, camping, canoeing etc, and two guys in a tent one thing leads to another. I just thought it was some casual fuck buddy, but he was catching feelings and for some reason talked to his wife about it and she wanted a divorce, and I didn't want a relationship, and it was a mess. Nice guy I feel bad for wrecking his life.

You didn’t wreck his life. He wrecked his own life. He’s the one that chose to have an affair. You didn’t force him into anything.

 

[meatonastick]

You didn’t wreck his life. He wrecked his own life. He’s the one that chose to have an affair. You didn’t force him into anything.

Its in the past, water under the bridge, honestly I think things worked out really well for him, he has a really nice husband and lives in Portland, which is very him. He seems more full of life now than he did way back when, its nice to see him happy on insta.