Sexual Dreams

[odave]

I’m a bi man with a long time female partner. I love sex with both men and women pretty equally, with an increasing preference for men. I’ve noticed that all my sexual dreams lately are 100% gay, whereas in the past they would vary—sometimes involving women, sometimes men, sometimes both.

I’m curious about other bi guys’ sexual dreams. Are they more gay? Or more straight?

 

[deleted1371933]

Depends on the phase I’m in. Lately it’s been men but we have been having fun with guys but a couple months ago it was girls. Seems to tends to what we are in the mood for.

 

[halcyondays]

My sex dreams were 100% straight until I had sex with a guy for the first time at 22 and with a few more guys not long after that. For a short while my dreams were 100% gay which caused a gay crisis--you know--the age old question "am I straight or am I gay?" For a couple days I made plans to come out as gay but before I could do it the straight sex dreams returned in force.

What happened is that repressing the reality of my same sex attractions made my sex dreams go 100% gay. Once I admitted I was gay I stopped repressing it and my dreams returned to a mix of straight and gay. Over the last 40 years my sex dreams have continued to run 90% straight 10% gay overall.

Dreams do this. They correct imbalance caused by repression to restore the psyche to its own natural balance. That might be what's happening to you.

That said @Richiecable may also be right: you're currently in a period of time where you're more attracted to men than women. Those happen to me too.

You could also be in a phase where you are repressing same sex attraction and your psyche is reminding you who you really are. Those also happen to me.

Your call.

 

[johnweek1]

My dreams are a pretty even mix of straight and gay. Though as far as I can remember, anytime my dream is gay I am sucking dick. Any time my dream is straight I am fucking the pussy of a hot girl.

So like, gay dreams I am the giver. Straight dreams I am the receiver. No idea why, dreams do what dreams do I guess.

 

[goldscorpguy]

I very rarely have a sexual dream of any kind. Considering I spend most of my waking hours either thinking of, fantasising about and (if I'm lucky) even occasionally having sex, I find it frustrating sometimes that I don't dream about it. I even go off to sleep listening to one of those sex hypnosis tapes and still no dreams. I'd love the occasional vivid dream-time fuck, straight or gay.

 

[deleted19462351]

A bit of both I'd say, though they start pretty mild and get very raunchy along the way (like this when we started kissing and cuddling in the sofa to me fucking his ass while he was eating some girl's pussy)

 

[bigboaster]

I very rarely have a sexual dream of any kind. Considering I spend most of my waking hours either thinking of, fantasising about and (if I'm lucky) even occasionally having sex, I find it frustrating sometimes that I don't dream about it. I even go off to sleep listening to one of those sex hypnosis tapes and still no dreams. I'd love the occasional vivid dream-time fuck, straight or gay.

This is pretty close to me experience tbh. I have a very high sex drive but I rarely if ever have a wet dream of any kind. But that could be in part to me having sexual thoughts so often while awake to begin with Hahaha

And this sexual thoughts vary wildly between men or women depends on the mood tbh or what media I recently watched that had an attractive man/woman in it.

 

[latinluva]

I have all kinds of sexual dreams, I love the ones that involve my Wife getting fucked by other guys!

 

[bi2]

Ive had a few MFM dreams, probably because I have never experienced it before.

Its something I would love to try and its been played in my subconcious.

Ive had a MMM threesome and it was a wild ride for sure. It felt like a dream too, as I partied hard with my fuckbuddy and his mate as they openly spiked my drinks (I consented to everything beforehand) and then took turns on me. Waking up sleeping in the middle of them soaked in their juices from head to toe, inside and out, on a warm Sunday morning is one of the greatest sexual experiences of my life.

 

[mrbigdoc]

My dreams have changes as I have aged. But I still have sexual dreams with both male and female but now I seem to dream much more about sex with guys. I certainly enjoy them and its amazing at times when they stay with me throughout the day as if it really happened. I dig it......