Signs that someone is intrested in communal shower/locker room/urinals.

[deleted26343771]

What are some sign's you have noticed that a dude, gay or straight (if you see any differences) is intrested in sexual activitie's, if they want to show off or compare? to give a blowjob or whatever els. Have you seen any repeated behavior that you can tell someone is intrested/into you. How do you react to someone showing off? Is it clear if they do if for arousel vs just regular bathroom/locker room/communal shower behavior.

I am 24 year's old. I am into alittle older men or same age. But everyone is free to discuss and comment.

 

[horny_refugee]

A key element is confidence in one's naked body and ease in interacting with other naked people. This will make you approachable. Those interested are going to make obvious comments about your body or certain parts of your body. If you respond in similar manner, they may be emboldened to act more.
I had someone comment they noticed I had a partial erection. I noticed his and said he could get me harder. He got under the shower next to me and started stroking me. I began doing the same for him. It didn't take us long to nut.
You gotta be a little bold if you really want it.

 

[Robert Dole]

The usual glance and look away, and again, maybe a bit of prolonged eye contact, touching himself in a sexual way. If you respond to these sort of things and he responds back, there's a good chance.

 

[ILoveGames48]

I like the guys that keep staring .. that don’t care letting me know they wanna watch .. so I usually turn toward them a little let them get a better look.. if they turn then more than likely not interested.. but some will still look.. even look around and reach over and hold your dick as you continue pissing

 

[ILoveGames48]

I tell you what fun to do .. walk into the men’s room both hands wrapped in bandages tell them your girlfriend can’t help you and see what happens

 

[jjcurious30]

yeah, I think it's about quick glances at each other's bodies and making eye contact. maybe a bit of parroting... e.g. tug your cock and see if he tugs his back as an 'answer'.

 

[ILoveGames48]

Some people will ask how can someone into urinals and stuff..

For most part they do it out of curiousity and the other is probably did stuff like that thinking it’s normal thing to do .. tried it and like it

 

[User101823]

I think it’s mostly eye contact— whether repeated glances, or longer stares. All of my successes in communal showers have started one of those two ways. You do have to be somewhat bold to make it happen, especially if you are the one who wants to initiate.

 

[ILoveGames48]

Well .. there is times the guy will get upset that’s just normal .. sometimes they will punch you in the stomach or face say what are you looking at at f@g.. that’s happened couple times..

One time it happened a guy was pissing steps closer to me asked if I was alright.. I was like oh yeah I’m fine..and he finishes pissing turned toward me saying” it’s awful how guys react when another guy is watching him piss””— he lets me see his cock and his balls as he pissed ..

So getting punched became a good thing

 

[mistercheeky]

I think it’s mostly eye contact— whether repeated glances, or longer stares. All of my successes in communal showers have started one of those two ways. You do have to be somewhat bold to make it happen, especially if you are the one who wants to initiate.

I chatted with a guy about this subject once. His strategy -- as a guy who mostly wanted to be looked at -- was to get a little chubbed up (but not enough to appear hard) before getting in the showers. Then he'd really move his cock around a lot. Lots of hand work down there washing it very throughly to draw attention to it. He said a lot of times that would bring some curious eyes to it.

 

[deleted25372661]

If you keep looking at each other, thats your sign. I am a decade older than you and cruising is dying. There were specific rules for exactly what you are asking.

 

[Max Well]

It depends if you want quick fun or a gym buddy with benefits.
I occasionally saw a fit guy showering naked or drying off at his locker at my local gym. I also had a few naked showers and checked my self in the mirror. After a few weeks I saw different guys working out showering or doing the cardio classes. One time a guy spotted weights for me and we got chatting, later we finished working out and we took a shower at the same time. He had also checked me out showering previously and once he was naked I remembered him also. We had a nice summer working out, hanging out and skinny-dipping in his pool...

 

[deleted26868111]

I got a note with phone number once in my locker after a guy gave me a full look over while I was showering. That was a pretty easy sign to interpret.

 

[Robert Dole]

I like the guys that keep staring .. that don’t care letting me know they wanna watch .. so I usually turn toward them a little let them get a better look.. if they turn then more than likely not interested.. but some will still look.. even look around and reach over and hold your dick as you continue pissing

I love doing this when I'm at the beach- if he is obviously looking I'll start to look too and see how he responds until I'm sure he is interested, then maybe rub my crotch and watch for his reaction...

 

[silahis90210]

Well .. there is times the guy will get upset that’s just normal .. sometimes they will punch you in the stomach or face say what are you looking at at f@g.. that’s happened couple times..

One time it happened a guy was pissing steps closer to me asked if I was alright.. I was like oh yeah I’m fine..and he finishes pissing turned toward me saying” it’s awful how guys react when another guy is watching him piss””— he lets me see his cock and his balls as he pissed ..

So getting punched became a good thing

Who got punched?

 

[ILoveGames48]

I’ve gotten punched few times..

 

[silahis90210]

I’ve gotten punched few times..

Perhaps you were to obvious in doing the deed? Haha.

 

[silahis90210]

I got a note with phone number once in my locker after a guy gave me a full look over while I was showering. That was a pretty easy sign to interpret.

I just love it when they are straightforward.

 

[ILoveGames48]

Perhaps you were to obvious in doing the deed? Haha.

I was to obvious.. I didn’t care if the guy saw me looking or not..

 

[silahis90210]

I was to obvious.. I didn’t care if the guy saw me looking or not..

That will explain why you get punched. It will be safer to recommend glancing a couple of times and see the guy's reaction if he either shows it even more or moves further into the urinal indicating he's hiding it. If it's the former, you can go ahead and ogle like crazy. Haha.