Size preference, length, girth discussions

When growing up (not a pun)/developing I was very worried about my shape/variation in girth/circumference as it was so different from the rest of the boys, in my all boy's school, when we played those 'silly' comparison games.
At rest I am a fairly constant circumference, except for the head which is bigger than the rest of the shaft, with a long foreskin which completely covers the head.
As I become fully aroused the circumferences change - around the rim of the now completely uncovered head & shaft 5.75 ", behind the head 5.5"; mid shaft 6"; around base 6.5" ..... this causes a 'curved shape' to the underside whilst being virtually straight on the top.
All my partners have had some previous experience - some have initially been able to 'take' and 'enjoy' me to mid-shaft, in most positions; some have been able to 'take' and 'enjoy' my full length/circumference from the start in all positions Those who initially found anything more than mid-shaft a 'tight fit' very quickly adapted to and 'enjoyed' my full shaft, taking a little longer to 'enjoy' the normally tighter fitting doggy position.
I have one partner, a FWBs, who had four children over a five year period, who gets the most enjoyable sensations from full, 'balls deep' penetration, in the tighter fitting positions.
A partner, a gynecology nurse, described my erect penis as "a natural dilator".
It shouldn't need saying, although from some post it might, but the surest way for mutually enjoyable sex, with any sized cock, be it circumference/girth, or & length, is to be guided by your partners reactions to those things.
 

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That’s true. It’s a sensitive and intense topic but it’s also something we must talk about to make sure we communicate about it, share thoughts which are important. My mental health got really bad after a few years overdoing and overthinking sex so I got really confused about emotionally what do I think of my size, shape, its popularity, etc.
There are woman who care but if they do...fuck them move on to the next if possible. It sucks when you're young not feeling like you can please ALL woman. It is WHAT UT IS. Lol. Let it go I'm still trying to sometimes. Pump your penis there is no shame man.
 
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Ok, I’m going to admit this may have been said already, but I didn’t read every single comment. According to most sources, 4.5-5” girth is the average. I myself am 4.5” around and have been with a decent amount of women. One said I was thick, 4 have made comments on how small I am (I’m really short 3.5-3.75 “ long) and over 20 have said neither a positive or negative about it. Most women it isn’t as big of a deal unless it is super small, or massive. Even with me being overall very small, most didn’t care enough to say anything, or let it inhibit our relationship. One was even one of the hottest female trainers at the gym and a FWB for awhile, so she obviously didn’t care about size all that much. It’s like anything else, some dudes like import cars, some like muscle cars, some like trucks, some are lovers of all vehicles and some don’t even like cars. Women are the same way with men’s penises. Some like long and thick, some long and thin, some short and fat, some even like short and thin, some like average and some don’t even like dicks.
 
I really don't know where I fall in the ranks. I've always just been happy with what I am. I'm 8" in girth, and my mushroom head swells to 9". I'm told that makes things a tight but pleasurable fit....
 

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I’m 7 3/4x5 with a huge head (2in wide 5 3/4 around) and I guess statistically, especially length is big and girth is at worst avg, had bad small penis syndrome when I was a teen/young adult, and even with all the info I have now still feel average at absolute best, I guess it’s bc of my girth which ik isn’t skinny and one of the few girls who saw it in HS said I was thick but I still feel thin and overall small, my head size doesn’t help thickness in pictures as the 2nd pic shows, I guess we will all want more no matter what we got but an inch in L and G is what it would take for me to accept I’m big. And thanks to all the awesome ppl in this community that are open and cool with penis discussions, it helps more men than you realize
 

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I’m 7 3/4x5 with a huge head (2in wide 5 3/4 around) and I guess statistically, especially length is big and girth is at worst avg, had bad small penis syndrome when I was a teen/young adult, and even with all the info I have now still feel average at absolute best, I guess it’s bc of my girth which ik isn’t skinny and one of the few girls who saw it in HS said I was thick but I still feel thin and overall small, my head size doesn’t help thickness in pictures as the 2nd pic shows, I guess we will all want more no matter what we got but an inch in L and G is what it would take for me to accept I’m big. And thanks to all the awesome ppl in this community that are open and cool with penis discussions, it helps more men than you realize
Your cock is not small or average... it is definitely entering big territory! That head would feel amazing! Sucking that knob would be a dream! Feeling it thrusting would be so stimulating!
 
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Count your blessings, dude. BTW, the upper part of your shaft looks a lot thicker than 4 1/2 inches. It looks well above average.
4 1/2 inches girth or circumference is plenty. It is more than enough to fill up one's mouth and throat or open their anus. Be proud of it man. 4 1/2 is great!
 
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Mine has gotten thinner over the last few years. I was 4.5" mid shaft before and now at 60 years old am closer to 4.3. Not a trend i want to continue!

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Anyone else have their dick LOSE girth?
 
Mine has gotten thinner over the last few years. I was 4.5" mid shaft before and now at 60 years old am closer to 4.3. Not a trend i want to continue!

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Anyone else have their dick LOSE girth?
Try doing squeezes or I believe it is also called ballooning. You basically grip your shaft at the base and just below the head and squeeze. Hold for about 30 to 60 seconds and release. Dont grip too hard at first though. Then repeat. Preferably after warming it up. I notice my girth seems to be bigger for a close to a day or so. It can affect your EQ if your not used to it though.
 
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