Size preference, length, girth discussions

[michaelS1234]

Standard size is 6.7x6 over here. I can get to 6.8something, but the girth remains the same. Same issues as the other fellas with big girth - it kinda messes up with the length and the whole perspective, but I'm happy with what I have. For a long time I've measured myself in a wrong way and I actually downsized myself by miles while measuring the girth. First time I thought it was just about 5.2 inches, so it's easy to imagine that I was shocked when I found out the real girth.
Also, finding out the real size really put things into perspective for me: finding out that 6" is a no-no for most of the girls (I'm talking about the usual ones, with a low number of partners and who never met a dick thick like that), it actually solved some of the encounters I've had, such as the problem with blowjobs, with penetration, with pain and insertion and such. Really happy with my size, to be fair.

 

[skinny69.0111]

Okay... I have been following the thread "is 5" girth too small" and it drives me to ask, what about a girth of 4.5"?

Mine is just a hair of a fraction below 4.5" around. I know it is thinner than average with my length being 6"... easily 6.5" bone pressed. I know I don't fill or stretch a woman as larger men can.

I also know this is a LARGE penis support site, but it got me curious in the other thread hearing some of you ladies measuring your vibes and surprisingly finding them 4.5 or even 4" around in girth. An erection doesn't have batteries or intense vibrations to offer so is the physical size comparison even relevant for a cock?

Anyway, what are your honest thoughts of a cock only 4.5" around?

I like really thin, long and circumcised.

 

[skinny69.0111]

I prefer 5 inch, cut ant thin. Me, I'm, 6.5, cut and thick.

 

[masonjames]

8.5 inch hard 6 inch girth

Best of both choices. Lucky man

 

[Rewardheragain148]

What’s the best size between 8” nbpel - 9”nbpel?

Is 8.5” nbpel better than 9”nbpel?

Some say 9” nbpel isn’t practical.

 

[HMS]

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Well, this is my 5.1 inches/13 cm semi hanged flaccid state cock

 

[MCA]

 

[Tigermike]

At that size I would hope you get pretty hard. And upward curve would also help. A floppy thin dick is a drag.

You are also correct that a group for large penises is probably not the right place to go if you need to boost your confidence in this area.

Tell me what upward curve does? Mine has downward curve and I always wanted to know difference!

 

[deleted1177572]

Hmmm. If I were forced to choose, I would pick length over girth. For me, it is more about the attractiveness of the cock. I prefer one that is straight, an upward curve is fine, not too veiny, a girth/length ratio that is aesthetically pleasing, a head that isn't overly big relative to the girth, nicely shaped head, a thick base is hot, and I love the cocks that are well defined with a urethra that is clearly delineated.... I know, weird. As far as size, 6.5-7.0 in length is ideal and for girth around 5.0-5.25. I am 4.5 in girth and the length at the max is 5.5 but is usually less, 5.0 to 5.25. One thing I find funny is when guys go with 6.3, 6.4, etc. I am not aware of any rulers with .1, 2, .3, .4, .6, .7, .8 or .9.

 

[TinyPrincess]

One thing I find funny is when guys go with 6.3, 6.4, etc. I am not aware of any rulers with .1, 2, .3, .4, .6, .7, .8 or .9.

The US is one of only three countries not using the metric system, so you really should expect a lot of conversions to make it easier for you.

 

[deleted1177572]

The US is one of only three countries not using the metric system, so you really should expect a lot of conversions to make it easier for you.

Oh, that makes sense, thank you. A number of these people were in the US, though, but would explain individuals from other countries. I also see people place the dollar sign after the dollar amount and the use of commas between dollars and cents.

 

[cuckboy]

8.5 inch hard 6 inch girth

OMG

 

[JosefK]

Im 7"(BPEL) with a 5" mid girth. A little thicker at the base though. For the most part it seems to get in the right places for my wife. She has cul de sac/ deep spot orgasms when im in real deep. G spot or clitoral when im not. Unfortunately they dont come as easily as either of us like. If I was in the neighborhood of 8x6 I don't think I would have that problem as much.

I think my main problem is my girth leaves something to be desired for most women. Possibly adequate but not optimum. At least based on everything I have read. I.e.- "girth is king", " length is for show" "women like a good stretch" , etc, plus her reaction the few times we had sex after my dick was pumped up a bit.

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try using a cockring to maintain your girth while with your partner

 

[bauer]

healty

 

[freak3001]

Anyone can help? I have this white color on the foreskin since a week. Do anyone of you know what this could be?

 

[OllieOver9]

 

[sodo]

8.5 inch hard 6 inch girth

How much fillers have you had added to that?

 

[Sailingbear]

Too much girth can be a problem just like too long can. I have a 6.5 in girth, and have had a good number who think it's too big for oral and vaginal sex.

 

[tall_handsome35]

At that size I would hope you get pretty hard. And upward curve would also help. A floppy thin dick is a drag.

You are also correct that a group for large penises is probably not the right place to go if you need to boost your confidence in this area.

That’s true. It’s a sensitive and intense topic but it’s also something we must talk about to make sure we communicate about it, share thoughts which are important. My mental health got really bad after a few years overdoing and overthinking sex so I got really confused about emotionally what do I think of my size, shape, its popularity, etc.

 

[SmallDguy]

My size same as your but i hv upward curve. My exes never had a problem with mine, they love it. I also enjoyed sex with them. But with my current gf, im not really enjoyed it everytime. Lets say, with my exes, they often cum but with my current gf not really. Her excuse was cause she's really hard to cum even with her exes. Well, i dunno wether she's saying the truth or just wanna comfront me.

My exes body type either tall and skinny or a bit shorter but chubby. My current gf, is quite big and tall. So, probably there's a relation btween body type and vagina's size ? U probably need to explore more girl bro. Your gf probably has a big pussy and too big for your dick. ‍

Yes man! Fucking this. I mentioned that sometimes a woman will have a bigger pussy for an average or smaller guy. In that case I would say explore see what is YOUR sweet spot. I see alot of men with my mentality back then. I get that worrying if it's enough for her means you care but if you're not feeling much like me when you penetrate I think it's okay to explore. I stated something similar in another thread and someone sent me pm asking if I would consider letting large men pleasure my lover. Nope. Not a simp. As far as size goes if your truly worried about girth ffs just pump that sucker up a bit with a pump. It's a way of coping but it works.