Small guys, tell us about your small dick problems (mild sph)

tbh I never really had an issue with my size until late high school. I considered myself average: soft I'm 3.1 inch (8cm) / erect 4.3 inch (11.5cm)... WRONG. Imagine my face when Google told me that the average cock size in Colombia is +6" :skull: Definitely didn't get those gene.

I started to watch more amateur porn and nudes on Tumblr and began comparing myself with them. Like, most of their cocks looked pretty similar to mine when they were soft, but erect, seemed like they were doubling or even tripling their size... unlike me, barely growing +1"

I payed more attention to my mates' and friends' bulges/vpl in the locker room, noticing that some had a big package there. I've always been a tight briefs guy, so the bulge barely showed.

When I moved to LA I dated a huge guy, a BWC +8". He was into being quite dominant and he was the one who started mocking the size of my dick, which I started to enjoy hahaa and that's when I got into the world of SPH, worshipping, and more, but that's another story :p

Anyway, having a "cock" the size of an old iPhone 4, considering I'm 6.2ft tall, sucks... bc now I wanna be even smaller haha
 

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tbh I never really had an issue with my size until late high school. I considered myself average: soft I'm 3.1 inch (8cm) / erect 4.3 inch (11.5cm)... WRONG. Imagine my face when Google told me that the average cock size in Colombia is +6" :skull: Definitely didn't get those gene.

I started to watch more amateur porn and nudes on Tumblr and began comparing myself with them. Like, most of their cocks looked pretty similar to mine when they were soft, but erect, seemed like they were doubling or even tripling their size... unlike me, barely growing +1"

I payed more attention to my mates' and friends' bulges/vpl in the locker room, noticing that some had a big package there. I've always been a tight briefs guy, so the bulge barely showed.

When I moved to LA I dated a huge guy, a BWC +8". He was into being quite dominant and he was the one who started mocking the size of my dick, which I started to enjoy hahaa and that's when I got into the world of SPH, worshipping, and more, but that's another story :p

Anyway, having a "cock" the size of an old iPhone 4, considering I'm 6.2ft tall, sucks... bc now I wanna be even smaller haha
That phone is definitely bigger than your cock, you’re holding it wrong to try and look as big as it
 
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6' 2" 225 LBS, football player lineman build, huge hands and size 15 EEEE feet...and a small dick. Have had a number of comments about how my dick does not measure up...especially given the size of my body. Some are fine with it and some not....have had people walk out on me.
 
6' 2" 225 LBS, football player lineman build, huge hands and size 15 EEEE feet...and a small dick. Have had a number of comments about how my dick does not measure up...especially given the size of my body. Some are fine with it and some not....have had people walk out on me.
Sad that people have done that to you.
It’s not your fault.
 
I've always been fascinated by men with small penises. I am not enormous but well above average (7"x5.75") so I don't know what it's like to be small. I love talking to and getting to know guys with small dicks. I'm even a mod at r/gay_sph and I do like to give some humiliation to guys that get off from it. It's really confusing to me though. I'm extremely attracted by tiny nubbins yet I can be extremely cruel and come up with hilarious remarks. The guys love it when I call it a cocktail weiner or a toddler cock. There is so much cognitive dissonance there for me and I can't understand it. Both I and the unhung get turned on by me humiliating them. Maybe it's because we both know I don't mean it. Maybe it's because any attention is still attention that they crave. Monster dongs get all the attention so maybe they feel special even from negative attention. I don't know, trying to make some sense of it. If you read my whole post, sorry to bore you but making a post helps me to order my thoughts and make sense of things that are confusing.
 
6' 2" 225 LBS, football player lineman build, huge hands and size 15 EEEE feet...and a small dick. Have had a number of comments about how my dick does not measure up...especially given the size of my body. Some are fine with it and some not....have had people walk out on me.
The “people” that walk out on you are not worth your time, or the ability to diminish your self esteem. It sounds like you have a lot to offer. Old quote: “It’s not the size of the ship that counts. It’s the motion in the ocean.” That, and how you cleverly and successfully navigate the ship to the pleasure of those on board. A 6’2” dick needs to be seen in proportion. You have more than you think, and all that you need. Believe in yourself. Go put smiles on worthwhile people. You have a lot to offer.
 
6' 2" 225 LBS, football player lineman build, huge hands and size 15 EEEE feet...and a small dick. Have had a number of comments about how my dick does not measure up...especially given the size of my body. Some are fine with it and some not....have had people walk out on me.
People have walked out on me and I am large. I have had women tell me they wouldn't date me because my nose is too big. Rejection is something we all experience.
 
The “people” that walk out on you are not worth your time, or the ability to diminish your self esteem. It sounds like you have a lot to offer. Old quote: “It’s not the size of the ship that counts. It’s the motion in the ocean.” That, and how you cleverly and successfully navigate the ship to the pleasure of those on board. A 6’2” dick needs to be seen in proportion. You have more than you think, and all that you need. Believe in yourself. Go put smiles on worthwhile people. You have a lot to offer.
“It’s not the size of the ship that counts. It’s the motion in the ocean.”
that's a great variation of "it's not the size that matters, its how you use it"
 
Never had a woman who's been brutal and humiliating about it. I've found it's a lot more subtle. I've had woman say that ex's were bigger which definitely makes you feel a bit more paranoid you're not quite enough. When I was at Uni I lived with a group of other lads who were quite happy being naked. Few of them were big guys and we'd make jokes and banter about it. I was always bit more reserved getting naked because I knew I'd get a different reaction. Also get a bit nervous in changing rooms, especially if you notice a bigger guy around
 
I wouldn’t say I have a lot of inherent problems because mine is small, (if anything I try to stay positive and hope somebody might think small ones are cute! :) )

The ones I can think of of course are that it’s uncommon that people like them (though I am a bottom so my size isn’t as relevant), and maybe certain types of underwear during physical activity can become irritating since it’s basically poking straight out when it’s soft.
 
I wouldn’t say I have a lot of inherent problems because mine is small, (if anything I try to stay positive and hope somebody might think small ones are cute! :) )

The ones I can think of of course are that it’s uncommon that people like them (though I am a bottom so my size isn’t as relevant), and maybe certain types of underwear during physical activity can become irritating since it’s basically poking straight out when it’s soft.
Your optimism is admirable. :)
 
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The ones I can think of of course are that it’s uncommon that people like them (though I am a bottom so my size isn’t as relevant), and maybe certain types of underwear during physical activity can become irritating since it’s basically poking straight out when it’s soft.
Same problem here with underwear, and going commando. Basically anything loose tends to rub and chafe the tip since mine pokes straight out too.